Confidence, intelligence, independence, Feisty / Fiery, her own person, individuality.
basically someone able to stand up to me and not get swamped.
the really important bit for me, is that there needs to be an emotional connection, hence some of the bits above.
Someone quiet and passive would be a nightmare.
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A sweet, loving, friendly, and polite kind of girl, intelligent, loyal, and with a bit of an imagination: that's what I want in a girl. As for the other kind you describe, despite what many men might say, no man really wants such a woman (Proverbs 21:9,19).
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The 1st one. You see the ability to speak your mind is usually an effect of someone who is not courteous. You can be the first one and still speak you mind. I don't want a girl who cannot be a kind person due to a lack of emotional control. Fuck off. Just because you have the right to say whatever you want doesn't mean you should.
I value kindness and warmth. So I love sweet girls who are kind and caring to everyone. It just absolutely melts my heart to see a girl being good to people just for the sake of being good to them. I love it. Hard to find though. It usually takes me 3 or so years between break ups to find someone like that.
I like someone sweet and polite but strong and confident. Who knows when to be kind and when to be candid. They do not have to mutually exclusive. If she considers being bitchy as speaking her mind, she is mistaken and I don't care for such people, women or men. I speak my mind when I find it important, hopefully without being a jerk.
Immature and unpracticed men might be initially attracted to a bitchy girl who has very little time for them as it makes them chase the woman but it gets tiresome fast and no man wants to marry such a woman. Long term it will fail.
Sweet, loving and friendly, classy and not afraid to speak her mind.
Both... and she knows when either is appropriate.
Kind and gentle until someone goes too far and then she opens up on them like a flamethrower.A down to earth chick thats loyal and loving, nothing out of this world except maybe the loyalty which seems to be an alien feature nowadays
Genuine and kindness. Good sense if humor, adventurous in bed. And yes she freely speaks her mind
I like to meet a girl who is sweet, likes to treat others nice, classy kind of girl
I want a girl that is sweet, loving, classy, and has a backbone. Not afraid to speak her mind, but not bitchy either
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