What are your biggest turn ons vs your biggest turn offs?

Question

Doesn't have to be sexually... it could be in terms of creating friendships, relationships or even when it comes to dating

Lionman95 · Accepted Answer

I don´t know if it´s the same for other guys is a big turn is for me seeing a woman I have a crush on wearing her hair in braids. It may seem not like a big deal but it´s a huge turn on for me.
Another huge turn on is that when a female tells me that talking with me helped her handle stress she had. Even if the talk was about something completely different.
A huge turn on is the same or similar humor if we love about the same thing it´s definetely good sign.
Another turn is if a girl shows her imperfect sides and lets me show mine. I love it when I can be clumpsy and silly with people.
A turn off is talking behind my back. If you don´t like my outfit or being around tell me face to face but don´t talk bad about me behind my back.
Another turn off is being shallow or too demanding. I´m willing to sacrifice time for women but I have a life besides them.
Another turn off is bemothering me I don´t want another mum I already have an over-protective I don´t need a second one.
The biggest turn off would be a woman that´s just interested in sex.

MCheetah · Accepted Answer

Here are my biggest turn-ons and turn-offs in a woman.

BIGGEST TURN ONS:

- Kind / Caring / Gentle / Empathic
- Compassionate / Loving
- Loyal / Supportive
- Intelligent
- Good sense of humor
- Hard working
- Tough / Thick skinned
- Classy / Respectful
- Common interests as me (gaming, superheroes, movies, etc)
- Feminine (style)
- Thick / curvy (big boobies, thick thighs, wide hips, big booty, etc)
- Tall (5'10"+)

What are your biggest turn ons vs your biggest turn offs?

BIGGEST TURN OFFS:

- Feminist / Woke / Progressive
- Transgender / Male
- Queer / Bisexual (lesbian)
- Polyamorous / "Open relationship" type (adulterer)
- Shallow / Superficial
- Selfish / Narcissistic
- Spoiled / High maintenance
- Closed-minded / Stupid
- Abusive / Mean / Bitchy
- Judgmental
- A liar / Manipulative
- Lazy / Entitled

jennifer_bloom · Accepted Answer

Turn on is sweet and smart and self controlled and turn off is greedy and dishonest and uses abusive language and abusive forms of communication, I will never date a guy who curses.

Dchrls78104 · Answer

1. Kindness is a major turn on for me in a friend; cruel words, abuse of any kind, and the use of profanity are major turn offs.
2. If she dresses modestly and tastefully, it's a turn on for me in a prospective date; thongs and the like are instant turnoffs and dealbreakers for me.
3. Tattoos, body piercings, and fake body parts turn me off like nothing else; a natural body without makeup does the opposite.
4. A clean body is beautiful to me along with fresh breath; smoking, drinking, and the use of drugs befoul the body and the breath and make a girl too ugly for me to approach or to want near me.
5. A natural born and fully heterosexual adult female is the only type of person I would date; anything else had better stay away!
6. A decent, modest, God fearing Christian woman, l would date or befriend; that would necessarily exclude feminists, racists, supporters of abortion, and any girl who is not a Christian.
7. If a girl is honest, transparent, and straightforward with me, I would befriend or date her; I cannot stand liars or people for whom everything is a secret.
8. I would date only a girl who is really single; girls who are already married or taken, or who are still hung up on former SOs (including single mothers and widows who still miss their dead husbands) are undateable for me.

ProCoffeeAntiSleep · Answer

Turn ons:
As I’ve gotten older I’ve realised how important humour is for me, like I will overlook a weird amount if I find someone is funny.
But as far as looks wise, I really body hair and some kind of unique way of dressing.
I also really like it when someone likes me, it shows their smart and a good judge of character.

Turn offs:
Jealousy is my biggest one. This is maybe more of a personal boundary than a turn off, but I’ve had a few really toxic and controlling relationships that used jealousy as a justification.

Also any kind of conservativeness in how they live their life. (I mean not wanting to do something because they’ve never done it, not necessarily politics). I broke up with someone just because didn’t watch ‘Dr Who’, but to be fair the reason they didn’t watch it was because it was “too weird”. I don’t even like Dr who that much, but if your weirdness line is most popular BBC program, then we aren’t going to work out

MotorcycleMan · Answer

So many things really.
Turn ons:
I like confident, fun, open and honest, but then shy can be sexy too. I like a sense of humor, but not forced. I like intelligence, I like someone who likes sex, I like kindness and thoughtfulness. I also like petite women. All of these can be turn-ons, but they're not the only deciding factors.
Turn-offs:
Rude people, aggressive/abusive people, Strong-willed people on the low end of the Dunning Kruger scale. People who don't think about others or who don't help others. People who are always looking to get an advantage over others.

Haelaeix123 · Answer

Generally speaking: Loyalty, honesty and sense of humour are great one's for me
Sexually i'd say i like a nice butt, sexual confidence and someone who is adventurous.

As for turn off whatever the case i cannot stand rudeness, arrogance or the extremely judgmental.

Rohaan2020 · Answer

Turn ons-
Respect everyone
Attitude
Being real

Turn offs-
Pretending someone who you are not (wanna be)
Not respecting others thoughts or opinions
Making fun of others
Talking bad about someone behind their back Judging people

ChrisMaster69 · Answer

For me I like confident, intelligent, feisty, individuality in a girl.

I also find tattoos and piercings, as sexy as fuck.

Turn off - toxic personality, a bigot (racist, sexist, against LGBT etc), timid, passive,

Wiredone · Answer

Turn ONS are honesty, loyalty, determination, compationate, educated, affectionate, common sense and a sense of humor.
Turn offs are laziness, rudeness, careless, liars, cheaters, abusive, and jealousy.

Hotboy_booblover · Answer

Intelligence biggest turnon.. loudly speaking biggest turn off

jamesgoldman · Answer

Turn ons
Loyalty, integrity, honesty, intelligence passion/drive/determination and understanding money

Turn offs
Chavism, anything that is conventionally seen as SDE, laziness and the affliction of liberalism

OnTheLevel · Answer

Turn ons: sense of humor, attentiveness Turn offs: poor hygeine, sense of entitlement, poor manners

exitseven · Answer

A nice smile is a big turn on for me. Cruelty is a huge turnoff.

Dannymadness · Answer

Outgoing, articulate, bubbly, kind, and only then consider if she’s hot!

Browneye57 · Answer

There is only ONE important thing - their level of attraction and desire for YOU. PERIOD.

Anonymous · Answer

Biggest turn off are being over weight and tattooed. Biggest turn on is being conservative and open minded.

JesseJayNeak · Answer

Smart folks who think themselves like brainiacs

Anonymous · Answer

Turn on in a girl: sexy feet

Anonymous · Answer

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