How was your first date ever?

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With 16 I had my first date.
We were together in theater school and we went to the theater for our date. He was funny you know.

So he wanted to get closer and put his arms around my shoulders etc and I actually freaked out and run out!
I left his ass there.

Later I talked with him over the phone and told him that I don't want to be with him and I have never seen him ever again, cause I also never went to theater school ever again.

Basically I was already a savage back then I guess lol

#storytime

PoopyPoop · Accepted Answer

I was in paradise but I was also totally lame. My very first date was to this open shopping area on the beach with restaurants and beach and museums and rides and whatnot. And there was a lot to see and do, but we just walked around everywhere, browsed in some shops, killed time, because I was too lame back then to take charge.

It's like I had a vision in my head of what I wanted to do but I was too scared to do it, say it, so I just sort of lumbered along. But she was a good sport and said, "Hey, let's go here! Let's go there!" and actually, to my shame, she sort of took the lead while I followed. I was mostly like, "Derp, you pretty! I want you! I mean, yeah, let's go to this restaurant! I'm okay with lobster [I don't like lobster]!"

But at the end of the night, we had some drinks in us and I got up some courage and kissed her, and then she still took over the lead and said we should go to a hotel and spend the night. So we did. Then the clerk at the hotel looked at us funny and I was a bit tipsy so I was like, "WTF are you looking at? We are just a regular young couple looking to have sex in your hotel fuck face!" But I was too lame to even say that. But I did get to see her vagina, and it was glorious. Yet she went to the toilet right before sex and I think she did #2 because there was a bit of a poo smell coming from her. But that was fine with me. Beggars can't be choosers!

PeterSmith1983 · Accepted Answer

Poor guy :( How was your first date that made it to the end of the evening?

SkyCastle90 · Accepted Answer

14, double date. It was my friend, her boyfriend (let's call him Ryan), the guy I was setup with by Ryan (Let's call him Carl), and me. We were all from different highschools in the city, and met at the city bus stop where teens all gathered to take buses home. Carl and I only been talking for about a week or so over the phone. Anyway, friend invited me on a double date at Carl's house with promises of video games and fun hanging out.

Carl only had single player games in the rec room, so all we did was watch him play games for 15 mins, everyone looked bored and impatient. Then Carl wanted to give me a tour, while Ryan and friend just scurried downstairs in a hurry. I didn't think much of it because I assumed they been here before.

Long story short, I was tricked into some weird orgy thing, and I was almost raped because of it in Carl's room. After fighting Carl off, I rushed downstairs to see friend and Ryan just at it on the sofa, so I left. Friend rushed after me confused. Had I knew it was that kind of meet up, I would have said no, which is probably why they kept that a secret and just assumed I was going to be "persuading" into it.

Carl didn't hesitate the call and chew me out for hurting his face during the struggle to get him off me. Such a gentleman right? I didn't bother to explain how I felt or work it out with him, and just ended it then blocked everyone.

okayk · Accepted Answer

I had just turned 18, installed a dating app and went out with a guy. It was terrible, he didn't pay for me, he insulted me the whole time, he didn't hold the door open for me, and then kissed me at the end unsolicited and wanted to have sex in his car (I didn't). He thought he did absolutely nothing wrong & wanted to date me further before I blocked me. He contacted me 3 months later still oblivious to what he did that was upsetting for me.

Anonymous · Answer

That is how you become a cat lady.

Anyway, mine ignored me for most of the date to get info dumps from her friends from another school on various goings on. I had a good time, even if she was barely part of it.

Kinda figured it might not last long, if her side missions were so important to her that I suddenly wasn't.

The most fun wasn't even that. Nor the time I went to see Captain America 2 with the woman who took the V card.

The most fun was meeting up with some Korean exchange student. I helped her analyze the source code of some news site web pages. We both approached the subject from different angles, but loved what we were doing. In time, we could've been a team, if not a couple. But the cockblock patrol wasn't gonna let that happen.

Those bungholes didn't just deny me further dates: their lies cost me a friend.

She eventually realized the truth, and offered an apology. But there was no going back. I moved to another town, and she went back to South Korea. Last I heard, she was happily married with two kids. I could be wrong.

libsaretards · Answer

One of the best days of my life. We were both 17 at the time. Our first date was the second day of class and the day after I served my first detention of the year for not completing a summer project for an AP class. Due to the detention I had to walk instead of catch the bus (3 mile walk in the rain). I had told her I would see her when I got home (ended up living in same neighborhood). She waited for me instead and the talk we had on the walk home made me fall in love deeper than I already was. She ended up asking me to be her boyfriend.

