Girls, Do you prefer you boyfriend is stronger than you?

[Anonymous]

I like that my boyfriend is stronger than me but we like to play wrestle and he can always beat me which I hate! I wanna win occasionally

[Anonymous]

Lol same I want my boyfriend to be stronger but I wanna win some. As you said I have to resort to low blows to win. Me and my boyfriend are pretty rough and competitive when we wrestle and he agreed to let me hit him there as long as it isn’t hard. It definitely evens the playing field. My boyfriend is a strong wrestler but he has a big dangly package and big balls which definitely help me win some 😋😂.


It’s good fun we are basically just sparring like you would in a self defense class and in turn I learn how to wrestle!

[Asker]

he lets you hit him there? my boyfriend hates it and gets kinda pissed

[Opinion Owner]

Also wanted to add there is no hard punching or anything like that it’s just win by submission or pinning I don’t actually hurt him bad just enough to win. Me and him have talked about it and he is ok with me aiming there Bc he used to take Krav def defense with women and is used to sparring like that.

[Asker]

my boyfriend gets so defensive about that kinda thing, he also hates losing so yeah

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah, only occasionally. He used to help teach self defense so I think he is sort of used to getting hit there and likes the challenge. As long as it isn’t hard he is fine. Yeah it just depends on your partner I understand if they don’t like it we just like to spar in a competitive way. My boyfriend also gets hit there a lot in wrestling I think some of his female opponents unfortunately have the same idea I do when they see his big dangly package 😭😂

[Asker]

I'm sure its rough for any guy to teach self defense with all those angry women. I took a class for a few times and it was fun but exhausting

[Opinion Owner]

Ah what type of class? Lol in wrestling it’s technically illegal but the singlets show off his bulge too much and the girls get too tempted to play dirty. Yeah I did one too for a bit.

[Asker]

It was just a self defense class hosted by my university. it was okay but didn't love it.

hah i bet he looked cute in that!

[Opinion Owner]

Follow and pm me and we can talk more? I want to tell you some stories about his wrestling. Haha oh girl he did. My username is: questiongirl567

[Asker]

I don't really keep friends on here. But its cool he's into martial arts. I've found the hottest guys do karate

[Opinion Owner]

Ah that’s ok just wanted to message so other people can’t see our convos I can add you if you want? haha I have some cool stories to tell. yeah karate guys are so hot. What sports do you play?

[Asker]

I'm not much of an athlete. I did some crew growing up but no i mainly just run.

I always thought self defense classes were more geared towards women than men.

[Opinion Owner]

Lol crew and singlet bulges are my favorite on guys 😋. They are he was there to learn but mainly there to help the woman so they had to someone to spar with. My boyfriend has definitely taken many a hit there.

The most memorable one was when he was in his singlet in wrestling he was wrestling a girl and his ass was facing me in a position like one these: images. app. goo. gl/692yXJ2KhmQZvcri6



She was on her stomach below him and swung her heel up into his package. I literally saw his balls bounce around from the impact 😭

[Opinion Owner]

Oh nice! I did some crew too sometimes we did coed boats Bc it was club. I loved the bulges

[Asker]

wow lol... that's a real uniform? that is really scandalous. that also seems like cheating in wrestling.

He actually fights with them in class? I always thought guys worked with guys and girls worked with girls

[Opinion Owner]

It was def cheating she played it off like an accident but I know it was probably on purpose he went to his knees massaging his soft man areas for awhile moaning. Luckily he was ok after a few minutes.

Yeah it’s really important that girls don’t just practice on girls. He would do like drills where he would bear hug and they’d try to escape. It’s good practice all def defense classes need a guy or two tbh.

When he got hit It was hot to see his junk move like that but I was also upset that she did that.

Lol I was also upset with my boyfriend Bc of how often we spar with groin strikes allowed! Like come on babe we practiced for this you can’t just leave your big dangly manhood open like that. Smh I obv need to spar with him more so he can defend himself better.

[Opinion Owner]

He was unprepared Bc he wasn’t expecting her to use illegal moves and he has abs and everything and was stronger taller and more built than her. He leaves himself really open in wrestling a lot Bc he expects the rules to save him but he never expects the girls to break the rules and they do.. a lot.. they see his big package and can’t resist I guess lol

[Asker]

Poor guy, that sounds awful.

I guess it makes sense to practice with guys. I assume he wears one of those full body padded suits for those drills.

[Opinion Owner]

Nah it’s not needed just a cup for full contact. In the first part of practice they did lighter contact where only slaps are allowed he would get girls in a bear hug and they could slap etc. to escape.

