How much partying is too much?

[Cup2030]

Hello everyone!

I just wanted some opinions on a issue I have been having. My girlfriend of 2 1/2 years is currently away at college. She recently turned 21 a month ago. She likes to go out to the bar with some of her friends which is fine in moderation. Recently the frequency has been increasing from like 1 night a week to 2-3. I’m uncomfortable with this. I trust her but I don’t think it’s appropriate for someone in a relationship. I just texted her and told her about my feelings with this. I just merely told her my feelings. She has yet to respond but am I being too protective? I currently live about 1.5 hours from her and work weird shifts so I don’t see her much. The distance is tough and I often feel depressed but it’s only temporary. I hope we can get through this because I really do love this girl and have hopes of marrying her.

Thank you!

[SofiSin667]

I have a feeling it’s only going to get worse because it seems to me like she’s enjoying it a little too much. If you force her to change then she’ll hold some resentment towards you and will eventually go back to her old ways but much worse. The toning down needs to come from her.

[Vikkrram]

I can't say that buddy coz i am not at all a outgoing person... for me going outside for just relaxiing in 3-4 months is more than enough.

[Static_In_The_Attic]

You can never party enough however being that she is in a relationship she might party her way out of a relationship.

[Avicenna]

She isn't likely to agree

[Dog87]

When you almost die