Why women get angry if you reject them over their body count?

[Anonymous]

I don't slut shame. I do believe in liberation , freedom of women. I don't hate them , every person can do whatever they want , can sleep with countless guys. Generally I don't care. But I don't want relationship with someone more than two past (As I am the same ) . However if you reject women over this , they always get angry. I don't say harsh words , they can freely continue their lifestyle.

[JBlade]

The assumption is always that any guy has a body count too and has no room to judge, which is why they get angry. That’s only true and fair to a degree though. We don’t all have a sexual past. I’m a virgin and if a girl tells me she has a bodycount of anything, I’d strongly consider rejecting because it’s not fair to me. They chose to have sex with someone and it didn’t work out, that’s not my problem. I don’t need details, we just aren’t compatible. I don’t just have to accept anything.

[Anonymous]

Double standards. When a woman rejects a man because of anything, she's just exercising free choice to pursue what she wants. But when a man rejects a woman because of anything, he's somehow being judgmental, shallow, sexist, etc

[Anonymous]

We've both had a past, it's really not something I'm going to discuss - or ask of him. If a guy asks that question and can't accept my past dating life is not a topic for discussion, he's instant history. I can count on one hand with fingers left over the number of sex partners I've had in the past, but that's just none of his business.

[Asker]

It's a guys business to know about you before dating you. I have a limit of three at my age. I will not ask anyone about details however if have more I don't want to date them. It's that simple. But generally women get angry over this. Guys can also deny if we want

[Opinion Owner]

You do you. I don't get angry about it, but that quietly and calmly ends it for me.

[Asker]

That's nice. But I have seen some women do get angry over this. Anyways you said both had a past. Hypothetically what if someone what had not a past approached you?

[Opinion Owner]

It's just not an issue one way or the other. I'm not one to get into sex, either physically or as a discussion topic, until dating for quite some time. There are a lot of us who dated someone for a long time who we thought was "the one," gave in to having sex, only to find out it was a bad idea. The only thing I care about with a partner before having sex is does he have any STDs?

[Asker]

See so it's better to clear stuff first before dating. Imagine you can start dating someone , even after sometime had sex with them. Then they leave you by saying , you had a bad past , or slept with too many. Sometimes if someone is asking nothing about your past , they may not be serious about you. As they just want to have sex with you they will not bothered by any of your past. However some one who only date seriously may want to know more about you as they want to invest their time seriously

[Opinion Owner]

That's your opinion, and that's fine, it doesn't have to coincide with mine. We just have different approaches and place different priorities on the topic. If a guy wants to talk about previous boyfriends, sex partners, etc. before dating or on a second or third date then he's not one I'm even interested in going out with. For anything.

[CordetteMonet]

Because it's the past. We all have a past. A woman's body count doesn't change who she is as a person. She can be good girlfriend material, even if she does have a high body count.

[Asker]

I like equality more , I had two. I am okay with three. I am not looking to fool around. I don't consider girls with way higher body count as relationship material. If they were they wouldn't have so much body count. Some have body count over 20 or something. That's cause they sleep around , do ONS. Why do you girls say guys don't have standards then hate it when he have?

[tzdc21]

Simple. Because in today's society, men cannot have standards.

[In_Trance]

I don't get your logic. Their past is none of your business

[Asker]

It is if I want to date them. I have some standards and I like to follow them. If not me they can date whomever they want. But I am not a simp

[In_Trance]

that's as clear as mud. But whatever works for ya

[ChubbyKing]

Women do like living with accountability for their actions, it's not just with body count

[Anonymous]

What is body count

[Asker]

People you had sex with

[Opinion Owner]

So how can a woman know that she has a lot of body count?