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+1 yUnderstand that Nature's FOREMOST function of male/female 'intimacy' is an AUDITION for perpetuation of One's genes. "THIS (physically) is what I'M bringing to the negotiations, ... what do YOU offer?" If it is displayed, Western Society doe NOT ALLOW a Male to PRESUME (literally) she's 'up for grabs'. The hypocrisy is when one is espoused and yet the other, expected. And yet, rabid Feminists decry that males should NOT infer female intent from her non-verbal visual cues. Males based from the REAL world of Nature, wherein 'plumage' and sensory cues INDICATE encouraging courtship... in modern HUMAN culture, are frustrated by paradoxical messages!
You don't have to be 'attractive' to offer or receive PLATONIC friendship BUT... platonic friendship is functionally FAR different than 'COURTSHIP' behaviors. Most 'problems' arise from 'false flag' situations, claiming one and hoping for... or clandestinely maneuvering for... the other 'more privileged' status. "Doing it, 'on the cheap' so to speak"... to save THEIR egos rejection. There is an old limerick:
"If YOU are here after, ... what I'm here after. THEN, hereafter 'WE" are here after the SAME thing"
The previous century had its 'Swingers Clubs' ... this generation is less hypocritical naughtily touting "Friends With (intimate) Benefits" acknowledging that with employment of responsible birth control... females of ALL ages can admit feeling 'concupscient' and 'good girls' DO INITIATE obvious foreplay.00 Reply
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2.6K opinions shared on Dating topic. Kind of. I mean, it depends on what you mean when you say "show off their bodies". There is such a thing as showing too much. But a woman who conceals her body can be kind of a drag, too. It means that she isn't comfortable in her own skin. She appears inhibited and self conscious, and may have a poor self image.
She doesn't have to show cleavage or wear short skirts. But it shows poise, confidence and self-assurance to have good posture and wear things that flatter the shape. And there is nothing wrong with occasionally wearing clothes that reveal bare arms, shoulders, upper chest, back, legs and even midriff.00 Reply
Not at all. Showing skin has become way too mainstream nowadays no one has modesty anymore. A woman who's wearing more clothes and hiding some of her flesh gets way more respect from me than I woman who's constantly showing off skin and flaunting her sexuality.
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No I find them to be decent human beings not corrupted by America’s glorification of sin and yes I’m also jealous that I don’t have a body to show off but that’s not the point
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+1 yDefinitely not! Something about a girl not showing me anything makes my mind wander as to what she has under her clothes. It's a tease in a sense haha. And if I like this girl I'll wait until she's comfortable because seeing her already is a blessing so seeing her comfortable with ME turns me on for one and second I get to see her in ALL of her beauty without her clothes which is another blessing. Seeing too much of someone's body (or anything really) starts to get less interesting if it's seen WAY too much.
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+1 yThey are not unatractive, they just dont feel confident enough or have low self esteem about themselves and it makes them feel like there body is not good enough and worried that if they do people will critisize them so they would rather cover it up
Women with great bodies cover it up thinking its not good enough and women with not so great body's show it off thinking its the best body in the world.
We got to remember though that women do have to carry kids and ounce they given birth their body dosent look the same and it can take them years to feel confident in their body again01 Reply- +1 y
What you just said was nonsense
+1 yKinda, though I don't mean failing to show off skin. I mean more like she's wearing clothes that don't accentuate her natural features, wearing colors that don't match her skin tone, etc. I don't like it when girls flash too much skin, but I like girls who know how to dress in a way that suits their natural bodies.
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For example, I think it's not so attractive when girls wear dresses that flare out below the breast. I don't know what they're called. But they look like something a pregnant woman might wear even though the girl isn't pregnant. I think that's really not very flattering.
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Same for a man. Say a man is wearing a suit but it fits poorly as opposed to a suit tailored for his specific body. I think it makes a huge difference.
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To be clear I'm not talking about flashing skin. I see girls wearing midriffs and clothes showing max cleavage or thong bikinis on the beach and I don't find that so attractive. It's like she doesn't give me a chance to discover her body as I undress. I like my Christmas presents wrapped nicely, not presented in a see-through bag. I'm just talking about accentuation. A girl could be covered from the neck down and I think that could be so attractive, but only if the way she dressed is flattering to her body and accentuating her natural features rather than hiding them.
