How Do I Find Out If My Colleague Is a Closeted Lesbian Or Just Straight?

Question

i have two girls, both college junior but damn they look fine.  A. Ex basketball captain. Above six in height 😳 and she caught me staring at the side of her face, her eyelashes were so thick and dark! She's got the hot masculine energy 😩 B. She's so fucking cute! Even in glasses oof. Her voice is really nice, she's my friend's friend. That friend's not very nice so... No blind dates in order. Her fashion sense is impeccable.

LesterJester · Accepted Answer

Just get to know casually and slow at the start. Become friends and learn interests. In the middle of all this, throw out a "check that guy out..." or "check that girl out..." and observe her response.

Or you could go straight out and ask her & tell her your intentions, which saves a lot of time but also is an easy way to scare someone off, even if they are interested.

Without knowing how open you are about your sexuality towards others and not knowing much about the environment you interact in together, I can only advise in a general manner.

AviatorTom · Accepted Answer

In a quiet, out of the way place, maybe a quiet corner of the office, tell her how beautiful she is and gently kiss her. Her reaction will tell you if she's a lesbian.

AmandaYVR · Accepted Answer

How about collect 3 pictures of hot females, and 3 of hot males, and casually ask them, "Hey, which ones would you want to sleep with?"

TheLittleInnocent · Accepted Answer

When I wanna find out that kind of thing I personally just ask directly. Works out pretty good (゜o゜)

NathanDavis · Answer

maybe you could start with compliments on their looks, their style or something like that... see how they respond to that, feel the vibes

FunkyMonkee · Answer

DAMN!! Can I have the baseball capt? I'm well over 6' tall, too!! Otherwise, get some alone time with them and ask if you can lick their pussy.

the_bruh · Answer

Hit em with the "lesbians say what" works every time.

Guido · Answer

When talking to her, ask her what she likes in a partner.

BlueLust · Answer

Get a t shirt printed that says I’m a lesbian if you’re one too say hi. Then wear it the next time you plan to be around them. It’s like a not so sneaky, sneak attack.

Anonymous · Answer

I don't have any experience with asking a girl whether she is a lesbian.

stargazeraug1989 · Answer

Why not just offer to sleep with her and tell her how much you'd rock her world?

Gwenhwyfar · Answer

Flirt with them a little

Wise4myage · Answer

Ask her if she's dating anyone.

Anonymous · Answer

I don't understand this question at all.

roy_ricky09 · Answer

Sounds like you like girls

Super-Sam · Answer

Ask her what she think about you..

JosyJosy · Answer

I'd just ask.

Joker_ · Answer

She's straight

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