2.4K opinions shared on Dating topic. Okay so let's say this a different way an older man what's the date a younger woman is it okay my answer it's none of my business if these two people like each other I say stand back and let them explore each other let them live their life and. And experience is bond with a friendship or more it's between those two people only I think it's beautiful I think it's great
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2.4K opinions shared on Dating topic. Not sure what you would have in common except bumping pee pees.
Although once you do the math it is only 13 years difference.
I dated a girl that was 11 years younger than I was, I didn't know it at the time, but it was fine.
The biggest thing was a difference in our music tastes.00 Reply
Well I think she is going through a path that is different of yours , in the thoughts process. It is important to be aware of that so you don't influence her, which will make her grow "too fast" and waste the most beautiful years of her life.
Also ask each other if there's no Elektra complex , so you have an healthy relationship01 Reply- +1 y
of course she will be wasting the most beautiful years of her life. how is it fair that she would be 35 years old being married to a 58 yr old guy almost signing up for the elderly home in a few years? she's still so young in the prime of life , becoming prepared to be married to senior citizen.
+1 yNo, I think when it’s upper twenties, any age gap I don’t see any issue with since they really are adults. Below 24/25 for me is iffy because I think under that age they’re still very childish and can be manipulated easily/not know what they’re doing.
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u +1 yYou would need to ask the 27 year old woman.
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Asker+1 yI am the 27 year old woman
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That's what I thought. Unless the 40 year old is a very close relative, it is perfectly legal so why does it matter what other people think about it? Does it make you happy?
I wouldn't recommend it. By the time you hit 47 and he hits 60, you likely will experience problems within the marriage. he's also not gonna be able to keep up with you physically or sexually by the time you are 35 and he is 58. From my experience, most younger spouses married to much older persons end up not recommending large age gaps.
It can work short term but if you're planning on being married to him, be prepared for some dissatisfaction in the marriage.11 Reply- +1 y
Be fair to yourself. how is it fair that you would be 35 years old being married to a 58 yr old guy almost signing up for the elderly home in a few years. You're still so young in the prime of life , becoming prepared to be married to senior citizen. You're not being fair to yourself. Its only a matter of time before you become dissatisfied.
+1 yNo.. I suppose it is uncommon but throughout all of human history we find bigger age gaps. Like during the 17th century Puritan men were marrying 13 year olds and no one really objected, it was normal. So, in terms of nature, no it isn't weird. It is hard to manage though nowadays. And for anyone getting any ideas with this, kids matured faster then and are now too innocent to be in any age gap relationship. Don't break the law 💀
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So 27 is the youngest age a 40 year old should be dating according to "society's" standards.
In reality though, you could probably go as young as 18, but people would find that a little "creepy."00 Reply2.9K opinions shared on Dating topic. no... i have been in bigger age gap relationships. adult is adult and age is just a number but regardless of that... its no one elses business anyway as long as both adults are consenting and happy
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+1 yAssuming the 40 year old man is fine with it, then that would rather depend on whether or not the 27 year old woman wanted to date the 40 year old man.. wouldn't it?
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+1 y40 ? My cap is 30 and 32 is stretching it. If a man is 40 it’s hard for me to view that guy as someone I would want to be romantically involved with.
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+1 yIn my personal opinion, yes. I’ll be 27 next year and i have no interest in dating someone in their 40s. My parents are still in there 40s.
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+1 yNope not an issue.
if they are not compatible it won’t work, however same goes if they were exact age.10 Reply- 1.1K opinions shared on Dating topic.
+1 yI personally like to be closer in age, but there is absolutely nothing wrong with it. Age is but a number.
10 Reply It all depends on how they feel about each other. I have known a few couples that the age was a good bit different. As long as they love each other and communicate well it's not an issue
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+1 ydepends on both of their personalities and maturity level... if they're compatible then it should not be a problem since they're both grown adults.
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Asker+1 yI'm the 27 year old woman. I'm pretty mature for my age so that isn't an issue at all.
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what about him... do you feel like your mentally/emotionally/physically compatible?
