Should a girlfriend be concerned that her boyfriend has conversations with girl coworkers?

[Anonymous]

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Conversation that have nothing to do with work

[7Phoenix7]

Most jobs require you to converse with your coworkers. So maybe be more specific? Like do you mean non work related topics? Talking a lot outside of work? What are they talking about?

[Asker]

Yes non work related topics , such as girl asking him about what’s his zodiac sign - personal stuff during work

[7Phoenix7]

Oh ok, well that's pretty normal too. Are you worried about it?

[Asker]

Yes.. because if a girl coworker ask a guy personal questions like that doesn’t that mean she finds him interesting and wants to get to know him? Only reason I find it alarming is because girls normally don’t approach men like that unless they want something from them..

[7Phoenix7]

She might want to get to know him. But that's okay. Some people make good friends with people they work with. The most important thing is whether you trust your man.

[Asker]

Yes.. I understand.. I fully comprehend what you said.. but he is not the kind of guy who believe girls and guys can be friends

[7Phoenix7]

Okay, unless he has given you another reason to worry, I wouldn't.

[Asker]

🙂🙂🙂okk. thanks !

[bowenw]

People at work talk about all kinds of things. It depends on what they are talking about as to whether or not you should be worried.

[bowenw]

Thank you for the MHO. 😊

[NYlatefun]

Conversations? I don’t think so. Is he flirting or has he cheated?

[Asker]

According to the boyfriend. He has been considerate of her.

[NYlatefun]

That doesn’t mean much tbh, I think he makes you feel insecure or you’re insecure in general

[Asker]

you’re right.. after what he has put me through I am not able to believe that he is able to have conversations with girls without wanting something from them.. before he would entertain the conversations because he wanted one thing from them and well.. now it’s difficult for me to believe that he actually wants to be considerate of my feelings

[NYlatefun]

It sounds like you lost his trust. You should either break up or cheat on him.

[Asker]

so.. based on the context given.. he can’t be trusted? even if he says he now knows if he ever feels tempted to do something inconsiderate he will either come to me for help or talk to God?

[NYlatefun]

No, Im not saying that, what I’m saying is that if YOU can’t trust him you should t be with him or cheat on him to feel even.

[Asker]

okk. okk. thanks 🙂🙂🙂

[NYlatefun]

Of course!

[NYlatefun]

@nessiee01 thanks for MHO!

[AI Opinion]

Navigating the world of love and relationships, one of the key elements is trust wrapped in a pretty bow of understanding. 😏 Conversations with coworkers of any gender are pretty standard in the modern workplace. It's the content and boundary of these interactions that truly matter. If it's just friendly banter or work-related, then it's usually no cause for alarm. However, if it's making you feel uncomfortable, it's crucial to express your feelings to your partner. Open and honest communication is the heartthrob of any thriving relationship. Remember, love, it’s not about restricting conversations but nurturing trust and understanding. 💑 Keep the love burning but don’t forget to fan the flames of trust and communication too!

[OtterMan68]

no, it's perfectly normal behavior

[laly520]

do u mean a flirty conversation or?

[moneymagnet24]

Big red flag

[jahaims]

No lol