Why would a guy gossip about a girl?

[Faste]

I know this for years and ever since I've known him he gossips about me with his frirnds saying im dirty, a slut and a liar and that i am disgusting. But im neat, i work for a huge company as a executive assistant i pay my bills live nice. He told everyone i am a slut i was a virgin upp til 26.

[Serenity_87]

If he went for it and you rejected him in some way then he's probably turning on you now out of spite and resentment and because his ego was damaged. A definite sign of a man who is extremely immature and insecure. He could be doing it out of Revenge to make you look bad or if he still has a thing for you he could be also trying to make you look bad to other men in hopes that it will scare other dudes away from trying to go after you or hook up with you. Who knows! Men like this are truly pathetic in a way that almost makes me even feel bad for them. But if anyone was out there running my name into the ground I think it would bother me enough to make me go around behind him attempting to clean up the mess and correct all the lies he's spreading and make sure that people know what happened so they understand it's a bunch of lies from a desperate punk. I mean, I wouldn't blow it up into some big dramatic event or anyting but I'd sure as hell go clear my name and not allow him to succeed in giving you a bad rap that's not even accurate! Even more important than that though I think you need to walk right up to him in person face-to-face and tell him off whether it's in front of other people or not! I'd make him look and feel like a real ass hat and embarrass him in front of all the people who he's been talking shit to. He probably doesn't even have the balls to say any of it to your face in front of everybody, just behind your back. So if you confront him face-to-face he will probably just be shocked & cowar in silence. Cuz if none of it's true then what could he possibly say back to you face to face unless he is bad enough that he would literally try keeping up the ACT and the lies about you even straight to your face!

[SaraSmithishere]

We need more context. Who is this loser?

[Faste]

A guy friend

[SaraSmithishere]

Is he unattractive? Awkward?

[Faste]

No he is hot

[SaraSmithishere]

Weird! Normally I see this behavior from unattractive men.
Well, he probably felt burned by you in the past, and now he wants to take it out on you. Also, are you more successful than him? What’s his upbringing like?

[Faste]

Weĺl i come from a good backround, educated, he comrs from ablue collar backrpund, his ftienfs str a bit tjuggish

[SaraSmithishere]

There you go. He’s probably trying to drag you down to his level, and get a reaction from you. He’s a jerk and a loser. He probably has self esteem issues.

[Faste]

Drag me down? is he jealous?

[SaraSmithishere]

Probably. Also, there are some men who believe that they are superior to women, or at least they want to be, and he is probably aware that if you have a better background and are doing better than him, you’re “above” him in some way, so he’s being a jerk to drag you down

[Faste]

He didn't finish hs, got a kid at 22 , he is 36, smokes weed and never finished hs. He worked a mail guy since age 20.

[SaraSmithishere]

There you go! Do you have kids? Did you finish high school?

[Faste]

Mail delivery guy since 2005

[Faste]

No anf i fif finosh hs

[Faste]

No kids did finish hs

[SaraSmithishere]

Good! Keep doing you and ignore him. He’s a bully

[jaybee281]

Have you rejected him in some way before? Or were you close and suddenly you weren't? Or did you hurt someone he knew? Or are there rumors about you (especially if you have many guy friends people are pieces of shit when it comes to this)? Or do you act super nice and too friendly which makes it seem phoney/fake person and attention seeking and in a way kinda slutty?

[Faste]

I rejectedhim

[mark000h]

Doesn't sound like a slut. Maybe he's upset about something and lashing out like a 5 year old.

[Faste]

No...

[Nikkeh]

I would sue him after you get his address.

Sounds like he is asking for trouble and someone should show him that there are consequences for his big mouth spitting out harmful things about other people.

It's no one's business but yours.

He is being slanderous and you should so something about it as soon as possible.

[EmmaMary]

Congratulations on winning a Troll of the day award.

[Faste]

Its trur

[EmmaMary]

Really? 😂

[Faste]

Yh why

[Avicenna]

He's either a really nasty person or he secretly desires you

[Faste]

No he doesn't want me

[noohair]

He is an assho! e and not a gentleman. Just immature.

[bye2021nobodylikesu]

Cause he's gay or just an asshole

[Faste]

he's not gay

[bye2021nobodylikesu]

Good for you