Guys, Snap chat with other women?

[Anonymous]

I already had an issue with my boyfriend sexting other women. When we talked about it he said he felt like we weren't having enough sex and that i didn't desire him. So i turned up the sex and attention.

Few weeks later he swiped away a message from a woman on snap. chat so fast so i asked him what's up. He sent her and other people. on his snap his work project... This is shady isn't it... I'm not messaging with anyone of the opposite sex

[Mofunfour20]

We can't validate your feelings especially if you haven't sat down and talked with him about it... asking us implys that we would know whats going on. Why are you afraid of confronting him about it? there's obviously fear if you're asking people that arnt him

[Asker]

We have talked but he's says he did nothing wrong by sending a snap about work to a woman he was sexting with. If i did the same it would be unacceptable and he's mad that i brought up the sexting from 3 wks ago. This is related as the woman was one of the women he was sexting. he told me i could add this app that lets me access his phone remotely to check whenever i like. I just need a males perspective and opinion. I am open to the fact that maybe there is some thing lacking in our relationship.. i have even been down for threesome s and he said no so I don't know I'm just trying to figure things out. I'm hurt because he has been so good to me but these things crush the good ya know

[Mofunfour20]

Since you're so sensitive about it, just leave. Or trust him and stay

[K-I-S-S]

It's over.

If a guy is not having enaugh sex, the correct order is.
Notify you > break it off if things don't change > sexting other women

This guy or similar are a waste of time.

[Asker]

He told me today that i could install this software that i know of to access his phone from mine whenever i like

[K-I-S-S]

Is this really the guy you see yourself with for the next 10-20 years?

Checking his phone, can't trust him, his new tricks etc etc.

The personality is off, he won't change, not for you or his new eyecandy.

I dont't know how attached you are to him, if you have kids or not or etc.

This sort of behavior should not be tolerated if you don't plan to share him.

Guys in general are only as loyal as their options. That's a fact.

[K-I-S-S]

Everything is in my view and on the info at hand.

Of course make your own decisions.
I know tons of guys who cheat on their women, it's almost "normal".

Take care.

[Asker]

Does that mean I'll never find a loyal partner

[K-I-S-S]

I'm loyal.
And i'm sure i'm not the only one.

Best way to get one is to take your time.
And it's best to try a pretty hot dude, who is also shy/nerdy.
They seem to be more loyal.
Although, not very many decent men who are single.

The situation sucks, but what can you do.

[Asker]

Do you think that him saying to add the software is a sincere gesture?

[K-I-S-S]

I mean it's not the first time.
Sexting other women is pretty serious.
Only he knows how sincere he is about it.
But not very likely and you are also a bit too wishful. Understandably you would like him to be a decent man.

I don't know the guy, while you know him.

Just call me pretty sceptical

[Clarke498]

Red flags all around. I'm all for talking with my female friends, but cheating through Snapchat... Unloyal behavior...

[spartan55]

You're an idiot, he never stopped.

[Asker]

You don't have to be so rude tho... my feelings are hurt enough

[spartan55]

I apologize, but once a guy lies to you that should tell you he has no respect for you.

[Asker]

He said i could install spy ware on his phone so i could trust him.. wyd think

[spartan55]

So he would just buy another phone or use a different device. Hollow gesture on his part.

[Canceled]

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