Am I weird for not finding Asian women attractive?

[Anonymous]

The type of women I fancy

I suppose I may just be uninterested in them but I never really got the appeal of them. I'm lesbian and I've been put in weird situations whenever people find out I'm not attracted to Asian women ( just convos about dating etc.) , a lot of them act like it's common knowledge that you're supposed to like them.

I only want to date black women and when friends find out I only want to be with a black woman ( even though they asked) , they look at me like I admitted to committing a crime, it's like they expect me to find black women unattractive just because black men don't find black women attractive ( I'm a black lesbian not a black man, we actually like our own race tbh 😂).

[soe11]

• Depending on your tests.
• I don't agree with you.
• Many of them beautiful, attractive, astonishing gorgeous female in Asian countries.
• South East Asian are more attractive, flexible, adjustable, competent.
• You need to rethink again.

[Asker]

I'm a black lesbian and only want a black woman sorry not sorry I don't want to race mix 😂😂

[ProbablyClueless]

Nah... you like what you like. There's nothing wrong with having preferences.

I happen to find Asian, and indian women specifically, extremely appealing.

[Asker]

I can only agree with Indian women, I like their skin color, culture, hair and features but would never date one, I don't agree with race mixing

[ProbablyClueless]

Regardless of the race mixing thing, I've dated a few indian women, and my biggest objection to dating another is the social dynamics of indian friend groups. If I were to date another indian, she would have to be extremely independent and not feed into the cultural dynamics.

[Asker]

But your culture is rich, we actually like that about Indians here in Africa, a lot Indians agree with our values, being religious, having honor, no race mixing etc, Indians are the most respected non African group in the continent except for that one idi amin incident of which I'm ashamed of. I hope the best for India

[BMW_888]

Indians are diverse, got different skin tones & religions. From North to South. Bollywood is awesome. Perhaps you never seen the ones that u will find attractive. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

[Asker]

Indians are the only Asians I find attractive, might be because bollywood is very popular in Africa, I only find east and south east Asian women unattractive but south Asian men and women are the most attractive non black people

[BMW_888]

Got lot of guys got yellow fever compared to brown/desi fever. Be it West & East. Not enough representation on the media/ads when it comes to Indian women. Hollywood is quite stereotypical their roles, they like to show Apu.

Wow, Bollywood is very popular in Africa. Indians got better features, just need to take of themselves. Poverty also impacted the person's appearance, despite poverty there's still Indians who look attractive especially the women.

[Asker]

Africans think you're the only Asians that look attractive, brown skin, nice hair etc, you're more likely to find people with brown fever in Africa than yellow fever. African women even think Indians are typically more attractive than white people or other Asians, that's just what I know and see

[BMW_888]

Wow, I'm suprised. Different country, different preferences/taste. Opposites attract.

[Asker]

Exactly, plus I think Indian men are the only non black men that have some features African women like, like brown skin, family values, religious and skinny also Indian men are typically taller than local men and women like taller men

[laraWM]

It's not weird at all, you shouldn't listen what people are saying

[Avicenna]

Your preferences are solely your business. There's never complete agreement among people on such topics anyway.

[Zack-Bann]

Are you weird? No.


… but also yes


Just kidding: of course the heat wants what it wants.
If we all liked the exact same things the world would be the most uninspired place in the universe

[Asker]

True, I just don't get the yellow fever hype and I don't get why it's wrong to be attracted to black women 🤨

[Zack-Bann]

No one ever said it’s wrong.
It’s just uncommon when you compare to other ethnicities.

But it doesn’t matter what others like.
If you like black women more power to you

[Asker]

How is it uncommon to like black women? Do you mean amongst non black groups than I would agree non black people are genetically closer to each other so they each have features they are familiar with but I'm a black lesbian myself and it's obviously common for us to only like black women so what's uncommon?

[Zack-Bann]

Considering you’re a blue anon, I did not immediately assume you were a black lesbian.

And you’re right: commonality changes depending on what group of people you’re asking.

