Totally normal interactions with people outside work. Modest behavior conservative in dress. Poll dancing is dancing with limited clothing. And liking her or him as much as you could like a person… Date yes //no.
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Wouid you date a poll dancer who was strictly dancing no -touchy- touchy ?
I have dated a dancer before and one of my best friends used to ba pole dancer at a topless and most of the girls do work like that it is a no touchy touchy type thing And just because a girl does pole dancer topless does it mean if there are any different than anybody else is there to do a job they're there to make money to support your family if they have one are there using the money to go to school to go to college to get an education to better themselves to provide better for themselves yes I would do it in a heartbeat like I said I did that one for a while and my best friend I got her out of it. But now she's a hooker LOL girls will be girls I guess
It's hard for a poll dancer to be modest and conservative because she can't be a poll dancer if she have these traits which means that these 2 given options contradict each other...
Personally i won't date a pole dancer because i believe that a girl should only appear naked to her future husband and not the whole world who saw her naked before him...
In the end it's hard to say no if she's really the way you said she is and ready to leave all this dirty work for her man but in general i'd say not but never say never, leave the 1% chance opened 😄
I will disagree you can absolutely be modest outstdw of work even if you have to be a certain way for work. Just like an actor can be themselves off script. But obviously I accept your answer as one your preferences to not date one 😊
Ehen an actor kisses a woman or have sex with her, they do it for real even if it's acting, in the end they have done it 😌
I respect your opinion skyscrapper girl but qe can't act in out lives and say in our jobs we can be h*es and anything and when we finish we become angels...
It's either your good or bad, it's either your have morals and values or not... there is no middle part!
I won't date a stripper for sure, like i said my future girl should be someone respectful, someone who respects her body and consider it precious and only available for the one who loves her and not available for everyone...
We always tend to hide the wrong things that we do by art or comics or other things but the reality is that poll dancing in my opinion is related only to cheap girls...
Your someone that i consider precious but in the end your free to choose what you want 😊
I just don't think it would work well. Part of the whole illusion is that the girl is available. And to make that illusion work means hiding one's relationship. I would find it very hard to isolate my "work" like that and be honest with my partner.
That being said, I've danced a few poles at parties in fun, and ground on a few laps, but all knew it was just in fun and if I was dating at the time, with his encouragement. Nobody was being led to believe I was available.
PS: Not sure how to dance on the pole pictured... lol
It’s not just a job… it’s a sexualized job. I bet you wouldn’t like it if your boyfriend was clearly horny and chasing after some chick. Same thing men don’t wanna have other men after their girl and a person that throws herself at men would cut too deep thus all and I do mean ALL the comments from men saying hell no.
I absolutely could and would... in fact, a friend/acquaintance of mine was a poll dancer for years, and I knew her weeks, months and all... till one day I found out randomly that she was, because she said it. Things during and after knowing such, were just "regular and normal" so, knowing her better and also knowing her husband and how this fact of her working/worked as a pole dancer is "not a big deal" I don't see why it could affect me in negative ways.
There's just plenty and many things that are just great about her, just many other people who are not pole dancers have great things about them... as for challenges, we'll find them too, in everyone and every relationship, so... I would just not close myself to the possibility of ever, maybe end up dating a pole dancer, you just never really know...
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I don't think i would be comfortable dating any kind of sex worker and ultimately that is what this is about; people aren't paying for the artistic qualities.
I don't know I enjoy watching poll sag ing it’s very impressive and I’m not at all into women. But either way yeah there’s gonna be sexual aspects to it, trye 😊
I understand many establishments allow extra on the street but from what I know It’s a choice you don’t have to do more than dance & and yes I’ve had friends where that’s all they do. I certainly wouldn’t go behind dancing.
Most of them won't date their "clients" or customers. So you'd be rare. That wouldn't necessarily be a "deal breaker" lets say that. So many other things to consider.
I'm open to it, but never knew any woman that did 'Pole Dancing" A. K. A. "no-touch stripping" that didn't pick up Hundreds doing "favors" with the clients!
The guys who just want sex will say: yes. They'd also say yes to the woman who does porn for a living & the woman who strips fully nude... and comes home with huge tips that no man would ever pay her just for looking at her.
No. I have nothing against sex workers or pole dancers, AT ALL. However, I don't think that sex work or pole-dancing at strip clubs have a place in a monogamous relationship, no.
I don't think I'd date a pole dancer. But if I found myself in that situation. No! Because why would she be dating me if she refused any touching. I mean doesn't generally progress to that point eventually.
I've dated a stripper before, probably wouldn't do it again especially now that things have gotten so murky in that world with OF and the implications of what comes from doing that kind of work.
That's every stripper that tends to a male audience, even if they would be willing to be touched, houses have policy. Every stripper that tends to a female audience is the reverse.
Possibly. I’ve been doing at home gymnastics on my single bar and I’m getting stringer I’ve never pill dances but I’m used to wearing very little bc it’s more comfortable and I’m alone… I can imagine just going into a zone and thinking of it as art & doing this on stage … if I can pill shave physically as I say I’ve I ever done. But irl my main concern is security. I’m living in a place I’ll be leaving so it’s not like I need to worry about my Rep lol but I’d wirey about the faucet floor. If it’s safe I might consider it but you know those crazies like to shoot up a sex positive establishment, soooo I don't know
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