How was your first date ever?

[melanieeeB]

With 16 I had my first date.
We were together in theater school and we went to the theater for our date. He was funny you know.

So he wanted to get closer and put his arms around my shoulders etc and I actually freaked out and run out!
I left his ass there.

Later I talked with him over the phone and told him that I don't want to be with him and I have never seen him ever again, cause I also never went to theater school ever again.

Basically I was already a savage back then I guess lol

#storytime

[PoopyPoop]

I was in paradise but I was also totally lame. My very first date was to this open shopping area on the beach with restaurants and beach and museums and rides and whatnot. And there was a lot to see and do, but we just walked around everywhere, browsed in some shops, killed time, because I was too lame back then to take charge.

It's like I had a vision in my head of what I wanted to do but I was too scared to do it, say it, so I just sort of lumbered along. But she was a good sport and said, "Hey, let's go here! Let's go there!" and actually, to my shame, she sort of took the lead while I followed. I was mostly like, "Derp, you pretty! I want you! I mean, yeah, let's go to this restaurant! I'm okay with lobster [I don't like lobster]!"

But at the end of the night, we had some drinks in us and I got up some courage and kissed her, and then she still took over the lead and said we should go to a hotel and spend the night. So we did. Then the clerk at the hotel looked at us funny and I was a bit tipsy so I was like, "WTF are you looking at? We are just a regular young couple looking to have sex in your hotel fuck face!" But I was too lame to even say that. But I did get to see her vagina, and it was glorious. Yet she went to the toilet right before sex and I think she did #2 because there was a bit of a poo smell coming from her. But that was fine with me. Beggars can't be choosers!

[PeterSmith1983]

Poor guy :(

How was your first date that made it to the end of the evening?

[melanieeeB]

I can't really remember, probably okay

[PeterSmith1983]

Not memorable doesn't sound that good, what was your first date you enjoyed a lot and can remember?

[melanieeeB]

Uhh it was the 23rd Dec 2016 lol He came dressed up in a really nice shirt and I was so underdressed and even ran to the bathroom to call a friend and have a panic attack. Anyways we were just sitting at a cafe and talking for hours and laughing. It was our first and last date tho. He wanted a serious relationship at the end and it was too fast for me and I got scared and told him I need time and he couldn't give it to me

[melanieeeB]

What about you tho?

[PeterSmith1983]

First one I remember was nice but not such a romantic sorry as yours... we went out for dinner after that drinks and had great evening and then she wanted me to come to her place and we had a rather nice night as well. He dated a few more times and the both decided it was good fun but not more

[melanieeeB]

Sounds actually kinda okay, like you both had genuinely a few dates

[PeterSmith1983]

It was certainly okay, we both like each company and not only the sex, although that was not bad either

[melanieeeB]

Yeah I understand that

[DianaWest]

@PeterSmith1983 it amazes me how people will invite complete strangers into their house after talking to them for 1 or two hours. hell, you probably know old Joe from across the street who says hello to you once every two weeks more than you know your date. just saying. it seems really weird and freaky that people have such blind trust in each other these days. i am highly suspicious of people. i wouldn't go over to a guy's place alone until 2 or 3 months have passed at least and i got to meet his family and friends. gotta make sure he ain't crazy first.

[SkyCastle90]

14, double date. It was my friend, her boyfriend (let's call him Ryan), the guy I was setup with by Ryan (Let's call him Carl), and me. We were all from different highschools in the city, and met at the city bus stop where teens all gathered to take buses home. Carl and I only been talking for about a week or so over the phone. Anyway, friend invited me on a double date at Carl's house with promises of video games and fun hanging out.

Carl only had single player games in the rec room, so all we did was watch him play games for 15 mins, everyone looked bored and impatient. Then Carl wanted to give me a tour, while Ryan and friend just scurried downstairs in a hurry. I didn't think much of it because I assumed they been here before.

Long story short, I was tricked into some weird orgy thing, and I was almost raped because of it in Carl's room. After fighting Carl off, I rushed downstairs to see friend and Ryan just at it on the sofa, so I left. Friend rushed after me confused. Had I knew it was that kind of meet up, I would have said no, which is probably why they kept that a secret and just assumed I was going to be "persuading" into it.

Carl didn't hesitate the call and chew me out for hurting his face during the struggle to get him off me. Such a gentleman right? I didn't bother to explain how I felt or work it out with him, and just ended it then blocked everyone.

[okayk]

I had just turned 18, installed a dating app and went out with a guy. It was terrible, he didn't pay for me, he insulted me the whole time, he didn't hold the door open for me, and then kissed me at the end unsolicited and wanted to have sex in his car (I didn't). He thought he did absolutely nothing wrong & wanted to date me further before I blocked me. He contacted me 3 months later still oblivious to what he did that was upsetting for me.

