Have you ever had someone grab your butt on a First Date Kiss?

Question

Remember this is a First Date.

Prettygurl12 · Accepted Answer

Yes but unique circumstances. My husband and I had known each other for 4 years prior to going on our first date. We had this... flirtationship thing for a while.

So, while our first date was a first date, we already knew each other very well. It wasn't a typical get-to-know-you date like I hear first dates tend to be. We'd been best friends dancing around this "official relationship" line for years so... yeah. Butts were grabbed 😅

Our first date was us agreeing to risk our friendship for something great. We were like, "Alright, we're gonna do this and we're gonna do this right. We're either gonna end up married or not in each other's lives at all." 😂

WhatTheHeckkkk · Accepted Answer

No. I tell them that I’m not comfortable with it on the first date. So if they can’t respect that, there won’t be any second dates lol.

lightbulb27 · Accepted Answer

close, she grabbed my crotch after a hug. it was embarrasing.  didn't get a 2nd date... we were young... and stupid.

NathanDavis · Accepted Answer

no... but I've had random people grabbing my butt just because they felt daring or something, who knows

Citizenkirk · Answer

In Jr. High, a girl my age kept pinching my but saying " HIGH KIRK" in a suggestive kind of way. I never actually dated her, but too see if she was serious or just making a fool of me in class, I responded to her following me into the band room and pinching my butt cheech again by groping her well developed ("SHE WAS A D-CUPPER AT THIRTEEN YEARS OF AGE, HEY CARAMBA 🐧💫♀️") breast and discovering that she wasn't wearing a bra, wasn't really that into me, and didn't have any objections too having her cha chas handled or mishandled anyway.
She was just oversexed and I was an easy mark for some naughty release and gossip.

DizzyDesii · Answer

Yes and i like it. But It makes me pounce. I have to force myself to get down and gain some self control again

Sarahr123 · Answer

Yuck I don’t go on dates. I had a long term relationship almost eight years with a boy I met through mutual friends at someone’s house and we just hit it off. It was friendship and then relationship - there was no dating. I would never go on dates. I will be friends and then we’ll get into a relationship and then marriage.

jillybeanns · Answer

No I’ve never had that happen. You’d have to be careful with making such a move. Someone may label that as sexual harassment if it was not consensual.

kyleelyn199723 · Answer

One of my exes was making out with me on the first date. Another one of them had sex with me on the first date. Bottom line is, they are exes for a reason. They moved WAY too quickly in the relationships I had with them

dustybiker · Answer

No. Didn’t date that type of man though. Isn’t that more of a player move on a first kiss?

lilyanony1 · Answer

Umm I can't really remember tbh.
I think with hindsight that I have probably had my bum squeezed but I don't really kiss on the first date. I think my ex did. He was the first guy and only guy I slept with on the first date and we lasted 10 years

TheRealOgBoss · Answer

All my first dates end in disaster, she always leaves me to go back to her colony and feed the queen 😥 never once tried to grab my butt, and the worst part is, she got killed by a ant-eater on the way back. Never even got to say goodbye

LisaS · Answer

Yes I have. I find a kiss a lot more intimate than a but grab so if I've let them put their tongue in my mouth, they have carte blanch to grab my ass.

Guido · Answer

Never did on a first date but I did have my hands down a girls pants the night we met and had a make out session most of the night. Had our first date and sex after, two days later.

StrawberryShake · Answer

I've only been in one relationship and he has always been very respectful and a gentleman, so no.

Kate090 · Answer

No not on the first date! But like on the sixth date he kinda grabbed my butt while we were making out. It felt a little uneasy at first because it was the first time a guy felt me up like that.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

No, I asked but they refused!

whosnumber1 · Answer

I spanked a girl on the first date... does that count?

SecretYuna · Answer

It has happened it made me uncomfortable so now I never let it happen again

Lovesims3plumbob · Answer

My first Kiss got Steal my guy that I wasn't instersted in dating at the time in high school. one of my ex boyfriend did Grop me when was in a relationship at the time.

FilmGuy93 · Answer

My booty has not been grabbed; I do the booty grabbing and I have staked my claim to dah booty on more than one occasion!

England4eva · Answer

First dates I’m still deciding how I feel. So I just hug goodbye.

Ninani · Answer

Yes, I much prefer having my waist grabbed.

MysticDevice · Answer

Yes, but... she had already told me beforehand that I could. And I was a horny teenager so of course I did.

GoPhuckYaself · Answer

aslong as its not a guy i dont care, maybe il like it,

Anonymous · Answer

No I’d be super uncomfortable with it especially if I barely know you. I’d think you’re just interested in something else and not actually getting to know me. I’d slap him lol

Guardian45 · Answer

LOL! I HAVE grabbed multiple someones' butt on a First Date Kiss! But they ALWAYS became my longtime GFs!

zagor · Answer

Nope. Though I've had strangers grab my butt in crowds.

Wiredone · Answer

I never touched a girl inappropriately on the first date ever.

Luopio27 · Answer

No I have not.  That stuff belongs to relationship.

IncognitoBandito · Answer

If the date was going well and we'd shared a little affection I'd give the cheeks a gentle squeeze.

DarkCarousel · Answer

No, that has never happened.

Better_off_here · Answer

i would be happy if any woman would let me do that to her regardless of if we on a date or not.

HuntedUnicorn · Answer

Yes, and if there is something there it is fantastic.

misunderstoodhoe · Answer

no but i’ve had them slide their hand in my tshirt

Slim57 · Answer

Yeah and I did the same, longest I've dated someone after too

laurieluvsit · Answer

Not without permission, no

Little_Bumblebee · Answer

No, but I haven't kissed on a first date either.

SphynxUK · Answer

Ugh, certainly not! That’s much to forward!

TinawAllison · Answer

No not yet ! I haven’t

Likes2drive · Answer

Not yet but there’s still hope 😊

Nigjt · Answer

Yes I have. God Bless

Waldoe · Answer

yes I have, and I liked it...

Zygum · Answer

Yes, because girls like this

Anonymous · Answer

I've never had a first date kiss. Lol

Changed_Person · Answer

Always. Most girls liked it.

1960Kenworth · Answer

No definitely not I find that very uncomfortable

Leonharted · Answer

Yes.

Neko_Nya · Answer

Yeah I like that

moonpie89 · Answer

Yes..

thatcreamyysoul · Answer

Yes.

nehas2021 · Answer

Yup.

Anonymous · Answer

Yes.

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