He usually just wears mma spandex with or without a cup. They aren’t supposed to where one for light contact so he just takes it out for those. He gets hurt a bit during it but he likes the help them learn and he likes to learn himself too! Do you ever beat your boyfriend in play fights?

[Asker]

wow i thought they always wore that big padded suits for self defense classes.

that's crazy he doesn't wear a cup, especially against women lol

my boyfriend does take easy on me and usually ends with us hooking up

[Opinion Owner]

When I spar with my boyfriend I’m trying to teach him that girls can be mean and will break the rules in wrestling so he defends himself there a little better even if he doesn’t get hit there al that often. Lol I also try to convince him to wear at least spandex but he insists commando is more comfortable for wrestling munevarable smh 🤦‍♀️

[Asker]

Anytime I've seen guys help out in those classes they always wear the padded suit. I can't believe he doesn't even wear a cup. I'd feel horrible if I was one of the women in class. I dont want to seriously hurt anyone

[Opinion Owner]

Nah padded shots aren’t necessary he can take hits anywhere the women are too shy to hurt him anyways and tbh they really aren’t capable of inflicting much damage except for in a few areas…

[Opinion Owner]

He only doesn’t wear it for light contact slaps send him down but it won’t inflict permanent damage so it’s ok. I think he is aware of this.

[Asker]

I think I would by too shy and worried to hurt a guy in class like that. Plus if you can't practice the right moves whats the point of training?

[Opinion Owner]

Well they are the right moves in a bear hug you just pretend the slaps are punches or hard palms it helps to spar sparring is never 100% contact. I’m self defense he did get but but he was usually ok and we expecting it. Wrestling is where it is bad. The only other time I remember he got there by a girl was in another match he tripped her and was gonna fall on top of her for the pin but her knee was near his package during the fall so she stuck her knee up to his package so when they fell his danglies landed right on her knee his balls landed right on them and compressed. He moaned from the impact and surprisingly tried to fight through but she was on her back and swung her knee up into it again maybe on accident? I don't know but it wasn’t good Bc he is very dangly there in his uniform he rolled off moaning massaging his balls. He was ok but was out for awhile after that match I went to the Locker room with him and massaged them. Luckily when he got hit and was massaging himself facing away from me I could see his balls and they still looked big nice and dangly so he didn’t receive any visible damage!

[Opinion Owner]

We spar a lot so I try to teach him how to avoid getting hit there and to he more aware especially in wrestling. Although there wasn’t much he could do to avoid that move…he used to be worse though luckily he didn’t get hit much before this but when we wrestled I could tell he was cocky. He lifted me up and I was sideways across his stomach and he was like bending me but his package was just there like so easy for me to slap every girl know what to do in that situation. I had to let him know how easily I could have hit him. He told me he was using this move in wrestling and I told him he was lucky his girl opponents didn’t break the rules in that moment

[Asker]

Wrestling it seems def wrong and illegal but i can see why people are so competitive. I thought guys would wear pads in that too.

Women are okay practicing on him like that? I feel like it would be weird making intimate contact with a stranger

[Asker]

he sounds really cocky. i bet you thought he deserved some of that

[Opinion Owner]

I mean it’s part of the sport he groped guys in wrestling too it’s really hot to watch actually. In self defense I didn’t mind because he is helping these girls to learn it’s actually really admirable that he risks himself like that to help these girls learn to protect themselves.

Despite the hits I really enjoy watching him. My boyfriend has a build similar to these two guys:

https://imgur.com/a/gw4jyWE

https://imgur.com/a/nVjORJs

He isn’t cocky he is just strong and masculine he isn’t a show off but he is unaware of how vunerable he is. Next time he put me in that position he was completely naked he was bending my back across his stomach to try to make me submit and it did hurt but I was sideways across him his naked package completely undefended both of my hands open. Two hard slaps directly to his dangling balls made quick work of him and he learned his lesson. I think in that situation he did deserve it.

[Opinion Owner]

I mean it is understandable he really has it all the looks the charisma, the big masculine package, the perfect body, athleticism…

[Opinion Owner]

His balls bounced around a lot from the slap and he went down moaning but I think he learned not to ever do that move in wrestling again because of how open it leaves him.

[Asker]

ouch!! poor guy lol

I hope he isn't getting groped in the self defense class. I'd be pissed if i were you

[Opinion Owner]

I’m not mad he is loyal to me the girls do what they gotta do. There is touching but I know never actually leave with the girls and have sex with them. He is such a perfect masculine guy sometimes it’s hot to see him on the ground massaging his balls. It’s hot hearing him moan as long as he is ok afterwords. Iol he is definitely way more defensive against girls in wrestling now the knee thing was really unavoidable he is big and vunerable down there and made contact at the wrong place and she took advantage of the opportunity while he was trapped.

