I am very fat or not?

[SantiagoRomero]

The girl that I love don't love me because y have a very big belly but I understand that girl, Sincerely I am very fat, but I am crazy and y love her. Y get love attacks some times I don't know what I have to do. What I have been thinking is to A reduce my belly. B let her go out from my life. C or if other can give me another idea.

[razelove]

C. forget about her and work on yourself for yourself. You're 14, being young and horny you lock onto any target that looks like she'll spread her legs like a sidewinder missile onto a heat source. Which is about what you want to achieve, launch, hit, explode.

There are so so many opportunities and women that you can't even imagine, much less have encountered. Get fit, work on your grades, make friends with people who are about making money and not being fucked with. The hottest girl you know in high school isn't shit once you start travelling some with even a little pocket change like 5k or so.

If you get good grades, work on your body, and start making money now, you write your own destiny, buy your own car, take out whatever girl you put your eyes on. Whatever your dream is. Been there, done that. Look at the bigger picture, you have so many more years to live, and so many opportunities to dip your wick. Make yourself a better man, and unless you're already getting laid, never chase only one girl at a time when you're young.

At least three, always be pursuing at least three women, even when you're working on bettering yourself. One or two will pan out, and as long as you keep your mouth shut, so will they. At 14 love is simply the most available hole. I guarantee if you sleep with someone else, the two of you will be "in love" for a couple months. Then you'll both start "loving" other people, call it a break-up, cheating, whatever.

That's how babies are made, horniness, dependability, and availability. 9 or 10 bucks an hour makes a huge difference when you have no bills with the dependability and availability.

[Avicenna]

try losing weight- it will be beneficial for health reasons as well

[SueShe]

You realize yourself that you are overweight and that is the first step towards helping yourself.

There are two distinctive things you should do to address this problem of yours.

1. Change your diet to have more fibers and to reduce you sugar intake
2. Do some physical activities that will help you reduce weight.

In addition, you should refrain from drinking soft drinks and to eat snacks between the meals. Reduce your calorie intake to a maximum of 1,200/day.

Also, you can ask your parents from giving you healthier food and to avoid any kind of junk food or fast food.

But you are the only one to address this problem. Good luck.

[SantiagoRomero]

Ok I will try it AGAIN because i have tried almost all but not the local gim thank you

[SueShe]

The gym is a good solution but you can also ask you parents to get you an appointment with a nutritionist. He/she can set up a plan together with you to limit your calorie intake and to eat the proper food in quantities that are adapted to you.

[SantiagoRomero]

Hummmmmm my mom and father already die and my grand parents are on bankrupt.

[Siren777]

Lose weight for yourself and your health alone. Not because you want to be with someone. You could use it as motivation but I wouldn't suggest using someone as motivation as this is like using someone as your source of happiness, it will end up in disappointment. You are really young so it will be better to instill healthier habits right now than later. Check out YouTube for fitness videos or join your local gym and change your food for healthier options.. goodluck.

[Dinklex3]

Lose weight because you want to, not for some girl 😊
Also, I say forget about her and focus on you. Get help if you need it.

[Iron_Man]

You are only 14 nobody loves anybody at your age

[SantiagoRomero]

that is what you think

[Iron_Man]

If you think so that’s just nothing more than puppy love