Why do American women hate me because I’m Indian?

[Anonymous]

This girl said no Indians and when I answered, she said “ewww. Indian.” And then hung up on me. It hurt me. :(

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[N192K001]

Poor representation.

Consider this: Here in the U. S., Asian-Americans & Asians in the U. S. (including South Asians) are estimated to be only about 5.9% of the total U. S. population, with some areas having smaller/larger percentages than others.
https://www.census.gov/quickfacts/fact/table/US/POP010220

That said, how much personal, face-to-face exposure to Indians have they had? Online representation seems most feasible, but it seems to be the pervert Indians that get experienced online. Plus, it's India's notorious cases of rape (as though only India has it) that U. S. reporters decide to cover in news here.

[Anonymous]

Girls hate small penises, that’s why

[Anonymous]

I like indian guys and im American! ... But I have had bad experiences with men from your country. Two of them asked me if I could help them come here. Others judged me without knowing me, saying that Americans are promiscuous. Others only talked about sex. Those are just a few of the reasons why some American girls don't like Indian guys.

[Ms_Vanderquack]

Probably has to do with the reputation your countrymen have earned online. (and in person)

[Asker]

What do you mean

[Ms_Vanderquack]

The fact that you don’t know suggests that you are part of the problem.

[Asker]

So you hate Indian men too?

[Ms_Vanderquack]

I hate stupid people, ethnicity and nationality aren’t a factor.

[Asker]

So I guess you contradicted yourself because you said I should be used to it or expect it 😭

[Ms_Vanderquack]

Really, when did I say that?

[Asker]

Just admit you hate me

[Ms_Vanderquack]

I hate you.

Feel better? Now just admit that it has nothing to do with your ethnicity or nationality, but about your inability to carry a coherent conversation and to analyze the facts you are given.

[Asker]

If I had BBC, would you like me and protect me against racism?

[Ms_Vanderquack]

What the fuck are you talking about?

[Asker]

Racism only counts when it’s against black

[Ms_Vanderquack]

Well, at least you have openly admitted to being an idiot this time.

[MCheetah]

Because Indian men tend to be perverted, gross, and misogynistic (in the literal sense, not the SJW sense) towards women, especially those outside of India. The prevailing hypothesis is due to how sexually restrictive India is in general, and how dating (whoever you want) and casual sex is barely a thing there.

I've met Indian dudes who came to America, and I can confirm many of them are sleazeballs and f*ckboys. Obviously #NotAll and all that sh*t. I'm not even judging them that harshly; but they definitely were the types who didn't respect women in the slightest. (Potentially even the rapey types.)

Finding an Indian dude talking to a non-Indian woman, who doesn't just want to pump and dump is pretty hard to do. And don't kill the messenger; I'm just telling you WHY Western women don't get with Indian men.

[TommyMountainFigure]

I remember when Yahoo had chat rooms and Indian Men would find their way there. First thing they would do is say 'hello how are u' then hit on all the women!
Women don't like being hit on by random men whether you are white, black blue green orange or brown. It doesn't matter!

That's probably why.

[Avicenna]

Truth is, most women aren’t open to dating all races and ethnicities, and no one group of men is universally desired by women anyway. I suspect that very few women in India would even consider dating/marrying me since I’m from a very different culture (and I’ve been to India), so what’s the point of being upset about if? No one is required to be interested in anyone else.

[SlightlyEccentric]

So you're gonna judge a whole group of people based on the actions of one? That's incredibly ignorant.

[FictionalCharacter]

[Scotte1us]

Hey its like you like oranges and i like apples, its nothing to do who you are , some or lots of women like black guys or opposite. Nothing to do with you are indian i can guarantee there are people out there would like indians. Dont get offended , enjoy your life , its like a lady refusing to dance with you.

[Adam1978]

Why would you even call a girl like that? Have some self-respect. These kind of women act like trash and should be treated as trash. Ie be discarded at best opportunity or in best case never be aquired.

[FictionalCharacter]

A Indian called me at 3 am on SC while I was asleep. He didn’t want let me go when I told him I needed to sleep.

[Anonymous]

Most American women (white or black) are racists against women of other colors. They will deny it but I have seen it over and over again. It is true. If any of them treat you well then they are hiding their true feelings

[Honesttguy]

Her prefetence, i dont like certain look and behaviour of people as well thats my preference and its okey to have standards.

[andreasderjuengere]

When a non-Indian meets an Indian, the chance of having an unpleasant experience is (from my own estimation) about 85%.

And from what I hear, that's not only me.

[na2398]

Has to do with a lot of our countrymen disrespecting their boundaries and objectifying them. These kinda shenanigans are everywhere though and preconceived notions on the basis of race/ethnicity are preposterous.

[SupremeWarlord]

Lol, do not care about these strange people, everybody has someone who hates them. I bet some American women even hate American men for some stupid reason.

[Anonymous]

Unfortunately they think that all Indians are just horny perverts since a lot of them act like that online since the ones in India are so repressed from that country, it’s all bottled up and then they act all weird with American women

[SlightlyEccentric]

That's strange you'd say that since India's population just keeps getting bigger and bigger every year. They're not repressed, just not all of them get any action.

[Opinion Owner]

@SlightlyEccentric well that too gets them sexually frustrated

[SlightlyEccentric]

You mean like an incel?

[Opinion Owner]

@SlightlyEccentric I’m sure it’s plenty of them but not all

[Anonymous]

Why does it even matter? don't talk with them if they don't like you lol it is not that hard

[Oceanvibes002]

Racism and/or prejudice

[bannacookies]

People generalize when they should not.

[doopayo]

Prejudice

[SlightlyEccentric]

Only you would stand up for a creepy incel as long as they're not white

[doopayo]

@SlightlyEccentric with the little context I was given, how tf am I or even you supposed to just assume he’s a incel?

[shydude1991]

Racism