He asked why I blocked him twice?

[Anonymous]

Was dating this guy and he basically told me he wanted to date others so i respected his decision and said “okay i understand ” then i blocked him now 3 days later he’s texting me and asking me why i blocked him. Why does he even care?

[paradiseonearth93]

Lol this happened to me! Exact situation. They get so hot and bothered when you cut ties and block them! It is so funny to me. My guy even called me FIVE times when he found out and messaged me on EVERY known platform freaking out. I was sitting there on my couch witnessing it all like?😂 he was the one who said we couldn’t be serious right now and to see others 😂😂 (I never use that emoji but this warrants it). Boys, I tell ya. They don’t know what they want or what they’re doing, just try not to get caught up in it because 10/10 they’re just idiots.

[paradiseonearth93]

And notice I said boys not men, so guys don’t hate please thanks

[Asker]

So he was mad you were moving on?

[paradiseonearth93]

When I finally picked up the phone his voice was shaking, like it sounded like he was panicking? I acted totally nonchalant and was like yeah we’re cool lol, it was too good. I wish I could have seen him in person; sadly I could just hear his voice. He didn’t want to end it, he wanted his cake and to eat it too or whatever that saying is. I ended it a couple days later because I won’t be sharing sheets with other girls. Then a couple months passed and we saw each other again. It’s just all a mess still but now I at least think it’s funny instead of being so frustrated.

[paradiseonearth93]

My situation is odd though because he’s moving, it wasn’t because he just wanted to sleep around. He just didn’t want to get serious.

[socksguy]

Because you took away his power. If you blocked him, how is he texting you?

[paradiseonearth93]

It is all about power and control. My guy is like this and now I caught on. It’s funny when you start to notice all the ways they show their insecurities.

[socksguy]

@paradiseonearth93 indeed. When this stuff happens... better to take pause, sleep on it to let the emotions settle down and look at it from a different angle..