Is it worth shooting my shot with my crush especially when he has consistently viewed my stories in minutes of me uploding them?

[Anonymous]

I don’t want read into it but I feel it can’t be just boredness if he had done it many times.

[babydi09]

Well, he does seem interested in you a bit from what you say but ask yourself if he's the only one that does that, do other people view your story in minutes from uploading them or he always views them way before others do? Cause everytime i upload stories on my ig a lot of people view them like 2 minutes after i uploaded them and that just means they are curious about me, nothing else. But you shouldn't stay with the doubt, just ask him, maybe he's doubting too, that happens often.

[Asker]

It happens with others but a lot less frequently with them. He constantly views them quickly.

[babydi09]

Then maybe he's interested. A little advice, don't obsess over it and ask him

[Asker]

it. We’ve talked 6 weeks ago when I replied to his story and we had very friendly comversation.

Would it be desperate if I comment on his story again?

[babydi09]

I don't think you'd be desperate if you did, people do that a lot, don't overthink it. Though i know it's hard to overthink, i'm an overthinker but still, if you like him that much you should at least try get it out of your system, talking to him i mean. Also, you don't have to tell me but what do you mean by friendly conversation?

[Asker]

Just some friendly small talk about what he’s posted

[Asker]

He linda posts similar stuff than me and it’s so confusin. Tuessay I posted about a close shot of me holding a coffee. He posts today close shot of him holding a enery drink with a coffee and he put a emoji slide in it.

[Asker]

Kinda*

[babydi09]

Ahh yes, i get what you mean, it happened to me once and i think it might mean he wants to get closer but is kinda shy about it? but i could be wrong

[Asker]

Does it seem like he did it on purpose?

[Toldol2]

Did it look like a love approach to you? Men are simple When they want something they act on it. So far you entertain him

[Asker]

So you donmä’t think that he’s interested?

[Asker]

You don’t *

[Toldol2]

Probably not intérested enough and I bet the problem comes from him and his avaibility. But watching stories doesn’t mean much. Men are capable of more attention

[Wise4myage]

I don't see why not. Be bold and go for it.

[Asker]

He’s many times viewed my stories eithin minutes of me uploading my story. I don’t even remember how many times he’s done it. We’ve talked 6 weeks ago when I replied to his story and we had ok converstion.

He’s still viewing my stories despite me being active lol. He’s always viewed my story but now it’s like he views them very quickly. Anyway is he waiting me to DM him?
Should I just forget about him…?

[Wise4myage]

Just send him a DM and see if he replies. If he doesn't, then forget about him.

[Asker]

He always replies but I don't know how to rake it from just friendly small talk to something more…

[Asker]

Take it from*

[Wise4myage]

Just flirt a bit, ask him what his interests are.

[Asker]

Do you think I would be chasing him if I decide to comment on his story again? Since he’s viewing my stories often within minutes do you think I have a good chance to get with him lol? Should I brought it up to him in a joking way that I’ve noticed it?

[Wise4myage]

Only if you become obsessed with it.

[Asker]

Ok. I will shoot my shot soon lol.
But first honestly do you think I have his attention and he’s showing interest?

[Wise4myage]

Yes, I do.

[Asker]

he shows interest but makes no move :( why would a guy do that?

[Wise4myage]

You need to ask him.

[Asker]

I will but what do u think is the likely answer?

[Wise4myage]

Shyness perhaps?

[Asker]

He kinda posts similar stuff than me and it’s so confusin. Tuesday I posted a close shot of me holding a coffee cup. He posts today close shot of him holding a enery drink with a coffee and he put a emoji slide in it.
Don’t tell me it’s coincidence too 😩

[boggboss]

Sure if u want

[Asker]

He’s many times viewed my stories eithin minutes of me uploading my story. I don’t even remember how many times he’s done it. We’ve talked 6 weeks ago when I replied to his story and we had ok converstion.

He’s still viewing my stories despite me being active lol. He’s always viewed my story but now it’s like he views them very quickly. Anyway is he waiting me to DM him?
Should I just forget about him…?

[boggboss]

There is no way of knowing this without asking him as to why clearly he is still imtrested in what going on in your life

[Asker]

So you don’t think he’s just bored?

[boggboss]

Its possible

[boggboss]

As u don't know if he does this with other people also

[Asker]

Do you think I would be chasing him if I decide to comment on his story again? Since he’s viewing my stories often within minutes do you think I have a good chance to get with him lol? Should I brought it up to him in a joking way that I’ve noticed it?

[boggboss]

You should simply message him

[Asker]

Not reply to his story but DM him?

[boggboss]

Yes stop playing games with him if u want actual answers

[Asker]

My girl friends are saying don’t DM him but reply to his stories. Should I listen to them? I’m afraid of looking thirsty/desperate.

He hasn’t lately updated he’s story frequently. I don't know if he’s trying to make me message him…

[boggboss]

Lol do what u want I guess but but playing games won't help u

[Asker]

Why do u think I’m playing games?

[boggboss]

You are tying to get his attention so he will. messge you whilst he shows imtrest but makes no move how is this not game

[Asker]

Do you think I have his attention and he’s showing interest?

[boggboss]

I said that its vary likely yes

[Asker]

Ok. by the way what did u meant by this ” messge you whilst he shows imtrest but makes no move how is this not game”

[boggboss]

Sorry there was not meant to be a fill stop it was connected to the first part you are trying to get his attention to message you whilst he keep watching your stuff

[Asker]

Why is it wrong?

[boggboss]

Because have have been doing this for moths now and still ask what things mean instead of just acting and finding out for yourself

[Asker]

whilst he shows imtrest but makes no move <—- by the way why would a guy do that?

[boggboss]

Pretty much you both are trolling and playing games

[Asker]

So you think he’s interested but afraid of making a move :D? I’m not making a move because I really like him and I’m scared…..

[boggboss]

And so we are here talking again about a guy u like but in the same place we was months ago

[Asker]

I’m fed up with this situation and will message him soon. My girl friends are saying to me that guys will make a move if he’s interested which makes me sad :/

[boggboss]

Not if he is inexperienced or shy

[Asker]

He kinda posts similar stuff than me and it’s so confusin. Tuesday I posted a close shot of me holding a coffee cup. He posts today close shot of him holding a enery drink with a coffee and he put a emoji slide in it.
Don’t tell me it’s coincidence too 

[boggboss]

OK but what's your point to him doing that we already know he watches your stuff knowing thus dint change the situation

[Asker]

Is he doing it to mess with my head or get my attention or it’s coincidence 😭?

[boggboss]

He is doing It to play games the same way u are

[Asker]

I don't know if he want another girls attention….

[boggboss]

Its completely possible

[Asker]

But why post kinda similar thing that I had already posted the day before yesterday 😢

[boggboss]

How would I know the answer it seems the only person that can give u the answers u want is the only person u are not willing to ask how do u ever think you two would get together if u both act like kids and have some of the shitist communication I have ever seen

[Asker]

That wouod imply that he wants to comminucate with me through his post? 😂

[boggboss]

Alright