Men: What's more attractive to you--a girl's physical appearance or how much interest she shows?

[Anonymous]

What gets you liking her more?

[FraITA92]

Interest, definitely.
I grew up thinking that women didn't like me because they wouldn't even look at me, then I found out that most women are more retrograde than men, because although they complain about sexism and inequality they will never take initiative and adding to that, they will pretend that they are not interested, trying to get the man to go out of his way for her. That sounds like narcissistic behaviour. I don't want that.

In last years I have been only interested in women that make some sort of first move, because they are not hypocrite, that's a great starting point and it makes me feel so much more at ease.

As far as looks are concerned, I went with girls that I didn't like so much esthetically, but I didn't go beyond chatting or the first date or I didn't have sex with them.

Overall, I prefer an average looking girl that is clearly interested in me, more or less interested but clearly, over a very good looking girl that pretends she is not interested.

[Ice_Bear_Milkshake]

It would definitely be how much interest they show. Looks and physical features ultimately fade as time goes by so choosing that special someone in your life should be more of a case of whether or not you will still enjoy their company of x amount of time

[Finchie40]

Both make a big impact but her personality and her loyalty is what matters most , just because someone is beautiful on the outside doesn’t mean they are beautiful in the inside , So when she has both that’s where the attraction comes in , When she treats me like a priority and not a convenience, she removes selfishness and makes me feel wanted an appreciative , chemistry and connection is what matters most. I will give her what she gives me is pretty much what makes love grow , no one is perfect but when you make each other a priority that’s what matters most

[Floppy2112]

There has to be some of both. Some walmart-looking-trashy chick can show as much interest as she wants, I won't bite. And a girl can be a bonafide 10 and look down upon me as if I am trash and I won't have any intent. And I don't necessarily need a 10 or someone obsessed. I have to be attracted to the girl and she has to show a little interest. If either are missing nothing happens. If both are there, something may happen.

[Browneye57]

The NUMBER ONE thing every guy looks for is YOUR level of attraction and desire for HIM. For without that, nothing is going anywhere fast.

Now that said, love can't start till attraction does, and then there needs to be a conversation. So always look your best, get some help with it if necessary, and develop those social skills - they are learned.

[boggboss]

Its got to be a mix off both as she could be the most beautiful girl in the world but if ahe shows no inteest it's pointless equally if she likes me more then life but looks like a man I won't be attracted to her

[Asker]

Looks like a man 😂😂

[Anonymous]

What's more attractive you to with a guy? lol Answer is probably the same. Both need to be there to some extent. I mean, if she's hot and showing no interest, what's the point? If you're not attracted to them, while showing interest is good, it's not if you have no interest back.

[This_Is_My_Opinion8]

Guys are not used to be wanted. So when a girl shows interest, regardless of her looks, she immediately becomes more attractive to us.
Stuck up hot girls are a dime a dozen. A girl that actually thinks we are hot as fuck and tell it to our face... Treasure.

[Anonymous]

Both.
Physical attractiveness needs to meet some threshold, and expressing interest is a force multiplier for her physical attractiveness. Whatever she has going on will hit way harder when she takes initiative, approaches, and expresses interest, etc, etc. Then come factors like: how many guys has she been with, and the farther from zero that is the more negative a factor it is.

[DonkeyDan]

While physical attraction will always play a part, a girl that is interested in me is a big draw, she still has to have a personality to back it up though.

[K-I-S-S]

Her looks are more important than her attention level.

Cute and attentive would be the way to go.

If she is decent looking then you could work with it.

Not attractive just isn't going to be able to do much for most people.

[Mofunfour20]

Her interest. If she's and doesn't have interest in me, its beat to move on. Why convince her to like me when people already do

[kstout6]

You know what's sad about this? "how much interest she shows you" is an actual option. This would never be an option for a girl.

[GoldenAxer]

How much interest she expresses positively affects her appearance as I see it. I like seeing smiles and laughs and open and comfortable body language.

[GoldenAxer]

That said, if she's one of those poker-faced and super serious types expressing interest, I don't find that so attractive even visually.

[Lionman95]

For me it´s her interest. If she doesn´t show interest in conversations I don´t care how pretty she is because I´m over her before the day ends.

[witness1]

Attractive people have an easier time to initially hook up. But anything long zerm can just work via personality. So to me, the answer depends on what you are searching for, a hookup or a lifetime partner.

[Nik1hil]

Her appearance brings us to her..

But her enthusiasm and interest keeps us involved with her..

[DJB72]

Her character every time. Physical appearance can change in a heartbeat. Yes, like all men I'm visually stimulated but it's not enough on its own

[pushingrope]

Would rather be with an average Lady who truly loves me, than a skanky supermodel who can't stop cheating, and doesn't care about me

[Jake99999]

You need both. A hot looking woman who has zero interest in you is nothing.

[MCheetah]

Interest. Looks are easy to work on, and common enough to not be that special.

[Dvchill]

Looks are like the “hook” at the start of a paper or book, but I stay for the information (body paragraphs) which is funny cause I actually mean the opposite of what u would think I’m insinuating😂😂

[Darklydarkened]

Interest in what? Me? Why would I care about an ugly girl showing interest to me?

[FilmGuy93]

How much interest she shows is way more important to me.

[Weater67]

Since 99% or women are only interested in about the top 10% of guys, I’d probably say if you got any interest you’d be lucky.

[jamesgoldman]

Interest over physical

Personality over interest

Intelligence over personality

[zagor]

Been a long time since I've gotten any interest so hard to say.

[TexasRed95]

As someone that has never had a woman show interest. It would be that hands down.

[Wise4myage]

Its both really, but I think interests is more important.

[Shy_Steve]

How much interest She shows because you can see an attractive Girl anywhere.

[Twalli]

If I am already attracted to her, reciprocal interest is preferred

[Ailaw22]

Physical appearance for initial interest then it goes to if she is actually reciprocating