[888theGreat]

what I can tell that is most guys today

[melanieeeB]

True.
Ans sorry girl that this was your first date experience. It's really awful. Good that you got away from this ass

[melanieeeB]

Plus you will for sure have better dating experiences!! I personally just wouldn't recommend using dating apps, most guys there are just looking for sex and finding someone correct on there is pretty difficult

[888theGreat]

there is a reason why they have to use dating sites

[DianaWest]

@888theGreat how do you find anyone now without dating sites? most younger men are like freaking ostriches with their heads stuck in the sand and afraid to make eye contact. the few brave ones who flirt are either a decade older or have a girlfriend or a wife with 10 kids, a dog and a mansion. lucky us in today's dating scene. we're all fucked.

[FamilyGuy2020]

You essentially got what you asked for

[DianaWest]

@FamilyGuy2020 what did i ask for? i could say all men are pigs, but i won't because i am not so close minded.

[DianaWest]

@FamilyGuy2020 just because a few women say one thing it doesn't mean they speak for ALL women. they certainly don't speak for me. i think intelligent people judge others' based on their INDIVIDUAL traits and actions, not by the group or category they belong to.

[Anonymous]

That is how you become a cat lady.

Anyway, mine ignored me for most of the date to get info dumps from her friends from another school on various goings on. I had a good time, even if she was barely part of it.

Kinda figured it might not last long, if her side missions were so important to her that I suddenly wasn't.

The most fun wasn't even that. Nor the time I went to see Captain America 2 with the woman who took the V card.

The most fun was meeting up with some Korean exchange student. I helped her analyze the source code of some news site web pages. We both approached the subject from different angles, but loved what we were doing. In time, we could've been a team, if not a couple. But the cockblock patrol wasn't gonna let that happen.

Those bungholes didn't just deny me further dates: their lies cost me a friend.

She eventually realized the truth, and offered an apology. But there was no going back. I moved to another town, and she went back to South Korea. Last I heard, she was happily married with two kids. I could be wrong.

[libsaretards]

One of the best days of my life. We were both 17 at the time. Our first date was the second day of class and the day after I served my first detention of the year for not completing a summer project for an AP class. Due to the detention I had to walk instead of catch the bus (3 mile walk in the rain). I had told her I would see her when I got home (ended up living in same neighborhood). She waited for me instead and the talk we had on the walk home made me fall in love deeper than I already was. She ended up asking me to be her boyfriend.

Sorry for all the back story. Anyways, the next day I asked her to have a picnic with me since I did not get paid until the next week. I paid close attention to what she said the day before and prepared her favorite foods. Apparently she had the same idea. After eating, we simply decided to go for a walk in the woods. I showed off my ability to get birds to respond to my whistling. I told her to be still and not make a noise and the birds would eat the seeds next to us that we put down. One of the birds climbed on my shoulder. She was extremely impressed with it so we discussed the animals we loved. I got to hear about some of her life before moving to the base with her mom and stepdad. Just simply being in nature, watching the pure joy on her face (she was raised as a city girl and knew nothing about nature) and feeling respected by her made my day and I believe I managed to make her day better.

[jaybee281]

I was 13 - She was 14 - we went to a popular restaurant in our area and as it happened one of my friends (who knew I was going there) was there with his date so it ended up becoming a double date - then my friend's date had her friends invited so it now became a group gathering - I ended up talking to one of her friends more than the girl I was going out with - our "relationship" ended up lasting 10 days, the break up was basically me randomly never speaking to her again - that was a bit of a scumbag move but I couldn't tell her face to face - I also remember paying for my friend's and his girlfriend's meals that night, that bastard was broke af which was why he probably went there specifically in the first place..

[Lucy68]

First date was when I was a 15 year old sophomore dating this 17 year old junior that I met in thespian class. Our first date was to the opera house to watch Little Shop of Horrors. And when he put his arm around me I blushed so hard. Since we were already in downtown we first ate at the subway sharing a buffalo chicken sub. Then we went to the candy shop, comic book store, chocolate shop, and spent the rest of the night talking near the fountain. He was a sweetheart and said I was so cute everytime I giggled. Later that night I remember him calling me on the landline (my mom was so annoyed cause she honestly didn't like him lol) and we talked all night long and he sung me Fall For You by Secondhand Serenade before bed (it took me a long time to listen to that song again after we broke up). Somewhat I believe he was my first love.

[Pistolpete90]

Okay, but awkward. He talked a lot because he was nervous, didn't really listen to my answers and instead went onto the next topic.
He had asked me out because I quit our workplace. At one point, he was lime "I wish you still worked there. I was so sad on your last day."
I said something like "We wouldn't be dating if I still worked there."
He said "Are you saying I would have to quit my job to date you?"
Me: " No, I don't believe in dating someone you work with. You could be crazy. I could be crazy. I could leave a severed chicken head on your desk."
He just nodded and gave ne a concerned look lol
Didn't hug at tben of the date, thought I'd blown it. He asked me out again the next day 😊 Been together since 😊

[Canuck37]

I asked a girl out. She chose a restaurant for us.

I didn't realize this at the time, but she said yes because she'd never been on a date before, and I'd never been on a date before either. She wasn't actually interested in me, although she liked me enough platonically that she was happy to lose her "never been dated" card with me. If I'd known this at the time, I'd probably have been okay with that deal, because I also wanted to lose my "never been dated" card; but I didn't and I ended up being quite disappointed when I found out that she wasn't really interested in me.

