How to tell her I'm not interested?

[Anonymous]

So I went on a few dates with this girl a few years ago, and back then I was not really that interested in her (she's not really my type), so when we stopped seeing each other I was kind of relieved. However she recently texted me out of the blue saying she wants to go on another date, and for some reason in the moment I said yes. I'm not really interested in her and I'm also not that keen on watching a movie with her either... I'd feel bad saying that to her though...

What do I do now? I need help 😕

[djmzes]

Simple

Just tell her what you feel, but do not play around and be commited to the decision. Because lot of times, guys and girls take rejection and accepting date like changing clothes but it is not. It will hurt always one or two in the flow so be careful. What you do today has its consequences tomorrow.

[Anonymous]

Just go on the date.. you already agreed and im not sure tiu can really cancel unless it’s a legitimate excuse and even then she might ask if you guys can reschedule.


After the date, text her and let her know that you enjoyed the movie…. but you aren’t interested in going out again (insert whatever reason)

[Truthatanycost]

If that girl was you, would you still give him the same advice?

[Anonymous]

Be straight up honest with her and let her know you aren’t interested in her, and apologise and let her know you feel it’s best not to go to the movie together and wish her all the best

[Anonymous]

This is tough, because normally it is the woman who has to figure out how to turn down a guy. But sometimes it is the other way around.

It will be interesting to see women's response to this question.