Girls, Do women in the U. S. care what race they date? If you do , why are you selective?

[Anonymous]

No judgement. I'm taken , happily , I just have seen my friends go through some things with girls lately. One girl even told one of my friends that she doesn't date his race because of such and such reason.

[FlaffyCheez]

Yes. I am dating with purpose of finding someone to join my family, otherwise I wouldn't date you, you'd just be a friend and I would prioritize you less.

When someone joins my family I also have to take on their family members. I refuse to intentionally date people with Asian familial ties, simply because majority of the older family is raised in a particular traditional fashion that propagates certain gender norms and elder appreciation to a point that I would be unhappy dealing with them.
If a person with Asian familial ties ends up pursuing me, I wouldn't rebuff them, but I definitely wouldn't be giving my all cause they definitely aren't something I'm looking forward to in future dating.

Similarly White Americans, I wouldn't particularly want to paired with them as our traditional values are largely different (as I have gathered) as well as how I perceive them is not in the greatest light so they would have to really be an AMAZING ASS MAN and I would have to know that already to be willingly dating them yknow?