First time sex was terrible?

[Anonymous]

The guy I’ve been dating for about three months was nervous during sex: shaky hands, his kisses were a little too rough, he fumbled with his hands when undressing and touching me. He didn’t perform very well and kept apologizing. He came faster than we thought. It was a horrible first time honestly. I’ve been avoiding him, I don’t know what to say to break the awkwardness. Suggestions?

[abc3643]

Yes, get back in the saddle with him. He'll be less nervous and better each time.

When I lost my virginity, I was a bundle of nerves and worthless too, but, once the ice was broken, my nerves were better and so was I in bed...

[abc3643]

Just wanted to mention: I lost my virginity 37 years ago today on 06 OCT 1984.

[OlderAndWiser]

Do you want to give him another chance or tell him goodbye?

[exitseven]

Just forget about it. It was a case of opening night jitters and nothing more.

[tobr83]

Just be yourself. Pm me if you want to chat