I have far too little information on yours so I wouldn’t know what’s the most common

[Asker]

I'm using my brother's account and don't really know how to change the avatar ( please help). However black women only like they're own race or they'd rather stay single if they can't find their people, we don't even have non black friends either majority of the time ( except for me, south Asians are the only non black people I find cool)

[Zack-Bann]

I don’t think you can change the color. That’s by design to make it hard for people who want to troll by changing genders on the fly.

But it’s a free site you could recreate your own account in two seconds honestly.

Interesting that black women are known for liking their own race.
I have this one co-worker who’s black and every black guy we have tried hitting on her but she turned them all down

And me who isn’t black just a had short conversation with her during an afterwork once and we ended up making out for hours on the street before going home.

I guess there are expectations to everything huh

[Asker]

Are you sure she was fully black, I'm from Africa so I don't know what's going on with black Americans tbh Africans don't really like them so I can only speak for my people here in Southern Africa 🤷🏽‍♀️. Also I don't blame her for ignoring black guys there, your average African dad wouldn't even want his daughter to date a black American man either tbh

[Zack-Bann]

Haha yeah I know.
And she’s from Cameroon. Both parents.
This didn’t happen in America, I don’t actually live there

[Asker]

There are half breeds in every African country was she one of them or just a prostitute on the side?

[cherrytreeblossom]

everyone got their taste, kinks and fetishes. i dont like natural red hair, only colored, if at all. people are weird. we both could be weirder. i think this is extremely tame in comparison to what i've heard of

[DryGermanGuy]

The woman you posted is what you often see in various Asian countries…

[Asker]

😂😂 She's literally a black southern African

[AnonAndrew]

It's unusual, but there's nothing wrong with it. We don't control who we're attracted to.

[Static_In_The_Attic]

Attraction is attraction & if you are attracted to someone that is all that counts.

[Anonymous]

No and you should try to stop caring what other people may think.
Who you date or don’t date is your choice.

[zagor]

No, it's a matter of personal preference. I tend to find a lot of Asian women attractive, but far from all of them.

[Anonymous]

Yes, it's kinda strange, most guys like Asian girls.

[Asker]

I'm actually a black lesbian not a guy and it's not strange for black women to only want their own species, it's natural for us and I've met plenty men in Africa that don't find Asian women attractive, I think it's only the Eurasian species that do

[Opinion Owner]

I see, ok, thanks for the explanation.

[Asker]

Your welcome infidel

[Opinion Owner]

Infidel?

[Asker]

You called me weird for not wanting to date a species of women I have nothing to do with, only infidels would encourage black women to date Eurasian species

[Opinion Owner]

I said it's strange for a man (you are using male account) - I didn't know you're a woman.

[Asker]

Not for African men, I don't know about other men but most men in my country would only be open to Indian women rather than an east or south east Asian woman, we don't value their features unless they're on khoisan women ( black women indigenous to southern Africa)

[Opinion Owner]

Khoisan, I get it, like Bushmen, right?

[Asker]

Yes, they're black women with slanted eyes, I find them really hot ( I'm khoisan so I might be biased 😂)

[Opinion Owner]

LoL, I know, they have strange language with clicking sounds :D

[Asker]

Yeah, but all I'm saying is men in Africa are not attracted to Asian women unless they're Indian, Eurasian people find them attractive tho, although they are practically all the same race tbh

[Opinion Owner]

Well, European people don't have slanted eyes.

[Asker]

Still more genetically closer to Asians than khoisan people are to Nigerians, you're both eurasians after all, same race

[Opinion Owner]

East Asians are actually more related to Polynesians, and Native Americans (they all have slanted eyes).

[Asker]

Still genetically Eurasian like Europeans and are pretty homogeneous with little genetic distance, you're all classified as white in my country for the exact reason

[Opinion Owner]

But most people think that Asians are yellow 🤷

[Asker]

White ( All Eurasians)

[Opinion Owner]

Most Asians are darker than Europeans.

[Anonymous]

No. Most Asian women are highly narcissistic.

[Asker]

Oh? Really? I've never heard of that, tbh I don't interact with that species

[Anonymous]

There's a so many things wrong with this question

[Asker]

How?