Guys, if a girl asked for your number so she could invite you to play sports, would you initiate a text/call or walt for her to contact you?

[Anonymous]

If you were interested

[Browneye57]

It all depends on the guy, and his level of interest. He may call or text, or he may wait.
If YOU want to make something happen, I would send the text. "Will be at [such and such] Thursday night, stop on by." You might just pique his interest.

[Andrei42]

I'd wait for her to initiate the convo since she asked for it. But if the sports event is comming and she's silent i'd just send a message to check if it's still up. (That's just me, because i want to be organised and if it's a no, i'd plan something else for that timespan)

[Asker]

Do you think inviting him to play sports with my friends and I is a quick way for him to lose interest?

[Andrei42]

Maybe! Depends on how mature he is. Mature or serious = he won't lose interest, he'll be happy to meet ur friends. Immature or not serious = he'll refuse to come. (it also depends on his personality -extra or introvert- ) If you want him to lose interest the best way is to tell him politely that you're only interested in being friends.

[TheBootyChest]

I would get the conversation going. Even if we don't do sports together we can at least talk and find other things in common.

[Asker]

I have a question if you can spare time. The guy I invited joined us. During the sport, he kept looking at my body, showing me he's checking me out. We had good conversation getting to know each other. We ate dinner with our friends after playing a sport. He and I sat across. At the beginning of the dinner he started mentioning how he's single. He kept talking to me one on one. By the end of the night, he talked to my sister who was sitting next to me and started making more eye contact with her as he talked. He's known me and my sister for awhile and even told me how he forgot her name at one point. But he asked her that night if she was okay while she was shivering. He didn't ask me that. When we talked outside, he fistbumped my sister and said "We would get along well" after she said she eats practically anything. He was looking at me as he said that. My friends and I all stood in a circle and he kept cracking jokes and started making eye contact with just me again, not my sister while standing next to her. Which one of us is he into?

[TheBootyChest]

Sounds like he was more into you. But maybe he was trying to show you how well he can get along with your family. Try inviting him to hang out again but with less people, or just with you. Then you will get more answers to your questions.

I hope he proves to you that he likes you.

[Asker]

Thanks for the kind input. You are a valuable human being

[TheBootyChest]

You are very sweet to say that. Message/follow me so we can talk more often.

[Anonymous]

Play sport? With a Girl? Why?

Why would I want to ever do that?

Are you one of those girls that think that competing with guys is a good way to win their hearts? It's not. It's just a boner killer, even if she is decent looking

[Asker]

How so?

[Opinion Owner]

Girls who want to compete with guys might as well be lesbians

[James_Likes_PPL]

Bruh obvs you have never played beach volleyball. Playing sports with girls is fun. It’s kinda like bowling. No one cares about who wins it’s just fun to hang out socially and do an activity at the same time.

[James_Likes_PPL]

If she asked me I would wait.

[Asker]

I have a question if you can spare time. The guy I invited joined us. During the sport, he kept looking at my body, showing me he's checking me out. We had good conversation getting to know each other. We ate dinner with our friends after playing a sport. He and I sat across. At the beginning of the dinner he started mentioning how he's single. He kept talking to me one on one. By the end of the night, he talked to my sister who was sitting next to me and started making more eye contact with her as he talked. He's known me and my sister for awhile and even told me how he forgot her name at one point. But he asked her that night if she was okay while she was shivering. He didn't ask me that. When we talked outside, he fistbumped my sister and said "We would get along well" after she said she eats practically anything. He was looking at me as he said that. My friends and I all stood in a circle and he kept cracking jokes and started making eye contact with just me again, not my sister. Which one of us is he into?

[James_Likes_PPL]

If he asks you out on a second date within the next week or two, you. Otherwise forget him becuase you deserve better. Have high expectations. Honestly I would suggest not bothering with guys That aren’t clear about their interests. A man should make an effort to win a girls affection.

[Asker]

I see. What about if he doesn't ask me on a date but asks about when we're going to be playing again?

[Asker]

a sign of interest or nah?

[James_Likes_PPL]

An interest of getting in your pants. Not much else.

[Asker]

I see. Is it possible he just wants to get in my sisters pants as well? not seriously date her?

[Jamie05rhs]

I would wait for her.

[Asker]

I have a question if you can spare time. The guy I invited joined us. During the sport, he kept looking at my body, showing me he's checking me out. We had good conversation getting to know each other. We ate dinner with our friends after playing a sport. He and I sat across. At the beginning of the dinner he started mentioning how he's single. He kept talking to me one on one. By the end of the night, he talked to my sister who was sitting next to me and started making more eye contact with her as he talked. He's known me and my sister for awhile and even told me how he forgot her name at one point. But he asked her that night if she was okay while she was shivering. He didn't ask me that. When we talked outside, he fistbumped my sister and said "We would get along well" after she said she eats practically anything. He was looking at me as he said that. My friends and I all stood in a circle and he kept cracking jokes and started making eye contact with just me again, not my sister while standing next to her. Which one of us is he into?

[Jamie05rhs]

Are you the girl who is in the soccer club? And your sister is in it, too? And this is the guy who flirts with both of you?

[SamFromFL]

Yes. She asked so I assume she will call me

[Asker]

Do you think playing sports with him is a "boner killer"?

[SamFromFL]

Fuck no, a sports nut like me would be thrilled. Let’s see if she’s a winner

[SamFromFL]

Which sport?

[Asker]

Ultimate football, he told me that he's scared to run into me because he plays rough. does that indicate he isn't as thrilled?

[SamFromFL]

Doesn’t say whether he’s thrilled or not. Just tells you that he hasn’t played many sports with girls. Just let him know you play rough also and bring it on.

[SamFromFL]

When were you planning to call him?

[Asker]

Maybe text, not call. We haven't actually had a phone convo yet. Thanks for your input

[Anonymous]

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