Is my friend lesbian?

[Anonymous]

My friend told me today that she’s in love with me and asked me to say it back to her so it’ll make her feel better. We always tell each other “I love you” and it’s the same with my other friends, but it was taken to another level when she said she’s “in love” with me today. Is she lesbian? Does she really have feelings for me? I’m not gay and I’m married with 3 kids. I’m not sure if she was joking or not. She wasn’t laughing. I’ll talk to her about it again but I wanted to see what opinions y’all have.

Updates

+1 y

by the way, she claims she’s not gay. She’s only been with guys but she has said previously that she’d be lesbian only for me 🤷🏽‍♀️

[NathanDavis]

if she is your friend, then just ask her if she is lesbian

she will 10000000000000% know better than any assumption I, or anyone else here could make, lol

[Asker]

Lol I am gonna ask her when I get a chance. Just wanted to know what y’all thought in the meantime. She’s always said she’s not lesbian but she previously stated that she’d only be lesbian for me. I just can’t tell if she’s she talking or she actually means this stuff lol. I was just very caught off guard so didn’t really know what to say. But ima def talk about it with her later

[NathanDavis]

are you a lesbian?

are you bicurious and willing to explore?

[Asker]

Not a lesbian. Married to a man. And not really bicurious. I like penis lol

[NathanDavis]

and I am sure she knows that well... since she is your friend, right?

maybe she's the bicurious one... and you're very attractive to her, maybe not exactly lesbian

maybe she's just getting a bit clingy with you... this needs to be discussed and talked about

[Asker]

Yea that makes sense. Def needs to be discussed

[Changiis07]

Sounds like it yes specially if she said she’s in love with you

[Asker]

Oouu that changes the whole dynamic