Though I don't personally like the idea of dating or marriage, I think it would ultimately be dependant on what their worths are based on. And we all have different ways of measuring & determining that. And just like our ways of measuring, people change overtime as well. Making it very hard to find people that will be best for us in the long-term. Especially since we don't even know what we will be like in the long-term.
But nowadays, when it comes to longterm relationships, I think it's best to be strategic about it to get the most benefit. Stuff that focuses on what kind of person they are. That means doing important things like:
• Finding out their personality & character type and seeing if they would be someone good to hang around. Study them before fully letting them into your life. Find their weaknesses and strengths and really ponder them. I like to go based on the big 5 model.
• Finding out their goals & if their personality or lifestyle could take a major turn based on those goals. And if it did take a major turn, how would it affect you?
I also think it's good to know if our own goals are practical & reasonable. Because, oftentimes people don't self reflect when it comes to this stuff. They don't often ask &/or find reasons as to why they're not even worth dating. Which is a very important thing to do.
It's not worth dating 50% of females. You need to identify which ones are traditional minded and which ones are "feminist" man hater types. This isn't as easy to do as it sounds because some are very clever at faking. And beyond that you'd also need to tell which ones are a good match for you. It's easiest & most rewarding to focus on making yourself the best person you can be and little to nothing on finding a woman. You'll eventually have more options than you know what to do with. I wrote some MyTakes you may find informative... on topics like being a better man, characteristics of a lady and leadership.
They expect the guy to approach and do ALL the work !!! EXACTLY and it's normal it's natural, us women no matter if SHY or NOT we expect you to run after us and make the first step even the second and other big steps such as asking us to be your wife... so what even is the deal here? Yes we are in 2021 but the rule of MEN being the haunters should not change...
You’re young and guys your age have the maturity of a 16 yr old. Guys your age don’t know what they want in life yet, but you’re experiencing it. Hopefully you grow and evolve to be a better person of yourself.
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Well, you're rather full of yourself, which is probly fine with the ladies, but everybody can improve, so hit the gym, hard, and make a shit-ton of dough. You already have the irrational confidence, so with good looks and some bucks to spend, you have best choice of what's out there in the dating pool. And you really only need one good one, so just spin plates, date a lot, and you'll eventually find one. In the process you'll get laid a lot. Win win win all around.
If you don't date, you get no pussy. Pretty simple.
Maybe you are overconfident. Anyways, even with dating and living together, any long term views do seem meaningless. When I am living with a woman, it is easy to see there is no future with her. These modern women have nothing to offer beyond fleeting sex. If they pursue me and move in for a while, fine, but I am not going to lift a pinky to get a date. F that.
Do many of us want to find love? Yes.
Is it worth dating to find it? Rarely
Be happy if it finds you but most people will torment themselves trying to find someone that they are attracted to and who is attracted to them. Women are completely insane and they think that they deserve supermodel guys who make a million a week
These girls often get depressed around 342 when they realize that they are no longer hot and they will NEVER get the guy that they were convinced that they deserved.
32 Year old guys are finally getting some action now that they have fostered a career and physically matured.
They aren't interested in the used up cooled off 32 year old women though. They want the hot 22 year old sluts and they will gladly fuck them and discard them for the next one.
The system is broken and no on gets out alive
men are very much worth dating. Women have normalised the friend zone and the "friendship" date and the world is full of desperate orbiters anyway. So yes, women have every reason to go on dates for free drinks, meals, and plenty of attention drugs. Men on the other hand get literally nothing out of it.
In general, women are not. If you can find a nice conservative girl that likes you, go for it. Besides that, the women that are left live only to consume and accumulate. They don’t care about you, all they want is whatever isn’t bolted down in your home.
No. Women's standards nowadays are far higher than men's. We are supposed to accept fat women, thin women, women with a flat chest, masculine women and everything else but they will only accept a dominant alpha Chad with a nice jawline and is over 6 ft tall and 7+ inches.
Then dont date or date older women since older women tend to be more mature/confident. I personally dont date/marry any guy who ain't young and virgin. Shy girls are usually shy to compliment back since you say that you approach shy girls. Stop being that stupid. I also dont understand the point of making such questions since you will get replies by incels/femcels. I am from middleeastern and believe me it is like middle age and so you dont want it like in the past
The way I see it, the modern woman has nothing to offer.
It’s not worth dating anymore. I have a girlfriend now. It's going good but if it doesn't I'm not gonna ask anymore. I'm gonna be nice but I need a girl to ask me out at least once in my life. This can't be a guy thing anymore.
With MeToo getting you sent to prison for life or putting against the wall and shooting you, the overpopulation of the planet and the fact we'll all be dead before any kids we could have are out of education
No it isn't worth it
Only the ones who don't expect you to do all the work are worth dating.
There are but they're in short supply. And after 25 they're virtually non existent as they're basically all married by then.
u Sounds like you're worth a bag, with a douche in it.
From what I've seen, it isn't worth it. Too many games and too many dishonest women. Sometimes in my opinion, it's a sign to stay single & enjoy doing things on your own
It's not hard to approach women. Millions of us did it when we were your age.
No one's worth dating. Even if they like you, everyone has the potential to ruin your life. Who's to say they won't fuck you over
only best friends of the sex/s you are attracted to are worth dating.
The girls you get are way better once you're older. I had to work for pussy when i was your age but now i got tons of girls all into me with no work.
Absolutely not worth dating women. Just use a prostitute, and forget the rest of them. Women will just bring you grief.
Depends where... In the west i think it's not worth it since there is a hookup culture
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