Why do you think white women in the US are least likely to date outside of their race?

[Anonymous]

Compared to other races, white women date highly prefer or only exclusively want to date white men.
If you're a white woman who would be open to others, I'm not talking about you. I know there are white women like you but the numbers show that you're an exception.

I know black women don't date outside of their race often either but I think it's pretty clear to society that it's because they're the least desirable even though I think they're beautiful. There have even been studies to back this up.

So what do you think about white women doing this? This is just for my curiosity. One thing for sure is that it can't be because other races aren't attracted to white women. Again, this is not about your personal experience but I wanna know what you think about the majority of white women.

[jennifer_bloom]

White girls tend to need laid back guys and white guys tend to be more laid back then other races - like my cousin is Chinese and told me I was a disgusting fat cow because I weighed 120 pounds, a white guy would be okay with even a 170 pound girlfriend.

[Mossberg500]

Because it is natural to want to be with your own people. I understand society has rung all your brains out and hung them out in the sun to rot, but this isn't a difficult question to answer for yourself if you take out the artificial (conditioned) social stigma of not wanting to race-mix.

May I add to your question? Why do races in the multi-culti white west self-segregate? It's the natural order of things. Diversity/Multiculturalism is a manufactured 'thing.' not meant to be.

Acts 17:26

and He made from one man every nation of mankind to live on all the face of the earth, having determined their appointed times and the boundaries of their habitation,

[Berethor]

Why date outside of your race if the men of your race are the most attractive ones?

[Asker]

Right but I'm m curious why do you think white men and Asian women are the most attractive overall?

[Berethor]

Looks and personality, and it's a question on it's own.

[Asker]

I see. Just curious though, do you have an idea of how this okcupid quickmatch works? I haven't used it

[Berethor]

I am not using it as well, but the stats make a lot of sense.

[Asker]

I agree. But somehow I still find it fascinating.

[Rebecka33]

wel most women in usa are mixed with different ethnicity so that when their mother and father die they want something similiar for girls that would be mostly lighter guys that dated there grandmas who may have been darker.

[LaNc3L0TT]

I guess I can't speak for women, but I think that all comes from perspective of surrounding and individual life. I'm living in city/country where most of people are white so there is larger chance for me to meet white girl. But I don't mind having girl different race. :D

[Kaamraj]

If you study the data from dating apps, you will find that white men are the most preferred demography of men. That is a generalized view of all the women who use the apps including white women. The reason behind it, I suspect, is socioeconomic and cultural. White women have fathers, brothers, cousins, and friends who are white so they find it familiar, and that goes for any race or culture of men or women.

[Anonymous]

Even assuming the data is correct doesn't mean it is being presented in a representative way, there are all sorts of ways that statistics can be used to tell lies.

E. g.

1 in 10,000,000 x are y in year one.

2 in 10,000,000 x are y in year two.

100% increase or 0.0000001% increase?

How you present this data will depend on your integrity or if you are pushing an agenda etc

[Avicenna]

I think you may be mistaken- IIRC, black women are least likely to date outside their race. But assuming that’s accurate, it could be due to having a larger pool of potential partners within their race.

[Asker]

I don't know if it's black or white but black women mostly don't have much of a choice because they're the least desirable, not by me but by most of society

[Avicenna]

I think black women are a lot more desirable to nonwhite men than they may realize, but they usually limit themselves to black men only, partly because they don't want to be shamed by other blacks for dating outside the community. If they'd try to date outside their race more, I think they'd have a lot of success.

[Asker]

Hmm perhaps black women do over exaggerate it but there is a chart that anonymous posted showing they are the least desirable. I believe it was based off a tinder study so it is basically off of how someone looks

[Avicenna]

They may indeed be the least desirable group of women, but they can still have more dating success if they make an effort to date more outside their race.

[Anonymous]

It's not just white women. Fr better or worse, white men are the favored group for almost all women.

[Asker]

Yeah but the other girls are going outside of their race and white men are as well. I'm asking why do you think white women date outside of their race the least? I already know that white people are the most popular dating preference.

[Opinion Owner]

White women don't date outside their own race because they are attracted to the same men who women of other races are attracted to... white men. My point is the reasons are the same for both white and non-white women. I just think you are approaching the question from the wrong angle.

Why do white men date outside their race more than white women? Because women of other races have become relatively more attractive to all men than white women due to their character and culture. White women in the West have changed a lot in recent decades, but Asian women, for example, still tend to have more traditional values and are less corrupted by feminist and liberal influences and they behave in a more feminine manner than western white women. The perception, and I think it is largely accurate, is that white women do not treat men as well as women of other cultures.

[Asker]

That's actually a much better in depth answer. But now I gotta ask, why do you think white men are so popular?

[Opinion Owner]

I think it's a combination of things. Relative to men of other races, white men tend to be the most likely to be responsible and loyal mates, providers and fathers.

White men are not necessarily the most attractive, but I think women generally find them more attractive than some other men. The physical features of white men tend to be more sought after than those of SOME other races. Lots of exceptions, of course.

I'm sure there are other reasons, but I think those are the primary drivers here. It all goes back to the core traits women find attractive in men, both physical and behavioral, and I think most women perceive white men tend to offer more of those traits, on average, than men of other races.

[Anonymous]

Yes, European white girls are more open-minded when it comes to equality, dating, and relationships. Not just dating they are nicer to people from other backgrounds and ethnicities. Most of Europe is actually liberal whereas America has a huge division between liberal and conservative people.

[Anonymous]

We white women are the standard of beauty so we get to pick the top men who are mostly white men. Don't get me wrong if a high quality black man appears we won't refuse him.

[Asker]

Why do you think white men are the highest quality? What do you think it is about them that makes them better?

[Opinion Owner]

White privledge. Basically they make more money statistically, more likely to own a home, less likely to have a criminal record...

[CloudMassacre]

Most people in America are white, so the instances of white women vibing with another white person is statistically more likely overall

[Asker]

That might tell some of the story but not the whole thing. White guys are much more open to dating other races.

[Waldoe]

"People" ... are attracted to others because they remind them of Father or Mother... an old saong... "I want a girl, just like the girl, that married dear old Dad..."

[Anonymous]

Who is the least to date outside of their race for the men? by the way race isn't even a biological thing.

[Opinion Owner]

Personally I'd say the media has a lot to play with it. Other races are portrayed as dangerous. Women don't like danger. There are people out there that get nervous around black people just because they are black. They aren't racist but their mind in conditioned to view them negatively.

[nawtee_me]

You need to read some of the other post on here if you think that.

[zagor]

Most people date within their race.

[Asker]

Yeah but white women do most often

[Anonymous]

Quite simply they're racist.

[AndrésC64]

*Citation needed