Sorry for all the back story. Anyways, the next day I asked her to have a picnic with me since I did not get paid until the next week. I paid close attention to what she said the day before and prepared her favorite foods. Apparently she had the same idea. After eating, we simply decided to go for a walk in the woods. I showed off my ability to get birds to respond to my whistling. I told her to be still and not make a noise and the birds would eat the seeds next to us that we put down. One of the birds climbed on my shoulder. She was extremely impressed with it so we discussed the animals we loved. I got to hear about some of her life before moving to the base with her mom and stepdad. Just simply being in nature, watching the pure joy on her face (she was raised as a city girl and knew nothing about nature) and feeling respected by her made my day and I believe I managed to make her day better.

jaybee281 · Answer

I was 13 - She was 14 - we went to a popular restaurant in our area and as it happened one of my friends (who knew I was going there) was there with his date so it ended up becoming a double date - then my friend's date had her friends invited so it now became a group gathering - I ended up talking to one of her friends more than the girl I was going out with - our "relationship" ended up lasting 10 days, the break up was basically me randomly never speaking to her again - that was a bit of a scumbag move but I couldn't tell her face to face - I also remember paying for my friend's and his girlfriend's meals that night, that bastard was broke af which was why he probably went there specifically in the first place..

Lucy68 · Answer

First date was when I was a 15 year old sophomore dating this 17 year old junior that I met in thespian class. Our first date was to the opera house to watch Little Shop of Horrors. And when he put his arm around me I blushed so hard. Since we were already in downtown we first ate at the subway sharing a buffalo chicken sub. Then we went to the candy shop, comic book store, chocolate shop, and spent the rest of the night talking near the fountain. He was a sweetheart and said I was so cute everytime I giggled. Later that night I remember him calling me on the landline (my mom was so annoyed cause she honestly didn't like him lol) and we talked all night long and he sung me Fall For You by Secondhand Serenade before bed (it took me a long time to listen to that song again after we broke up). Somewhat I believe he was my first love.

Pistolpete90 · Answer

Okay, but awkward. He talked a lot because he was nervous, didn't really listen to my answers and instead went onto the next topic.
He had asked me out because I quit our workplace. At one point, he was lime "I wish you still worked there. I was so sad on your last day."
I said something like "We wouldn't be dating if I still worked there."
He said "Are you saying I would have to quit my job to date you?"
Me: " No, I don't believe in dating someone you work with. You could be crazy. I could be crazy. I could leave a severed chicken head on your desk."
He just nodded and gave ne a concerned look lol
Didn't hug at tben of the date, thought I'd blown it. He asked me out again the next day 😊 Been together since 😊

Canuck37 · Answer

I asked a girl out. She chose a restaurant for us.

I didn't realize this at the time, but she said yes because she'd never been on a date before, and I'd never been on a date before either. She wasn't actually interested in me, although she liked me enough platonically that she was happy to lose her "never been dated" card with me. If I'd known this at the time, I'd probably have been okay with that deal, because I also wanted to lose my "never been dated" card; but I didn't and I ended up being quite disappointed when I found out that she wasn't really interested in me.

That said, she certainly lived up to her end of the deal. She dressed up, looked spectacular, and we had an evening of enjoyable conversation.

Guanfei · Answer

A complete disaster. I was 19. Totally clueless, girl was 18, and I thought that I'd do like in movies and stuff, so I bought flowers, and went where we had to meet.
So I got there, gave here the flowers, complimented here because she was truly beautiful, started talking, asking how here day went, if she wanted to grab something to eat and stuff, you know, try to keep the conversation going.
But she wasn't really trying, and after like a bit less than an hour, she pretended to get a call and that she had to go. It was clear that she didn't want to be with me and I didn't fight it, so I just agreed and let her go.
I was a bit down tbh, stayed there for half an hour, then started to walk back to get the bus. On the way to go to the bus stop, I noticed flowers in a trash bin, and realized it was the ones I gave her. That kinda hurt me tbh.

cookiecrusher · Answer

A big difference between savage and bitchy😅
He did nothing wrong.

Could have shown some class letting him know you are uncomfortable with touching, people don't know you and your personal issues/kinks.

As for myself i didn't know it was a date, it was one of the first time being approach by a woman. She was nice though, we just went hiking and taking pictures in the coutry side, along the shoreline.
She was dressed very nice.
It think there were signs and i know i was an idiot. Great woman, still is.

lightbulb27 · Answer

first real date was after started working, she was the checkout girl at chinese restaurant, I asked her out first time.

was all good and normal discussion until the end when she makes a swooping move and grabbs my crotch from 3ft away to see if I was stimulated, and I was.