1.1K opinions shared on Dating topic. I personally wouldn't.
But that depends on the two individuals involved.10 Reply
+1 yI’d find someone closer to you’re own age unless you think he’s the one. Many young women regret getting serious with men older than 10 years apart.
21 ReplyNah, it’s an age gap but I think it’s fine. They’re both mature
10 ReplyWell no, love can happen at any age and it can even happen when their is a age difference between them. All matters people love eachother..
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In my opinion shows that a 40 year old man can’t get a woman his own age. Everytime I see a huge age gap just screams no person their own age is willing to put up with them or they have the maturity of someone in their 20’s.
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Asker+1 yThat may be the case, but then again you can't help who you fall in love with. He acts his age by the way.
+1 ynope. love is love. but. he better not do anything bad to the woman.
00 Reply2.4K opinions shared on Dating topic. Not at all. Dating younger than that is okay too as long as he doesn't have kids near her age.
00 Reply8.5K opinions shared on Dating topic. I usually think ten years is the limit but there can be exceptions.
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+1 yWhat is "too old" these days? If I were he I would be flattered. The big question is, do you think that you could be compatible?
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+1 yas long as that dude has skin thick enough to being judged by people , my opinion doesn't matter
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Asker+1 yLol why do you think people will judge him? It isn't like I'm not legal.
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+1 yNah. I dated a woman 14 years older in my late 20s and it was amazing. Still friends today.
00 Reply 14.5K opinions shared on Dating topic. No. But the odds of a successful long term relationship is not with them.
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+1 yage is a number , that is what 21 year old women that wanted me told me and I was 11 years older than one and I was 19 years older than the other.
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+1 yNo? Is this even really a concern? The girl is 27 and its only a 13 year gap. Thats nothing.
00 Reply 344 opinions shared on Dating topic. No, I'm 47 and I wouldn't date a woman over 30 unless it was very casual
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Yeah okay fake stuff. Go buy a dog lol.
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That’s fine. But I’m just saying you’re nothing more than fair weathered and any woman who is decent with any sense will not stay. That’s why you’re still passing yourself around. Gross.
+1 ymy mom has a friend who is married to a man, 20 years older than her. he's 95, she's 75
00 Reply312 opinions shared on Dating topic. I’m biased but in my opinion it’s not, I’ve done it.
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+1 yYes. Unless she's being paid
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Asker+1 yYou already know 🤪
16.6K opinions shared on Dating topic. Of course not. They are both adults.
00 ReplyNo, both are adults therefore there is no problem.
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+1 yI once dated a girl age 18 and I was age 35-36
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+1 yWell he just wants sex
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Asker+1 yAll men do. No matter the age lol
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Yes and no some want relaniship but don't say. But he will just want sex nothing more and promise the world
Asker+1 yU don't personally know him, I do. He's a good guy. Sex isn't all he wants trust me. 😊
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No but have seen those things happen
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+1 yOnly if she thinks so.
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+1 yNope I don’t think so as long as it works for you.
20 Reply776 opinions shared on Dating topic. Nope. It has to do more with chemistry than age.
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Asker+1 yWhy?
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Because he has way more life experiences than her, and not only that, she has way more energy, more things left to do, and I think that a relationship with such an age gap is limiting to both sides, but specially for the younger person, because I believe there are things they just won't be able to live together in the same way a couple with similar ages would.
+1 yno that’s a reasonable age gap
00 Reply18.5K opinions shared on Dating topic. Nope, not at all.
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Anonymous(30-35)+1 yNo if she's virgin wife her
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Asker+1 yI'm not lol but it's still tight 🤣
Opinion Owner+1 yNo Hymen no diamond babe
+1 yNot to old
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+1 yNever worry about age, just trust
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+1 yNope not too old
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Anonymous(36-45)+1 yNope.
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+1 ynot at all
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+1 yNo it is not.
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+1 yNot at all
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Anonymous(18-24)+1 yI think no
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Anonymous(45 Plus)+1 yno not at all
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