The first one he did kinda deserve tbh Bc he was just assuming she wouldn’t even though he was commando and his manhood was practically hanging down and jiggling in front of her the whole match… she even did this sort of maneuver once before the hard heel to like probe and feel where his soft dangly junk was before the heel.

images. app. goo. gl/5Cwf8VgoQvKirKLA7

And he didn’t move or react. He was too focused on the pin and just assumed she wouldn’t play illegally even tho he was commando and his junk was bouncing around and dangling like crazy! 🤦‍♀️

[Asker]

that sounds awful for him and the girls should def play more fair next time.

Do the women in self defense actually touch him there? I feel like that alone would make him want to wear the pads

[Opinion Owner]

The only thing that sort of makes me a bit jealous is his girl teammates are really flirty but my guy never reacts to it or anything. His guy teammates slap each others ass as a joke but I saw a girl teammate do it to him a few times and laugh. She also pretended to slap his package a few times and laugh but I think it’s only Bc they practice together

[Opinion Owner]

They slap him there and have squeezed before he does where pads just not in the first part of practice during light stuff Bc they aren’t really supposed to the girls need to practice. In wrestling I don't know wrestlers just don’t wear cups for some reason but I’m not complaining I love seeing their bulges hehe

[Asker]

they let them have grab them in class? that seems SO wrong!! i dont get why the girls need to practice that without padding

[Opinion Owner]

It’s very light so it’s ok it’s Krav lol so it really is just part of it. The women need to learn self defense. Luckily he doesn’t do that anymore but he was doing a service to these women. He was very kind and understanding while teaching them. So much so that many women were actually hesitant to hurt him. I think some of them were hoping he was single lol

[Opinion Owner]

Didn’t guys in crew where super revealing Unis like these? They did when I did crew

https://images.app.goo.gl/vubrMzH8Vj7prkh8A

Did you enjoy the bulge?

[Asker]

I feel like it would be weird touching a guy in his privates lol

[Opinion Owner]

Lol yeah I would feel weird too but since he is my boyfriend when me and him spar I love to slap it or grab it to try and make him submit.. he usually still wins though but he is either naked or wears stuff like this…very distracting…

https://images.app.goo.gl/EcAx8BcTSQdRwz1a9

Except his package hangs down more 😋

[Asker]

i bet that's fun - i wonder what the women in class think of him

[Opinion Owner]

Did you ever notice bulges in crew? Lol the women straight up stare at him in the class especially the younger women I can tell he def makes them nervous. One time a girl was just straight up staring at his package and I kind of had to pretend like I was clearing my throat to get her to snap out of it 😂.

[Opinion Owner]

You think you could take my boyfriend? He is 6’4 200lbs skinny but toned you might have a chance if it’s wrestling Bc then he wouldn’t be expecting illegal moves lol

[Asker]

Our crew team was girls only, so no guys to check out

do the women at least apologize if they hurt him?

[Opinion Owner]

In self defense yes. In wrestling no Bc you don’t speak to your opponent and they intended to hurt him to win. Usually in wrestling after the hit they would just get up and wait for him to recover. However the first time it happened in wrestling one of his girl teammates came over to help him while he was down and rubbed his back.

[Opinion Owner]

Some girls cheered but the girls who knew him and were attracted him didn’t I noticed.

[Opinion Owner]

His teammates and the cheerleaders definitely found him to be attractive but as long as he comes home with me I didn’t care as long as he was getting assistance Bc I didn’t want to embarrass him by running onto the mat from the stands

[Opinion Owner]

I always made him feel better by telling him the only reason he went down is Bc of the size of his masculine package (which is somewhat true tbh)

[Asker]

hah guys love hearing how big their junk is

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah it’s just he is unfortunately really sensitive there! He can’t take many hits before going down! When we play fight two slaps from below up into his balls and he is on his knees!

