My boyfriend has female friends that will pee in front of him and he claims it's normal is it understandable I don't like those women doing that?

[Dawnlind92]

[OlderAndWiser]

I don't have any females friends who would pull down their panties in my presence and, if they did, I would think something was amiss. That is not normal behavior amoung most people unless perhaps they all grew up as nudists.

[Dawnlind92]

If he was single that would be different. she was in a relationship as well, and I found It not only perverted but downright disrespectful towards me.

[OlderAndWiser]

Seems like a stupid, crude way for her to try to seduce him, but I can't think of any other reason why a girl would do this.

[Dawnlind92]

Yeah especially when she went out of her way to say we're brother and sister this is nothing new.
Seems she liked him to see her pee.

[Dawnlind92]

Also he argued nothing can be see when a woman pees on the toilet.

[OlderAndWiser]

So, after seven months, are you still dating the same guy?

[OlderAndWiser]

Well he can certainly see the goods when she stands up!

[Dawnlind92]

Yes and to this day he claims the peeing is normal.

[OlderAndWiser]

I think that is a huge red flag. In my mind, she may be keeping a distance because he is in a relationship, but she is also advertising what is available to him if he is interested.

[Dawnlind92]

Honestly I value my privacy. I don't need anyone to see me in the washroom lol!

[OlderAndWiser]

I have been living with my girlfriend for ovr a year and I don't want to see her peeing!

[Anonymous]

Not normal at all... he prolly can't tell em not to do anymore or he doesn't wana tell em cuz he likes it... and maybe he dont wana leave em for u too for this behaviour so he claims it normal... i dont think he really thinks its normal n he just saying it to get away n let things stay same

[Dawnlind92]

The first time I met his female bestie she peed in front of him and said that it was nothing unusual they were like brother and sister
He then argued he grew up with lots of brothers and sisters and one bathroom to share and that he couldn't see anything when a girl sits on the toilet. He argued it's totally normal and healthy I wondered if other people who are in a relationship pee in front of just friends of the opposite sex... nobody seems to agree it's normal

[JazzLuvnAnt]

Then he needs to tell them not to pee in front of him because it makes his girlfriend uncomfortable. If they insist on doing it anyway, he should always leave the bathroom if they do that while he's in there and close the door if they are using the bathroom with the door open.

[RealMarek]

You should tell him how you feel about it and he should make it stop. This is unusual behavior and you’re not being unreasonable.

[Dawnlind92]

Her 20 year old daughter also leaves the bathroom door open and pees in front of my boyfriend. Her mom (my boyfriend's female friend) said she's proud of her daughter for being so comfortable around her male friend because she sees him as a dad. The whole thing is fucked up.

[SiberFox]

I think it's understandable that you would be bothered by it, it might not be sexual but it is innapropriate.

[Dawnlind92]

To make matters worse his friends daughter who is 19 will sit and take a pee In front of him because he is like a father to her. The mom and her thinks it's normal how perverted is that?

[bowenw]

I've never heard of that. You could ask him if it's okay with him if you pee in front of your male friends.

[Dawnlind92]

Nah I prefer my privacy lol

[bowenw]

My suggestion was intended more to get a reaction out of your boyfriend than to actually go through with it.

[Dawnlind92]

I thought of doing it to show him how inappropriate this type of behavior is but I get stage fright lol

[bowenw]

You don't actually have to do it, just threaten to.

[JazzLuvnAnt]

Just to get his reaction. If he has a problem with that, then you know for sure it is because he is perving when other women pee in front of him.

[joedunn500]

I’ve seen my best friends girlfriend pee before but that’s cos she comes to the gym I work at and we have female urinals

[Dawnlind92]

I didn't know female urinals were a thing!

[Wise4myage]

Quite normal among friends who feel comfortable doing it.

[Dawnlind92]

Do you actually know opposite sex besties who toilet in front of each other?
I'm specifically talking about friends of the opposite sex not same sex

[Wise4myage]

Yes I do.

[Dawnlind92]

Are any of them in a relationship with other people?
I always thought toileting was a private activity, perhaps the odd female in front of female but not female in front of male

Her daughter (20) will also leave the door open and pee in front of my boyfriend as well

[Wise4myage]

Not that I know of. Your daughter seems pretty care free.

[Dawnlind92]

Not my daughter my boyfriend's best friends daughter!
I suppose everyone has different boundaries. Afterall there are nudist colonies...
I myself prefer privacy when using the bathroom

[jahaims]

I've changed/slept in the same tent as female friends.

[Dawnlind92]

Were you In a relationship at the time? Totally different than using the toilet in front of someone of opposite sex in my opinion

[jahaims]

Yeah I'm married. It's weird to use the bathroom with a friend but I don't think it's wrong.

[Dawnlind92]

There's no reason for it.