I was shocked. who does that? any lawyers want to take my case for sexual harassment?

Good1mufferaw · Answer

It was the worst first date. We were so caught up in our own insecurities that we had completely forgotten how to communicate as normal functioning people. I was about 17 and he was 16 - we went out for dinner, and the whole time we didn’t speak. It was awkward and I hated every second of it. We later started dating, and were together for about a year and a half

snowboarder720 · Answer

Wait… after not telling him that you prefer to not be touched and he put his arms around you, you ran away then later on the phone told him you never wanted to see him again? Ouch.

I went to a movie with my friends and her friends. Her parents were SUPER strict about her dating so we kept it pretty casual. Honestly there wasn’t much of a ‘date’ about it. It was more like a night out with our friends but we called it a date. I was about 11 or so.

t-8900 · Answer

It was nice. She treated me out, bought me a nice meal and we went back to her place to watch movies. She made a pass at me but I wasn't ready for that yet. We cuddled together in bed but that was it. But she was toxic to my life in the long run and took me for granted. Then she initiated some love triangle crap which got really ugly smh.

Dragonpurple · Answer

Was a blind date, setup with my brother so we could double date and go to a theme park. Was pretty fun, I think I was 16 at the time.

She had just moved here from another state and didn't know any guys and I was the ice breaker, after that she started dating all the other guys... and that was that.

andreasderjuengere · Answer

I did not even know that it was a ''date''.
I asked the girl I like out for a cycling trip around the area.
We were 14, I think.
Looking at it from now, we did enjoy the day - but ''dating'' in itself is silly to me; meeting someone does not need a ritual or a definition.

HellGeist · Answer

Great. Spent time alone in her car. Nervous at first, but quickly relaxed. Had my first kiss and made out, and then soon thereafter I lost my virginity to her in the backseat of her car in the parking lot of a church.

10/10 to hot, kinky Catholic girls.

Would do again.

JHNS98 · Answer

My first date was just awkward silence. We met at a café and I knew nothing about what the hell dating was, she didn't talk too much either. I finally started talking about an electric powertrain manufacturer that was visible from the café we met at.

And I wondered why she didn't want to see me a second time lol

Sugar100 · Answer

I was 17 and we went to a museum then ate lunch it was like a turkey inch long sandwich , no kiss, nothing, I wore ugly jeans & sweater, nothing cute , I don't know what I was thinking. it wasn’t an amazing date nor bad. It was awkward. We r stop together & have much better dates now.

Subarugirl · Answer

Never really ever had a “first date” before my husband and I started “dating” we hung out. Went hiking with friends, I’d hang out with him while he worked the night shift at his college. Our first real date wasn’t until about a month into our relationship.

Redstang88 · Answer

Awkward AF. I was 18 I think, met on tinder, met for coffee late at night after she got off work. Took her car down to the local makeout spot, super awkward makeout in her car (in the winter, cold AF) then went home. Couple more weird dates after that then we basically ghosted each other

Anonymous · Answer

I was 17 I wore my blue suit and she wore this beautiful black dress. We went to theather play and saw the play Cats. Then we went out to classy restaurant.

I spent my whole paycheck to impress her. I really really like this girl.

I even pulled out her chair for her. I did everything I should to be the best gentlemen I could.

Must have worked, we dated for two years and almost married her

Gwenhwyfar · Answer

Mine was sweet and loving 😊. I put my head on his shoulder.

Aerissa_Jade · Answer

It was a school dance, since I couldn't touch or be touched by guys back then, it was a touchless date, but it was sweet, given my history.

WtfLife1 · Answer

Awesome, like something out of a movie. Girl picked me up with her parents, went to the park and watched fireworks, smooched for hours. at least that's what I consider my first date.

First technical date, weird. Went to my girlfriend's house, laid down on a mattress and played with her.

TacosRAwesome · Answer

Ok so to start with small country problems. Friend set me up with this guy who happened to be related to my mum's cousin by marriage. Date went fine until he went to kiss me and I had a panic attack and ran off.

exitseven · Answer

I went to this beach town in the summer when I was little. There were no movie theaters or restaurants so there really was no place to have a date. There were a few makeout places we used to frequent however. I was 16.

Play3r · Answer

I think I was 17.
We went to an anatomy event at a park she wanted to see, but the event was not open yet, so I; a total introvert, tried to maintain conversation for about 3 or 4 hours, honestly it felt soo boring, still thanked me tho, said she liked the park (it was near my place so she didn't know it) and spend some time.