That said, she certainly lived up to her end of the deal. She dressed up, looked spectacular, and we had an evening of enjoyable conversation.

[Guanfei]

A complete disaster. I was 19. Totally clueless, girl was 18, and I thought that I'd do like in movies and stuff, so I bought flowers, and went where we had to meet.
So I got there, gave here the flowers, complimented here because she was truly beautiful, started talking, asking how here day went, if she wanted to grab something to eat and stuff, you know, try to keep the conversation going.
But she wasn't really trying, and after like a bit less than an hour, she pretended to get a call and that she had to go. It was clear that she didn't want to be with me and I didn't fight it, so I just agreed and let her go.
I was a bit down tbh, stayed there for half an hour, then started to walk back to get the bus. On the way to go to the bus stop, I noticed flowers in a trash bin, and realized it was the ones I gave her. That kinda hurt me tbh.

[ZS007]

I hope you find someone worthy of your love. You were so romantic 😄 I would love something like that. Any girl would be lucky to have you.

[Guanfei]

@ZS007 Thanks. Sadly, being romantic doesn't work well nowadays.

[cookiecrusher]

A big difference between savage and bitchy😅
He did nothing wrong.

Could have shown some class letting him know you are uncomfortable with touching, people don't know you and your personal issues/kinks.


As for myself i didn't know it was a date, it was one of the first time being approach by a woman. She was nice though, we just went hiking and taking pictures in the coutry side, along the shoreline.
She was dressed very nice.
It think there were signs and i know i was an idiot. Great woman, still is.

[lightbulb27]

first real date was after started working, she was the checkout girl at chinese restaurant, I asked her out first time.

was all good and normal discussion until the end when she makes a swooping move and grabbs my crotch from 3ft away to see if I was stimulated, and I was.

I was shocked. who does that? any lawyers want to take my case for sexual harassment?

[Good1mufferaw]

It was the worst first date. We were so caught up in our own insecurities that we had completely forgotten how to communicate as normal functioning people. I was about 17 and he was 16 - we went out for dinner, and the whole time we didn’t speak. It was awkward and I hated every second of it. We later started dating, and were together for about a year and a half

[snowboarder720]

Wait… after not telling him that you prefer to not be touched and he put his arms around you, you ran away then later on the phone told him you never wanted to see him again? Ouch.


I went to a movie with my friends and her friends. Her parents were SUPER strict about her dating so we kept it pretty casual. Honestly there wasn’t much of a ‘date’ about it. It was more like a night out with our friends but we called it a date. I was about 11 or so.

[t-8900]

It was nice. She treated me out, bought me a nice meal and we went back to her place to watch movies. She made a pass at me but I wasn't ready for that yet. We cuddled together in bed but that was it. But she was toxic to my life in the long run and took me for granted. Then she initiated some love triangle crap which got really ugly smh.

[Dragonpurple]

Was a blind date, setup with my brother so we could double date and go to a theme park. Was pretty fun, I think I was 16 at the time.

She had just moved here from another state and didn't know any guys and I was the ice breaker, after that she started dating all the other guys... and that was that.

[andreasderjuengere]

I did not even know that it was a ''date''.
I asked the girl I like out for a cycling trip around the area.
We were 14, I think.
Looking at it from now, we did enjoy the day - but ''dating'' in itself is silly to me; meeting someone does not need a ritual or a definition.

[HellGeist]

Great. Spent time alone in her car. Nervous at first, but quickly relaxed. Had my first kiss and made out, and then soon thereafter I lost my virginity to her in the backseat of her car in the parking lot of a church.

10/10 to hot, kinky Catholic girls.

Would do again.

[JHNS98]

My first date was just awkward silence. We met at a café and I knew nothing about what the hell dating was, she didn't talk too much either. I finally started talking about an electric powertrain manufacturer that was visible from the café we met at.

And I wondered why she didn't want to see me a second time lol

[Sugar100]

I was 17 and we went to a museum then ate lunch it was like a turkey inch long sandwich , no kiss, nothing, I wore ugly jeans & sweater, nothing cute , I don't know what I was thinking. it wasn’t an amazing date nor bad. It was awkward. We r stop together & have much better dates now.

[888theGreat]

so you now boyfriend have been together for 8 years? Not married?

[Subarugirl]

Never really ever had a “first date” before my husband and I started “dating” we hung out. Went hiking with friends, I’d hang out with him while he worked the night shift at his college. Our first real date wasn’t until about a month into our relationship.

[Redstang88]

Awkward AF. I was 18 I think, met on tinder, met for coffee late at night after she got off work. Took her car down to the local makeout spot, super awkward makeout in her car (in the winter, cold AF) then went home. Couple more weird dates after that then we basically ghosted each other

[Anonymous]

I was 17 I wore my blue suit and she wore this beautiful black dress. We went to theather play and saw the play Cats. Then we went out to classy restaurant.

I spent my whole paycheck to impress her. I really really like this girl.

I even pulled out her chair for her. I did everything I should to be the best gentlemen I could.

Must have worked, we dated for two years and almost married her