Does it sound like she's not interested?

[Anonymous]

I said "Hey beautiful how are you"

and she says this:
"Hi. Im good. Went in bed earlier. Today busy day. Brother have birthday and want make surprize for him"

And I just said aw that's nice of you

Am I wasting my time?

[CarolinaJones]

I'm not sure as you may need to interact more with her, and I would need more context. I'm not sure if she's only being friendly with you or has an interest, as most people don't tend to say how they're doing aside from "being good". I guess she may have told you on her plans for her brother's birthday surprise as she may have wanted to engage with you more on the conversation. I guess she didn't want to say "hey handsome" as she doesn't want to come off was flirtatious or wild.

[Asker]

She didn't even ask how I was like I'm good and you? Does she want me to drag the whole conversation

[CarolinaJones]

Coming from your perspective, I guess she just "responded" to you. However, if I were her, I would have said "yeah, and how are you?" I'm not fully sure, I'm having mixed messages since you came off to flirty in your first text message and she didn't ask you how you were. I guess wait to her next message, if she doesn't respond then you're wasting time.

[Asker]

Like she responds to me sometimes in great detail but rarely asks me any questions

[CarolinaJones]

Does she respond in great detail to everyone? If not, I guess she feels comfortable around you and likes your listening skills as a friend. I guess it's a waste of time.

[Asker]

I'm not sure to be honest - I think it's best to step back and see if she'll bother messaging me in a week or 2 or not at all

[Daniela1982]

I think you are looking too much into a normal conversation. What was she supposed to say, "I want to go to my brother's birthday but I'll ghost them for a date with you."? It does sound like there is not anything going on between you. Is this someone on line you are talking to or in person?

[Asker]

We met 3 times before

[melanieeeB]

don't know, that was a normal ass respond. Ask her?