[Asker]

I'm suprised it takes a second blow. I've never seen dudes stand from one hard hit

[Opinion Owner]

And In wrestling those knees and harder heels from below absolutely devasatate him! Those shots from below right unit his danglies and he can’t take it! His junk bounces and receives some damage and his out for awhile on the floor! Shots from below are really devastating blows to him

[Asker]

he should really wear padding when he competes

[Opinion Owner]

He is really strong but shots from below that are hard and bounce and compress the balls absolutely devasatate his manhood it seems he can never fight through it

[Opinion Owner]

Even from the second blow he doubles over while standing I do them quickly in succession right into his masculine areas and make his junk jiggle he can never take it

[Opinion Owner]

I always cheer for my boyfriend but when I see shots there especially if they make his junk bounce I know it’s over his masculinity has been targeted even if it didn’t cause permant damage even light movement devastates his masculine bits

[Asker]

lol omg i wonder if the ladies in his self defense class do that to him

[Opinion Owner]

Lol I’ve seen him take slaps there in class he goes down most of the time moaning but a lot of the time he controls them and it doesn’t happen

[Opinion Owner]

My theory is he is so masculine and hot that his junk has lots of testerone and sexual power so when it moves and he takes slaps to his balls it damages his sexiest most important and sexiest area so he can’t take much because of that

[Asker]

they are slapping his bare balls in class? that seems rather intimidate

[Opinion Owner]

No not bare lol he is wearing spandex in class, in wrestling he is just commando and his balls bounce around visibly in his singlet a lot

[Opinion Owner]

His balls are so soft and masculine he really can’t take hits from below in wrestling they will jiggle around on impact and he will go down moaning massaging them

[Asker]

spandex doesn't hide much, im sure the women like that view.. or maybe they know where to aim

[Opinion Owner]

But he is still my strong and sexy man all men are sensitive there that’s just the price a pay for having a such a masculine guy 😋

[Opinion Owner]

Oh yeah lol girls in def defense check him out hardcore in wrestling his girl teammate pretends to slap him there and slaps his ass like the guys do

[Opinion Owner]

*self

[Opinion Owner]

Do you find it sexy that guys are sensitive down there? I always find mma weigh ins and wrestling weigh ins to be sexy Bc of how sensitive guys look down there in comparison to their muscles

[Asker]

at least they just pretend to slap him there

[Opinion Owner]

For example the first guy in yellow in this weigh in video. So strong looking yet so sensitive. Imagine if they had to fight without cups

https://youtu.be/XjCS0aJtjzU

[Opinion Owner]

lol yeah but he always like immediately covers himself up and touches his package quickly they do it Bc they find his reaction funny and think he is hot

[Asker]

Doesn't your boyfriend fight without a cup?

[Opinion Owner]

Only in wrestling and light contact he’d be insane to do it in full contact.

Lol one time before a wrestling match he was looking so nice with his bulge before a match he was flexing before a weigh in and one of his girl teammates pretended to slap his package. He immediately stopped flexing and put his hands down it was funny

[Asker]

that seems messed up of them

[Asker]

I don't understand the benefit of going without the cup for light contact

[Opinion Owner]

When he was just my crush and I went to watch his games a girl (who is no longer on his team. Wanted to slap his off before the game but he jokingly covered his ass with both of his hands (he was in a singlet by the way) but she lightly tapped his package since both his hands were on his ass and both of his hands went to his package to massage it from the Light slap and he doubled over while standing slightly then she tapped his ass Bc both of his hands were on his package

[Opinion Owner]

She was smart lol I really should have gotten flirting advice from her 😂 she got to touch both of his parts with ease

[Opinion Owner]

It’s to teach girls how it feels and to show them the reactions and how to hit the targets right

[Opinion Owner]

*ass

[Asker]

lol like teach them what junk feels like? how is that different than hitting the cup?

[Opinion Owner]

Nah it’s to teach them the reaction and how to aim Bc guys won’t react the same with cups

[Opinion Owner]

I’m just jealous of the girl that got to slap his ass and package lol she was smart I needed her strats when he was my crush I should have been a wrestling helper haha

[Opinion Owner]

You ever win against your boyfriend by hitting him there?

[Somegirl408]

yeah i would prefer him to be stronger, but most men are stronger than women so i dont think thats something i need to actively look for lol

[Maxmich]

Oh I love it when they are athletic and stronger than me! I really enjoy wrestling around fairly competitively so I prefer him to be able to do that and, for the most part, win.
Now, I don’t want crazy muscle guy, but athletic and at least stronger than me is good (well, at least upper body hehe).

[Anonymous]

I'm assuming you're referring to being "physically stronger". If that's the case I strongly prefer that. It would actually be a major turn off if I could lift heavier stuff than he could.

[Asker]

Yeah physically stronger. I love that he is, but want to be able to beat me occasionally when we play fight so i had to resort to low blows lol

[Starwitch23]

Yeah, I want to feel feminine.

[Tania16]

I would like