I confussed my love and he said I have "pick me energy"?

[Anonymous]

I was trying to appear a loof so i suggested friends with benefits type situation. He agreed but when i told him i liked him as more he said "No im good. You have too much pick me energy."

I dress like a tomboy and i like a lot of "masculine" or "nerdy" things. I've never put down another woman but i did make a remark that he probably wanted a virgin anyway (which i know sounds very stupid) but i feel attacked and belittled.

I understand having sex with someone doesn't entitle you to a relationship or to anything. But i just feel sad he would see my attempts to love him as just "pick me" behavior. I had bought him gifts and food before that. I feel like trash

[ohshee]

That means you probably scared him for me with that means is it he's feeling your energy and it is strong those guys don't even understand that but when two energies touch they melt and it is the most beautiful feeling in this world I would love to see who it is he scared of because if you were tomboy and you have pick me energy I personally would love to meet that person

[FilmGuy93]

Ouch! I'm sorry he said that to you, that's not a great thing to hear. What he's telling you though is that you come across insecure and fake, and like you are starved for male attention.

[lakotabebebe]

He's a dick. He thinks he knows girls, but honestly? You deserve better than him. I want to talk to this guy and give him a piece of my mind!

You don't give off pick me energy in my opinion, he just seems like a douche.

[myname604]

This is why casual sex is destructive. Find a good man, don't have sex until there is a commitment on both your parts.
He is no good and you caved to his level.