How can a spa date on a fourth date be taken as?

[Anonymous]

I’ve known this guy for almost a year but we’ve only been together 3 times cause he’s a very busy person. Now, on our 4th time together he wants to book us a day at the spa. Does he see you as a potential girlfriend if he plans stuff like this? I asked and he said he hasn’t taken many girls to the spa at all

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+1 y

It sounds like something couples would do tbh 😂

[OlderAndWiser]

Sounds like a way to become more casual and relaxed with each other, like you would want to do with a girlfriend.

[kyleelyn199723]

I think it’s pretty inappropriate for a 4th date. He should be taking you out to dinners, going bowling , doing things that can get him to know you a little more. Sounds like he’s showering you in a romantic designed date for possible sex.

[Asker]

Nope we’ve just both discussed none of us is gonna have sex with each other just yet

[kyleelyn199723]

I still think it’s inappropriate

[Robert_]

Sounds like he sees you as a friend. If he was interested he would not be risking walking around with an erection all day.