When girl says she's not interested?

[Bennett]

When guys approach me and I don't feel like talking I just say

''I'm not interested' simple.. right?

the next thing they say is, lets go out tonight

huh? o.O

but I just said I'm not interested

doesn't that mean anything?

maybe it means I'm not interested in relationship

BUT

I'm interested in sex only?

maybe I just misunderstood something

I'm not english after all..

tell me, what runs through ur mind when girl says

shes not interested?

Updates

+1 y

do you still hope she can say yes?

[NotSoBad]

its simple.. if you are not interested say "i'm not interested"

if you are interested, say "sure I would love to hang out"

if you say "I'm not interested" to a guy he will probably assume you are not interested in a relationship or sex. You should definitely train yourself not to say "I'm not interested" too quickly, because one day you might say it to a really great guy and he will leave you alone for ever.

Some guys are more persistent than others. So even if you say "no" they may continue to bother you. So I ask you, would you rather have a guy who respects your response of "no" or would you rather have a guy who does not care what your answer is and keeps bugging you?

Don't say one thing when you really want the opposite... that will just lead to confusion and communication problems.

[gotc147]

When a girl says "I'm not interested" I say to myself "Ashame, she won't give me a chance".

Happens quite a bit.

[crabbo7]

When a girl says "im not interested", I back off.

To some guys when a girl says that they see it as a challenge, I guess you can't win lol.