Has anyone ever had a NYE one night stand?

[Confusedblondegirl]

I am 29 and really want to have my first one night stand this NYE. I am visiting a city. Should I try and find a guy in that city via online dating first so I have someone to see when I go there? Or just wing it? I have friends there but I really want to get laid.

[Finchie40]

If you are really just looking to get laid then you shouldn’t have a problem if you are out drinking with friends and if you are attractive, it’s easier for a girl to get laid over a guy , but you should definitely be careful and make sure you don’t get in bed with some psycho and take the chance of getting STD’s etc But again it’s easier for a girl to get laid , all she has to do is give a guy her full attention and basically sweet talk him and make it pretty clear you want him and make him feel like he is the only guy in the room , your chances of getting laid that night will increase , Most people go to bars and clubs to look for hook ups and sex , it just depends on that person and what they are looking for

[Truthatanycost]

This is the lower self speaking. You will enjoy life much more when you set your sights higher. For example 'I am 29 and really want to discover my life purpose and what I was born to do'

That one night stand you speak of opens you up to disease, emotional damage, danger, and when the pleasure you seek is all over with, you will be left with something long term. And you can guarantee it won't be anything that helps you ascend or reach contentment.

[Confusedblondegirl]

all valid points which is why i have been celibate my whole life and now am empty because of it and need a change

[Truthatanycost]

That sounds like you are trying to fill the spiritual void with a physical source.

[kyleelyn199723]

I wouldn’t say a one night stand , but I have drunkingly asked someone out on NYE. I had been messing with him for months lol. The relationship lasted a month and a half 🤦🏻‍♀️

[Confusedblondegirl]

i’m only gonna be in town for one night and i haven't had sex in a long time

[kyleelyn199723]

@Confusedblondegirl I personally think you should do whatever you are doing without having the intentions of screwing a guy. At the end of the day, he may be a regret or being too focused on a guy can distract you from a good night

[Confusedblondegirl]

i mean my friends are kinda boring

[kyleelyn199723]

@Confusedblondegirl your friends probably have your best interest over a random guy lol

[Confusedblondegirl]

i want to get fucked

[laura123iu]

how come you dont try to find love, im pretty sure you have enough time

[wankiam]

go to a bar, pick up a guy and get laid but do be safe

[Jcrummy98]

Good luck with that and I'm sure you will find one.

[moviedude714]

Get on Tinder, women have way more options on there than men do, it's not even a debate

[LegendaryIcon]

no

and please don't

one night stands, are immoral af

[Cowboy6666]

I tried to search for one but wasn't successful. I'm single and looking nowadays too. 😉

[swettannie]

why not just wing it?

[Confusedblondegirl]

what if i don’t find someone?

[swettannie]

girl, it's easy to find someone

[Confusedblondegirl]

you think? i mean i want someone really hot though. and i know a lot of guys would want to with me but i’m more selective

[swettannie]

i'm sure yes

[Nahid1707]

Good luck 😊

[noohair]

Bring condoms.

[Slim57]

No sounds stupid

[Confusedblondegirl]

why?

[Slim57]

Because if the sex is good why would I want it to be a one time thing or with a stranger I'd never see again

[Anonymous]

Typical whore.

[Iron_Man]

Big mistake for you

[Confusedblondegirl]

ew go away

[Iron_Man]

Yes you are an Eww chick