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+1 yA well dressed woman is so much more attractive than an underdressed one in my opinion. Flesh is on. display everywhere these days and it’s repulsive with young teenage girls copying the trends which is also disturbing. There are plenty of options in fashion to show off a nice figure without the need to leave everything on show. Dressing like that attracts attention yeah but also an attitude and many wrong assumptions and I just can’t think that all girls dressing this way truly want that
00 Reply a man can see if the girl is atractive even is she is quite dressed up. for me personally, women who show their bodies a lot, seek atention, either sexual or general. and many times, those girls are the ones with actually low self esteem.
i personally most like proud girls, who i find very atractive and it doesn't matter, how much dressed they are.00 Reply988 opinions shared on Dating topic. Bodies cannot be hidden.
You can refrain from showing skin but you'll always show your posture and your figure. Even if you wear fluffy clothes one can still tell the overall body type.
And no it's not unattractive, personally it's all the same to me, it takes more than a crop top to sway me to begin with. Last girl who really caught my eye was wearing a shirt 3 times her size.00 ReplyI don't mind a girl that isn't the prettiest, or best body, if she is happy with herself. Self confidence is sexy.
But cleavage goes a long way. And showing a lot of leg helps too.
So unattractive, NO. But lacking in potential. I hope once in awhile she shows some merchandise.
🧁00 ReplyGirls bodies if they’re in shape is sexy.
I live in Asia it pisses me not to see less skin. But Asian women wearing clothes that are larger than me. Not to attract creepy gossiping people.
That drives me up the walls. I’m not Asian. I’m not into overly thin girls with baggy clothes.
As long as it’s fitted size.
Of course it’s sexy when she shows off her ass or legs or stomach too.00 Reply
Anonymous(18-24)+1 yNo. On the contrary I find a woman who doesn't flaunt ever inch of her body on Instagram and OnlyFans, far more attractive than those that do. If you're posting pictures of your ass, thighs and breasts you're asking for sexual gratification and making yourself look easy.
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+1 yAbsolutely. If they're in a nice non-revealing boho maxi dress, they can look stunning. What's not attractive is when they cover their heads with religious garments like hijabs or whatever else there is.
10 Reply 417 opinions shared on Dating topic. No... It's more like they're unremarkable. I wouldn't notice such a woman in a crowd, she couldn't turn my head so to speak.
But on the other hand the woman I was most drawn to in my life would dress that way and there was nothing unattractive about her.00 Reply447 opinions shared on Dating topic. Not really no, if a women shows off all her goods, I generally think they are a bit cheap. A woman who leaves you guessing what her body looks like is far more enticing.
20 Reply13.4K opinions shared on Dating topic. it’s not amount of skin shown, it’s the styling. She can be completely covered from neck to ankles and still be attractive. I’m not attracted to women in shapeless clothing. To me it sends the message “Don’t approach me, I’m not interested”.
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+1 yAs men I think we should have respect for women. If you wanna dress like street walker so be it but don't be crying at the rest of woman when you get mistreated.
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+1 yin my opinion, you can't hide a persons beauty. I think seeing an "attractive" girl in hoodies or whatever close is cool, it shows personality in my opinion. That you are not public goods or out there for a "Certain" purpose. Id give a lot of credit to such people for having character... Also shows people do not have power over you. The sweet-mean pretty girl stereotype is so boring. Wear what ever the hell you want really.
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+1 yIt depends, western side of things wearing something modest is fine.
wearing a burqa, chador niqab different matter..10 Reply
+1 yABSOLUTELY NOT!!!
Women don't have to wear skimpy bikinis, shorts, crop tops or extremely form fitting and very short dresses to be attractive.00 Reply468 opinions shared on Dating topic. No I don't. But if a woman has the body for it and looks good then I encourage her to rock a bikini or a crop top
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+1 yNo. Assuming I'm attracted to the girl, I'd find it more attractive that she was more conservative with the way she dressed.
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Anonymous(18-24)+1 yas a girl, yes. Showing the body is not charm and beauty. This is an exposition, an invitation to rape. is to admit that she is a simple woman. and everyone knows that the half-naked or exposing woman is a simple bitch/whore.
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I agree with you because there are limits for everything, you can't just walk around half naked as a girl and pretend to be an angel and a good girl...
Even though i might disagree with you about the rape thing, a person who wants to rape, WILL rape a girl no matter what she's wearing and a girl exposing herself naked might boost this behavior but a sane decent man will never rape a girl even if she appears naked in front of him because that's a terrible act!
A man can love and marry a woman whom he loved and have sex with her as much as he wants and both will be pleasured and feeling very happy...
