Girls, she said she's not interested, do her actions suggest otherwise?

[zes0511]

so basically there was a girl i dated for about a month who was my best friend for a while. we broke up over something pretty stupid and things got frosty between us the about two weeks ago. we started hanging out again but the other day she said im really not interested in this after i said something that wasn't a big deal. basically she over reacted but I don't know if it was because she was on her period or not (she told me she was) well i was prepared to walk away however later in the day she asked if i wanted to hang out and talk about things. we hung out but didn't talk about anything. the next night she texted me asking if i wanted to go out which we did. when we were at the bar she didn't talk to any other guys and when guys tried talking to her she pointed to me and said boyfriend. the next day she called me in the morning asking me if i wanted to goto dinner with her and her friend but then she texted me asking if we had sex last night. i told her no- i dont sleep with drunk girls if its going ot be our first time its going to be when were sober and its not going to be when im unsure of where things are and she responded prude.. and then at dinner she asked me to join her and her friend to goto the ball game tonight. does it sound like she lost interest because i get the sense she hasn't because we have hung out everyday since she said that and she even asked me about sex and seemed upset when she called me prude. i just dont ger the sense if someone wasn't interested in you they would initiate hanging out so much

[ShesRad80]

she very immature and smart of you for not sleeping with a drunk girl. god knows if she would ever make false accusations at a later point in time. i would detach from her and find someone else no matter what her feelings are. it sounds toxic and like games.

[zes0511]

its not only false accusations its just not morally right and i can't do it in good faith, its just not right. and yea the reason that led to her saying im not interested and what started to argument was because it was that time of the month and we went to get pick something up and we made plans to hang out for a little bit. when we got back i asked her if she was still up for it because i knew the situation so i thought i was beeing considerate. the thing she said was she's basically mad because i text her to confirm plans we already have

[ShesRad80]

that is a ridiculous reason to get mad, she is immature -her period is an excuse. i dont know how old she is but she needs to grow up. having a period doesn't give you and excuse to reason to act or behave like she is. find someone who will appreciate you and your qualities.

[zes0511]

i hear ya but let me ask you this would you tell someone your not interested and then hang out with them as much as we have afterwards and would you bring up sex to that person.

[ShesRad80]

no, i would never do that. its games and leading someone on

[zes0511]

do you think she's playing games and leading me on or do you think she's still interested and she didn't mean what she said ir once she stepped back she realized how dumb it was? im going to ask her where we stand next week i just dont want to do it while her friends in town just not a good time in my opinion.

[HelpfulWoman]

okay. just listen to what's she's said. Don't try to read into her, she sounds like a mentally unstable person who's hot/cold and that's not date material anyway

[cnj421]

Sounds like she has no idea what she wants and you’re better off walking away. If you’re confused, that’s your cue to get out. Especially if she hasn’t had the conversation with you to clarify things.