I have been seeing this guy casually for a couple months. He had been begging me to come over to his place last night and to come out to with him to the bars downtown last night - I turned him down because I needed to spend time with my family, and today he’s updated his Instagram profile photo of him with his arm around another girls waist. They’re not kissing or anything but would he be trying to cheat on her with me? I don’t follow him and it’s just a profile photo but I just don’t get a good feeling…Thoughts?
No, they're not kissing in that photo. But thanks to his posting the photo you can see exactly what he'll be doing every time you have to decline his invitation to go out. There's no way he can be trusted. Drop him.
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Anonymous
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How can he "cheat" unless he's your boyfriend?
If he's not your boyfriend, then you dumb to not know that you're one of his hoe chicks. You wasn't available that night so he took the next hoe around to bang
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Asker
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Um guys can absolutely cheat on their girlfriends with other women… so I don’t know what your logic is there… It honestly really sounds like you haven’t been in a relationship before… I literally couldn’t care less if he’s hooking up with other girls but I’m not going to sink to his level and screw over another girl. He can do that by himself hun, it’s called having self respect.
Not at all what i meant. If he's not your boyfriend, he has the right to go ahead and post pics with any girl he wants. You cannot call that "cheating" Anyway sounds like he's not your boyfriend from "casually ". So you cannot say "cheat"
I do disagree. If he has a girlfriend, like the girl in the picture (because that’s what I’m confused about) and hasn’t told me since we’ve been hooking up - and the fact that we don’t follow each other allows him to potentially hide the fact he’s committed to someone, allows him to cheat on her (I am single, I don’t claim him) with me. That would make me the “other woman” and I wouldn’t be okay with that.
I promise I am not disillusioned thinking that he’s mine and only mine. He knows that I’ve been sleeping with other guys and he’s posted about going out with other girls. We’re just friends with benefits if you wanna label it
I would even think about it I would just walk away I mean basically you have to thank him for showing you who he is right now but instead I'm pulling you in way too deep and then doing it I definitely walk away
You said you were seeing him "casually". So what is the issue?
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Because he was asking to hookup with me and take me out on all these “dates” while he’s potentially seeing another woman “exclusively” enough to post about her. I don’t want to disrespect myself nor the other woman by wrecking a relationship just so he can “have his cake and eat it too” besides I’m sure he’s more than capable of ending a relationship himself without bringing other people into the potential drama. Just an issue of protecting my integrity and keeping liars/cheaters out of my social sphere here.
I’m sure of it 😂 and if he is, good for him! I was worried and am asking because if it were me I wouldn’t be posting selfies with my hookups as profile pics 🙅♀️🤷♀️😂
Usually if he is that quick getting with a Girl after getting out of a relationship proves that he is a Player so you are a lot better off without him.
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