How do I keep my cool about my boyfriend going clubbing with two female colleagues?

[Anonymous]

I don’t want to be psycho. I’m a bit uncomfortable but I want him to go out with his friends without thinking I will be mad and I want to be chill

[Anonymous]

I feel like there should be a juicy backstory included with this.

Don't really have an answer for you though, I've been in a similar situation and broke up over it, though. Relationships are about trust, you either trust or you don't and I didn't.

[Asker]

There’s no juicy backstory I’m just very jealous and want to change that

[ToastyOats]

I wouldn't. If you were my daughter and this was a serious relationship that could lead to grandkids and marriage I might call him up, and tell him he fucking up myself!

[Asker]

Even though it’s a platonic friendship with the women?

[ToastyOats]

Hey your the one that's jealous! And yes I would. Men fall in love with whatever woman is around, period, slam dunk, no exceptions, unless maybe there a big age gap ot something like that. Im going to be a hard ass Patriarch! People are getting lax on the basics and it shows in how f'd up and confused they are all the time.

[Asker]

I mean he’s 22 and they’re 27? I’m 21

[tatianamay]

Wait, what? Clubbing? Is there any way you could go with him? Do you trust him? Do you trust the two women?

[Asker]

I don’t really like clubbing. I trust him and one of the women

[tatianamay]

Well, if you trust him, then don’t worry about it

[Curmudgeon]

Could you come along? You should I think.

[Asker]

I’m scared to go clubbing because of covid

[ToastyOats]

Ahh sheeit! Masker and No Maskers will never be able to make it work. I hope you just go ahead and realize this whole thang is a hoax. Otherwise your probably headed for a break.

[Asker]

@ToastyOats what do you mean?

[ToastyOats]

Believing the medias narrative on "covid" is such a dramatic break from reality that people who don't get it just are not going to be able to get along in the long term. Not to toot my own horn here but im a really smart guy and keep up with study a side variety of subjects like biology and history. To me, the whole thing is just Obviously fake. Even CNN was running stories like "where did all the flu cases go? " because there where almost no fatalities due to the flu the last two years. They just started calling the flu, Covid. Rebranded it so they could sell people a lot of masks and vaccines. If your under 45 years old you have virtually zero chance of getting the Flu. I've never had it in my entire life, couple light colds in the last ten years and that's it. You are in absolutely no danger at all. Just follow basic hygiene practices, don't drink after strangers, basic stuff okay. Fewer people died this year of the flu than in 2017! It might be tough to realize the people running our society are that stupid and corrupt, welcome to America!

[Asker]

@ToastyOats I’m not in America and I’ve had covid myself. It’s far worse than the flu. Even now I still suffer from the headaches, fatigue and muscle weakness. I had covid in December. It’s not a hoax I promise you.

[ToastyOats]

That's what I mean about it being a dealbreaker.

[Curmudgeon]

Well first, if you are THAT afraid, get vaccinated. Then you have nothing to worry about, right? Moreover, at 18-24, you are the healthiest and LEAST VULNERABLE demographic.

But my point was to befriend these female friends of his. I heartily recommend that when couples, well, couple up, that each partner does his best to introduce his/her friends to the other partner.

[Curmudgeon]

Moreover, if you have already had it, and recovered, you are better off.

[karaspara]

Suck his cock he won't keep you out of his mind

[ToastyOats]

Yes its true that frequent good loving will loser a mans interest in other women, or women at all for that matter, but it also lowers a mans overall vigor and motivation. Its far better to be the kind of guy who just is, faithful and disciplined, without having to keep his bag of boogie empty all the time🤔

[Dannymadness]

How much do you trust him?

[Asker]

A lot

[Dannymadness]

How much do you trust the girls?

[Asker]

I trust one but not the other

[Dannymadness]

What do you think she would actually do though? Msge me if u wanna

[Asker]

I dunno, make a move? She looks like me but a better version and she already stated in not so many words my boyfriend is her type, but she’s like 6 years older than him

[Dannymadness]

I mean if she throws herself at him he might find it tempting, but you said you trust him so I’m sure he won’t reciprocate

[Asker]

I don’t think he will it’s just her

[Dannymadness]

Well then if she does then your boyfriend will be as outraged as you and probably not want to spend time with her again

[Asker]

That’s true. I just need to stop being paranoid

[Dannymadness]

Yeah if you trust your guy you shouldn’t have anything to worry about x

[Asker]

Thank you for your helpful answers :)