Heartache0405 · Answer

My first date ever was with a girl I met online who only lived an hour away. So the first time I met her was at the movies for our first date. We saw the zombie romance movie Warm Bodies.

petitedollbabee · Answer

My first date was when I was 13, we went to the movies, can’t remember what we saw but it was a good time. He gave me my first kiss afterwards.

Anonymous · Answer

Never had a first date and I'm 22. I hope to one day finally go on one...

Staximus · Answer

My first date was not even a date. My brother's girlfriend brought her friend over one day. The next day she came over and said "hey, my friend wants you fuck you". I said "ok, bring her over." The next day she came over with her again and sat next to me. I asked her "do you want to go in the bedroom" and she said yes. We went into the bedroom and fucked, and that was our first date hahaha

Avicenna · Answer

It was fun- I was 15, and she’d already agreed to be my girlfriend, so we were going as a couple to an amusement park.

Elisabeth1985 · Answer

Terrible he tried to sleep with me on the first date. I was 15 lucky I was strong enough to push him off.

AviatorTom · Answer

My first date was an eighth-grade school dance. I was 13yo. I really don't remember much about it other than we danced and had some punch.

MysticDevice · Answer

We were both 15 and It went pretty well and was pretty steamy. We kissed pretty much first thing. Then we made out and even went a little further than that.

Twalli · Answer

Our first official date was at a bowling alley
She asked me out a few months earlier, but her friend happened to be there the same day and found her first. Since her friend wouldn't leave I never knew it was a date.

Shivraj12s · Answer

I also went for a movie
That movie was about two guys (friends) likes a same girl
And my best also like her a lot

I don't know why the situation fit exactly
As result we get into fight with a small break up

Ascarymanasks · Answer

Mine was when I took a girl to the mall and we hung out afterwards

DanielBlack1904120 · Answer

Awesome... Took a hot chick named Nancy to the anniversary release of the exorcist. She brought some friend... Than it turned into a date with a dash of something else. They were great

jimmy2 · Answer

My very first date was on the farm. Her and i sat upon the fence held hands, kissed her and felt her breast and damn grandpa came out never saw her again

Joshua0213 · Answer

I'm still with the girl I went on the first date ever with and she's great

MJtheCoach · Answer

At teenager years that’s normal for a girl To do that. But I remember in high school I didn’t get anything because I acted nice to girls and they would run from me.

OddBeMe · Answer

Honestly can’t remember having a first date in HS. My friend group went out and stuff. I made fingered a few band chicks. But no real “date” til college.

LegendaryIcon · Answer

My first date, was a blind date. It was awful, i didn't even know i was being set up.. they just sort of had me meet her and see how it went. Not a good idea to do. I was 14

DevinAM · Answer

We went to Funspot, my local arcade, and I accidentally got him addicted to pinball. After playing some games, we had dinner then returned to our respective homes.
I think the date went pretty well overall and he said he enjoyed it.

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

Well, with my first real date at age 28 it seemed to go well

GhostMochi · Answer

Good until he later turned out to be a piece of shit

Anonymous · Answer

She paid for the restaurant meal and I sent her later my expenses on her account ☺ Too bad she doesn't chat me up anymore. She said she's too busy. Well, I don't blame her.

anylolone · Answer

I didn't knew it was a date, same for the next several dates. First one was really bad and almost gave a concussion.

Anonymous · Answer

I am ‘’25’’ and will be ‘’26’’ next year. I haven’t had first date.

JohnQue74 · Answer

I was 19! She was 18. set up by my young brother who was dating her younger sister. we went to a skate rink, back in 93, and talked. not badvrwally.

TsAubreyKate · Answer

Her mom followed us to the movies and sat behind us she was super pissed but I thought it was pretty funny

horatiohornblower · Answer

This about sums it up.

EnglishEuropean · Answer

I literally don't remember. It can't have been good though, they never are.

whosnumber1 · Answer

brutal. I had no game. I was too nervous to even hold her hand. hahaha!

Slim57 · Answer

It was alright, went to the fair put my arm around her and held hands, got on the ferris wheel she wanted me to kiss her but i wasn't feeling it

WhiplashMonkey · Answer

15 homecoming dance She was busy snorting coke in the bathroom. Left her the following week.

red324 · Answer

Way to go. I'm sure you've ghosted many guys since.

Anonymous · Answer

unromantic, just sad, not even flowers or opening a door, looked like he was ashamed of being with me, but we still fucked.

doopayo · Answer

Never been on a date yet

zagor · Answer

Depends on just how you define a "date". Because of that, can't really say.

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