Opinion Owner+1 yWhat do you mean @djaay
First time I saw the loml, she was covered all over and I still fell hard for her. All the other girls showing skin couldn't tear us apart.
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+1 yNo, I do not. Women these days who show off their bodies often also sport tattoos, body piercings, and thongs---all ugly things that do nothing to enhance their looks. A modest woman is wiser.
10 Reply 976 opinions shared on Dating topic. Assuming they've got good fashion sense, It's honestly more attractive.
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+1 yNot in the slightest.
At your age though, men don’t want Ms. Right. They want Ms. Right Now, so that’s why most of them are staring at the women who show off their nice ass or big tits00 Reply6K opinions shared on Dating topic. Nope, you don't have to dress slutty or like a whore to be attractive.
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+1 yLeaving something for the imagination to run with is very sexy
10 ReplyNot at all, in fact a sense of modesty can be just as attractive as one who flaunts the goods
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+1 yIn contrary, these girls are the ones whom i'd like to be with because they are precious and not cheap...
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For me if a women shows skin its there option
Maybe its more sexier than the other
But if i would date someone and she dpnt like to show that much skin i would accept it
Because she can look also nice if she dont show her skin00 Reply- 792 opinions shared on Dating topic.
+1 yIf they're overweight or obese, I'm GLAD they don't show their bodies
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Absolutely not am attracted to her mind and her face and all women have vaginas but not all of them have a great attitude10 ReplyThey are not unattractive.
They are just prude and value themselves in a different way. Nothing bad about it 😊00 Reply
+1 yNo, some a lot of unattractive women show their bodies and some attractive women are reserved and don’t show their bodies often.
Its a cliche answer but in this case it is very true.12 Reply- +1 y
Wonder who is the loser downvoting almost all opinions without a clear reason.
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Haha I was wondering the same thing probably a delusional idiot
Anonymous(30-35)+1 yNo, I find them more attractive than the hos who show so much skin. Your beauty shines through without showing all that skin, and you be respected more than the hos.
00 Reply1.6K opinions shared on Dating topic. not at all, you don't have to show off your body to be attractive. but you do need to smile... ;)
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+1 yNo, a modest woman is a very attractive woman. This hootchies are nice toook at buy just whores at heart.
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+1 yIf we were in a relationship, I would expect to see here naked. I also like bikini girls and crop tops.
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Anonymous(25-29)+1 yOuch... The bodyshaming in this question is painful..
00 ReplyNo I respect them more if she behaves and carries herself like a lady I’ll treat her like one
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+1 yIt's the opposite for me. It shows that she's a modest woman
00 Reply4.5K opinions shared on Dating topic. No, sometimes women look better with more clothes on than less.
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+1 yI’m perfectly fine with it. I love dresses and such.
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+1 yif she doesn’t like doing it in public or at work it’s understandable but if it’s just us i’d hope she’d want to wear more revealing clothes around me
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Anonymous(45 Plus)+1 yNo, but they will likely get less "attention" in general. But doesn't make them "unattractive".
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+1 yAbsolutely not for the guys with class. Because for them they love ladies with a big self-esteem, respect for their body and those who dress decently.
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+1 yModest women appeal more to me actually. My girlfriend dresses modestly, and I appreciate that.
00 ReplyIt depends on what you mean with not showing off their bodies…
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+1 yIt's fine but right fitted clothes help if not going to show off
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+1 yNope. They can still be pretty underneath those clothes and that brain can be still dirty 😉.
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Anonymous(30-35)+1 yNo i find them more beautiful and graceful/ non attention seeking/ confident and comfortable in there own skin plus i dont have thoughts about my dick falling off if I were to sleep with them 😂
00 Reply506 opinions shared on Dating topic. Yes but if she don’t have a booty on her I’m not interested
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+1 yDefinitely not. I like a modest/conservative female
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+1 yActually it’s more attractive. Super easy, barley an inconvenience
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Anonymous(25-29)+1 yModest is a very desirable trait in women and people in general.
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+1 yNot necessarily. Some girls are beautiful even if they do nothing for show off. Depends from the girl.
00 ReplyNope. I’ve met women who were attractive who didn’t show off all their skin and wore cute dresses etc
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+1 yWho said so, skin show doesn't translate to attractiveness. It's the way they carry their attrite and handle their beauty that matters
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Anonymous(25-29)+1 yNot at all, but it's a little annoying if she's really attractive.
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Anonymous(30-35)+1 yNo. They still have attractive bodies, they just go unnoticed.
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