Why am I an incel? Why do I feel like I’m the only incel white guy that isn’t obsessing over Asian girls online? Anybody else think giving up is dumb?

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Yeah I’m an incel white guy.

Never dated a woman before.

I’ll admit I’m a fucking loser.

But It still just annoys the shit out of me how often I hear other incel white guys obsessing over Asian girls.

We don’t have to date Asian girls.

We wouldn’t even be thinking about dating Asian girls if we weren’t incels.

So what the fuck is wrong with us?

Shouldn’t we be working on ourselves?

I’ll admit I’m fucked up in a number of ways but at least I’ve got a more healthy mindset than incel white guys in their 30’s obsessing over Asian girls on the internet.

I think its absolutely retarted for us to think “oh I’ll just date Asian girls” when plenty of white guys are still dating white women.

So why the f*ck should I be thinking about travelling overseas?

If a majority of white guys are still dating white women then clearly the issue is just with us being inadequate and undesirable.

I just think its a waste of time to be searching for foreign women when I could be dating women already here instead.

Like yeah Asian girls are attractive and shit but its still creepy as shit how incel guys fetishize them.

ohshee · Accepted Answer

Bro you cannot be an incel. Because incel is penises brother.
You don't want to be penises brother do you. Look what you projecting your mind like you're doing right now is negative when you do that what happens if you become negative if you call yourself all these names and you put yourself down what happens that's who you become so take two sets back start feeling positive about yourself fuck what everybody else thinks because you're not going to be in your life all your life anyway people come and go
David we were born we were given the gift of choice we get to choose who we want to be by the things we say and do don't choose to be penises brother I've read a lot of you answers to things you're the farthest thing from being penises brother make a choice it's your choice who you want to be in life nobody else has it's your choice what you feel inside nobody else's you're the only person that can make yourself feel anything happy sad penises brother come on bro snap out of it. this is just a moment in time this moment will pass. And the new moment we'll start we have all gone through this Shake It Off start all over it's your choice who you want to be

bredtaleth · Accepted Answer

It doens't matter if a girl is caucasian or Asian. Stop obsessing about who you should and shouldn't be interested it. Just feel what you want and go for it - regardless of whether you think of it as "fetishizing". You're not a loser just because you haven't dated at 21. Being able to work on yourself, mature and find a natural balance in life is worth more than having a superficial relationship just for the sake of it.

Also, stop throwing around the word incel constantly, making it meaningless. Do you hate women? If not, wrong word.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Stop lying  I have seen your comments simping for Asian girls. You even replied under my comment with kisses and asked me if i am Asian girl.

Romulus8817 · Answer

Man, as what you guys would call a "Chad", I don't wanna talk shit.

I just want you to read what you've written again and understand that this post is your first step to breaking out of the damned incel life.

You know dude. You realize you have these issues. You see the pathetic shit other incels do and call for the bullshit that it is.

Man, you're on the right track.

I hope you keep at it and keep figuring out what it is about you that turns them away. You can fix it dude.

Anonymous · Answer

Don't blame Asian girls lovers for you being a loser.

You wouldn't be an incel if you were used to hanging out with friends in real life and meet new people, talking to everyone and so.

And you surely would be an incel if you didn't shoot yourself in the foot when you decided to embrace alt-right shite and support a conman like Donald Blompf. You might not want to hear this, but it makes you an instant "swipe left" to 95% of the single young women these days.

ChiPaPa · Answer

"We wouldn’t even be thinking about dating Asian girls if we weren’t incels."
Are you a dumbass? So if a white guy prefers an Asian woman, he's automatically an incel to you? How does this make any sense?

Anonymous · Answer

I can't speak for your personal circumstances but being an "incel" is usually about your attitude more than anything else.

Incels tend to take the fact that they haven't had sex and run with it, getting themselves in a rut and defining their self worth over their own skewed perception of both sex and themselves.

In reality, it doesn't matter whether you have had sex or not. The key to happiness is not sex or relationships. You have to work to make yourself happy.

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

You're a incel because you don't go out and meet people or you are super weird or dirty.  You have to go out to get a girlfriend. She's not going to go knock on your door.

Anonymous · Answer

You were a black guy last time I talked to you. Maybe you need some therapy?

doopayo · Answer

The irony speaks for itself 🤣…

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