[LegendaryIcon]

why your boyfriend, needs female friends in the first place, i dk

[Dawnlind92]

I don't care if he does as long as there are appropriate boundaries.
If everyone was on a hike and a person needed to pee outside that would be understandable but in the case of him and his female friend she would pee and talk with him in the bathroom while she went and even went out of her way to say "this is nothing new were like brother and sister," to him

[EaterPeter]

Sharmo haya ka parda dushwar nahi hai,
Halka sa ek parda hai diwar nahi hai

[Anonymous]

Men do NOT have female “friends”
Just girls they want to fuck and she won’t

[jaybee281]

That is - at least in my case - 100% not true

[Opinion Owner]

@jaybee281 Yes Let’s see all those fat ugly women you contact out of the blue to just see how their day was or go out for coffee with.

[jaybee281]

Again - inaccurate - I just happen to find dudes boring and badly not even taking care of themselves - while girls are more versatile in conversation and they always look good - They're just easier to talk to, more fun to talk to as well as the fact you'd be more confident/proud walking around with hot girls than with dudes wearing first communion cargo shorts - I do acknowledge I'm at least slightly attracted to them (as in I'd fuck them if they ask) and that I do like the attention - but I don't actively pursue it - that's left for girls I genuinely like really..

[Opinion Owner]

@jaybee281 You are so fill of shit it’s coming out your ears.
You literally just made another post about how you want to stay friends with a girl who rejected you so she could introduce you to other girls.

[jaybee281]

No moron - You can't even read properly - I literally agreed with your comment on how she'd use him for attention in case he goes through it - My own comment on the asker's question said the same thing - So learn how to fuckin use the app or site and read each comment properly before making assumptions about people - The asker is one dude - I am another dude dummy

[Opinion Owner]

@jaybee281 So you agree but then say it’s also not 100% true?

[jaybee281]

Yea - Simply because the way I see it most dudes are the way you've described in your initial comment - But then there is me - Which mathematically makes your comment unable to be 100% true - And obviously there must be other dudes such as myself - But in the case of the asker - You're right - He needs that type of advice because he does belong to the majority of dudes who don't have a girl genuinely as their friend and will only end up getting lead on and hurt in the long run all the while still secretly hoping they'd end up together

[Opinion Owner]

@jaybee281 Yes like I originally said... there is no guy who has female friends he doesn't want to fuck.
So I don’t get why you went into this tangent of me being wrong o ly to come around and agree with me.

[Dawnlind92]

@jaybee281 I understand where you are coming from. However my concern isn't that he has friends it's what boundaries he has (or doesn't have) with friends. I would not use the toilet in front of a male unless it's my partner. He says his female friends are like sisters.

[Dawnlind92]

Neither of you actually answered the question. Whether or not men can have female friends or not is besides the point.

[Opinion Owner]

@jaybee281 Bro you literally admit that you are “friends”’with women because of sexual interest and then claim you are different that us... FO

FOR THE ASKER:
You boyfriend has female friends he wants to fuck. If his stories are true, a female who pees in front of a male HAS had sex with him before.

[Dawnlind92]

That is not my question
People feel differently about people with having opposite sex best friends and that is ok.

Im referring to the behaviour around these friends.

[Koda1]

Nah they definitely fucked lol

[Dawnlind92]

And what's worse is his pathetic excuse that he grew up in a big family with sisters and brothers who all shared a bathroom whearas I was an on! y child and has the luxury of privacy. He said his female friends are like sisters and argues it's normal for women to use the toilet in front of male friends. It made me angry and frustrated

[Wester1967]

Get a new boyfriend. That's gross AF.

[Dawnlind92]

He says it's normal as they are like brother and sister and nothing can be seen when a woman sits to take a pee. What's even more gross is her 19 year old daughter will also pee In front of my boyfriend. Her mom says it's ok because my boyfriend has known her since she was a little girl and she sees him like a father!

[ojmetal]

That should only happen if he's gay. Is he gay?

[Dawnlind92]

No. He says she's like a sister and it's normal

[zagor]

When hiking outside? Not that strange.

[Dawnlind92]

I'm talking about being in a bathroom together (either at home or a single washroom facility out) and sitting on the toilet while talking to one another. outside is Totally different and everyone has had. that emergency

[zagor]

That is a bit odd.

[Dawnlind92]

Her 20 year old daughter also pees in front of my boyfriend and her mom said she's proud of how comfortable her daughter is around my boyfriend and sees him as a dad!

[In_Trance]

So what's your question?

[Dawnlind92]

If I have the right to feel uncomfortable and disrespected by his potty ritual with other women. Also I'm asking if it's normal for anyone else

[In_Trance]

you have the right to feel however you want. You also have the right to tell him how you feel

[Anonymous]

I like it when they pee all over me!

[blueazure]

It's understandable.

[Dawnlind92]

He argues it's normal and ok because he can't see anything when a woman sits to take a piss.

[blueazure]

He just forced his opinion on you. And it's not good. It's kinda like a waste of time to argue with him. It's better to respect each other.