Have you ever think of wanting to date someone here until you find out you both live in different countries far away from each other?

[Anonymous]

[MrCommodore]

Yeah I've chatted to a woman here (Just sharing advice etc) who I felt could be the type of girl I could settle down with long-term, but I knew that logistically speaking, we were living in different Countries and so there was no point pursuing a romantic relationship.

[Asker]

Is it awkward for a 23 year old to date a 19 year old?

[MrCommodore]

That depends on whether it's the girl or guy who is older.
- If the guy is 23, then it probably will be fine, as girls are usually more mature and so it could work.

- If the girl is 23, then it might eventually become a problem after the first few months, when she realises his playful immature side has along way to go. And while she might initially be ok with it, eventually it will bug her, as other girls probably sneer about it.

[Asker]

Not necessarily the guy is immature sometimes it’s possible he’s more mature than guys his age

[Asker]

I met a guy here he’s quite mature and he’s 19 I was surprised his thinking is different from most guys at aged 19. He’s not shallow and he’s open to dating girls who have different interests than him

[MrCommodore]

I meant generally that guys may be slightly more immature at that age, but there are always exceptions and it's only a 4 year age gap, which is nothing really.

[Asker]

I had experience that guys aged 19 are very childish in college but it’s kinda rare to find a guy who’s matured at that age

[Asker]

Like for example that immature guy want a hot girl with large boobs, big butt and thin waist as a wife and he does like to run and play he also like to scream sometimes lol

[altgirl14]

That would be sad for sure :(