How Do I Find Out If My Colleague Is a Closeted Lesbian Or Just Straight?

[fonduegirl]

i have two girls, both college junior but damn they look fine.

A. Ex basketball captain. Above six in height 😳 and she caught me staring at the side of her face, her eyelashes were so thick and dark! She's got the hot masculine energy 😩

B. She's so fucking cute! Even in glasses oof. Her voice is really nice, she's my friend's friend. That friend's not very nice so... No blind dates in order. Her fashion sense is impeccable.

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Is you is /
Or is you ain't /
My baby

(♡ω♡ ) ~♪

Relatable 😆

[LesterJester]

Just get to know casually and slow at the start. Become friends and learn interests. In the middle of all this, throw out a "check that guy out..." or "check that girl out..." and observe her response.

Or you could go straight out and ask her & tell her your intentions, which saves a lot of time but also is an easy way to scare someone off, even if they are interested.

Without knowing how open you are about your sexuality towards others and not knowing much about the environment you interact in together, I can only advise in a general manner.

[AviatorTom]

In a quiet, out of the way place, maybe a quiet corner of the office, tell her how beautiful she is and gently kiss her. Her reaction will tell you if she's a lesbian.

[fonduegirl]

Interesting! I'm gonna try this. :)

[AviatorTom]

Thanks for the mho

[AmandaYVR]

How about collect 3 pictures of hot females, and 3 of hot males, and casually ask them, "Hey, which ones would you want to sleep with?"

[TheLittleInnocent]

When I wanna find out that kind of thing I personally just ask directly. Works out pretty good (゜o゜)

[NathanDavis]

maybe you could start with compliments on their looks, their style or something like that... see how they respond to that, feel the vibes

[FunkyMonkee]

DAMN!! Can I have the baseball capt? I'm well over 6' tall, too!!
Otherwise, get some alone time with them and ask if you can lick their pussy.

[fonduegirl]

I know right?

[the_bruh]

Hit em with the "lesbians say what" works every time.

[the_bruh]

Your welcome

[Guido]

When talking to her, ask her what she likes in a partner.

[BlueLust]

Get a t shirt printed that says I’m a lesbian if you’re one too say hi. Then wear it the next time you plan to be around them. It’s like a not so sneaky, sneak attack.

[Anonymous]

I don't have any experience with asking a girl whether she is a lesbian.

[Opinion Owner]

Maybe you should invite them to your place to watch Blue Is The Warmest Color.

[fonduegirl]

Good idea

[stargazeraug1989]

Why not just offer to sleep with her and tell her how much you'd rock her world?

[fonduegirl]

This is terrific

[stargazeraug1989]

How so?

[fonduegirl]

I can't stop thinking about her

[stargazeraug1989]

Why not?

[fonduegirl]

I dunno

[stargazeraug1989]

Tell her

[fonduegirl]

It's hard to come out in India, man. People here are religious freaks, or just dumb.

[Gwenhwyfar]

Flirt with them a little

[Wise4myage]

Ask her if she's dating anyone.

[fonduegirl]

Dude 😳😳😳

[Wise4myage]

Seriously.

[fonduegirl]

🙈🙈🙈🙈

[Curmudgeon]

Actually, anon1903, it's good advice. You could mention as an aside you can't find anyone, (not initially revealing your preferences) and see how she responds. Gathering more information is never a bad option.

[Anonymous]

I don't understand this question at all.

[fonduegirl]

I wanna find out if the girls are lesbian without embarrassing myself

[roy_ricky09]

Sounds like you like girls

[fonduegirl]

I'm bi.

[Super-Sam]

Ask her what she think about you..

[JosyJosy]

I'd just ask.

[Joker_]

She's straight