Does that mean she is not interested?

[Anonymous]

So I work with this girl and I crush on her I asked her out couple of times but she’s always stalls and say she is busy although she look interested.

We text a lot and almost everyday. Recently she ghosted me twice on text and showed up next week talking to me in person like nothing happened.

I decided that I won’t pay her attention anymore but she started to act very interested but I kept limiting my communication to her to the bare minimum.

i noticed that she immediately started to show up for work looking far better than usual with perfume all over and so on and she would glance at me all the time but I kept my distance.

now I am really confused, what would that means? Does she likes the attention i give her or is she genuinely interested? I don’t want to fall for her again if she is playing games.

what do you guys think?

[Labokachulaa]

To me it does sound like a game she's playing, because you said it yourself. She only started to act differently once she realized you weren't putting any effort. It sounds like she likes the attention, however, she may have been busy. You would have to speak to her first and ask her. Pay attention to the consistencies in her communication. If she's not consistent, then she's not interested in my book. People make time for what they want. There are 24 hours in a day, she could've taken out 5 mins or so to respond to your message or even send a "I haven't forgot you. Let me get back to you later" text.

Also, if you do decide to give her another chance, pay more attention to her actions than her words and also make sure they are consistent with each other. They need to go together.

[CA4444]

Maybe check with her she may not be ‘playing games’ if you’re interested and not showing it or not sure it must be confusing for her too

[Vikkrram]

Buddy maybe she didn't have feelings for you coz for him you are an just a friend so she don't feel the same as you are feeling for her. You might think that she ghosted you but for her she didn't get the time to text you back or she was not in the mood to text you

And when you personally showed up she would have greeted you as nothing happened

[Chikky]

I think she's interested, like you said she was busy. I have been in that situation too. You get home tired and can't text back. Just give her a benefit of doubt

[Nikki1989]

I think she is probably just busy with other things.

[MountAverage]

She's not interested.