How did your first ever date go?

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libsaretards · Accepted Answer

Let's preface this by saying I was a teenager. The intent of the date was to take her out to dinner and then go bowling. My options were limited due to not having a car. When we get to the restaurant, they decided to cancel my reservation because I was a teenager and therefore there could be no way for me to afford to eat there (I had a job and had over $3000 in my account because I put away 90% of each check). Basically we were discriminated against because of my age. So I take her to a burger joint. I ordered a burger and asked for ketchup but the kitchen staff mixed up ketchup with Tabasco sauce (how?) so my mouth was on fire and I had snot running down my nose. I was so embarrassed because I thought there was no way she would take me on a second date. We go to the bowling alley to find out all lanes were reserved for a party. Basically my entire idea for the date got shot to Hell. We ended up going on a walk on a nature trail nearby. She seemed to enjoy herself and really opened up to me. I wanted to go for a light night swim but did not want to ask her and give off the wrong impression, but apparently she had the same thought because she stripped to her bra and panties and asked me to go for the swim. The date ended on an amazing note and somehow ended up even better than I planned, even if it went waaaaaaaaaaay off course from what I planned

abc3643 · Accepted Answer

My first date was on Thursday, 20 NOV 1980 - the Thursday before Thanksgiving that year. I took a girl, Laura, who I was tutoring to a laser show at the Vanderbilt Planetarium in Centerport NY. I don't think I kissed her, but it was fun.

Sometime later, we became an official couple. It was when we were in her basement and I wanted to kiss her on the cheek to thank her for getting me an orange and, the next thing I know, this girl's tongue is in my mouth! So, we are French kissing and - Whoa! - it was great. She said to me after that kiss "It's about time, Vin!"

I miss being young.

lanakay1010 · Accepted Answer

We were in a long distance relationship and had never gone out to a restaurant before, so my first date turned out to be a few months into a relationship. He only likes to eat sandwiches so I took him to an italian fusion restaurant that had a chicken sandwich on the menu. The waiters kept smiling at us, and I ended up moving to sit next to him (I was sitting across from him before in a booth before). It was perfect, and had a great mixture of first-date nervousness and feeling like the 50th date. I wish I could relive it.

user1516 · Accepted Answer

Bad. My “date” literally made me feel like 💩 the entire time and talked down on my friends since we were on a double date. I don’t even want to get into detail it was so bad.

jshm2 · Answer

I think it went OK. I was 16 and it was actually a double date as my older brother and his at the time girlfriend took us out as well.

I remember acting all grown up, despite being under the scrutiny of the date and my brother. Hardly touched the food. I've done presentations in front of hundreds of of people and dealt with scary situations. But those few hours... I still get a pang of pride in how I managed to control the near debilitating fear to make it to the end of the night.

nickaboy · Answer

We met online, i picked her up from the train station on my bicycle we went to my bed room she watched her first ever horror movie with me. And we Just cuddled the whole Day until she needed to go home we lived 3 hours a way from eachother and both had shitty Jobs.
We were on time for the train but she took the one 15 minutes later cause we couldn't stop kissing for me it was my first real Kiss too

We we're allready a couple

InferiorElegy · Answer

Never been on a date. Got set up on a blind date once with the nicest girl my friends knew, who then got to the restaurant looked around and her view stopped in my direction and then she walked out. Apparently I'm too ugly even for the nicest girl to just have a free dinner.

Ksoshefbd · Answer

It was stupid. A guy i assumed was a homosexual and just my friend asjed me out randomly. I said yes and i guess its cause it caught me off guard and im a pushover I don't know.

He barely talked on the date.

Then at school i heard me and him made out.

Then i realized it was all a joke.

Later he asked me out again and i was smart enough to decline.

avony12 · Answer

Bad. They was upset I don’t give them a kiss on the first date. I thought it’ll get better but the second date he was mad I didn’t have sex with him.

Prettygurl12 · Answer

My first official date?  We wound up married 😂

exitseven · Answer

I went bowling with a friend's cousin. It went okay I thought but when I called her to ask her out again she said no.

K-I-S-S · Answer

Didn't even know it was a date, until few years later it hit me. And she was/is a really attractive young woman with a great personality. 🥲 😅

ohshee · Answer

It was fun we went skating LOL and we're both so shy it was funny how about you how was yours

AndrewMG · Answer

I mean seriously? Errr... I ended up doing a runner from a Wimpy takeaway on a double date out in my early years of school lol

tartaarsaus · Answer

Went very well. Second date went very well. Except she broke off then because I was like 9 months younger than here lmao

Phoenix98 · Answer

It was a double date I had one sister my buddy from school had the other and their parents insisted on going to the theatre with us and watching us like hawks the whole time.

I still made it fun despite that though.

poneglyphs · Answer

It went okay was fun and we laughed a lot. Too bad she ghosted me.

Roah_Boat · Answer

Terrible. I cringe when I think about it. I was a freshman in high school. Very shy and very awkward. She was a senior and spoke only Spanish and I spoke only English.

innerman · Answer

If u fuck before then go on a date... is it still considered a first date

drakethibault1 · Answer

My first "date" wasn't suppose to be a date actually. So it was fun, I enjoyed it.

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

It was kind of awkward cause I was age 19 and took a class-mate on a date and my dad was looking in the window where we was dining out

IAMNathanael · Answer

I went mini golfing on a group date when I was 16. It was good.

FictionalCharacter · Answer

It was okay. It was pity date though, and we went to the movies.

Miristheiss · Answer

Not bad... but not good either.  A lot of awkwardness. A lot of not knowing what to say.

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