Am I gay if I can’t match with women on tinder but I can with men?

[Tomtom9494]

I was trying out tinder for several days only swiping right and got 0 matches with women. I switched over to men and I’m already matching. Is this a sign that I’m gay and unattractive to women and only men find me attractive?

[Effably]

Nah man. Getting a match with a dude is comparatively just easier. Mostly because dudes aren't as picky and in much larger supply. Partially because guys also got more varied taste.

Putting it this way for comparison, as a straight dude, my typical club-going experience I get to enjoy on average 1-2 girls taking the initiative to directly flirt with me if I do not make the first move. That is across the entire night.

I visited gay bars a few times, got a pal who swings that way and another time for the fun of it and so on. And I swear I had someone at me every 5-10 minutes. Now the blokes were super cool about it and it was a genuinely uplifting experience although I suspect after some years it would get to your head. The difference really is crazy though.

[loveslongnails]

You're either straight, bi, gay, not interested at all, or turned on by anything that moves, or maybe doesn't move! . LOL Only you the answer to this. Obviously, other men THINK you're gay or are attracted to you. If you're not attracted to them, there's your answer.

[TwinkleLily5]

Tinder matches do not determine your sexuality. By you changing your preference to men I would assume you have some curiosity to dating a man and there is nothing wrong with that.

[Tomtom9494]

Haha nice diss

[TwinkleLily5]

@Tomtom9494 sorry wasn’t trying to diss you. Well then what made you change your preference?

[Tomtom9494]

No you were absolutely thank you

[Anonymous]

There are more guys using dating apps than girls….
You are gay if you like guys. If you can attract guys it doesn’t mean that you are gay

[slatyb]

You are gay if you are attracted to men but not women. Are you?

[Tomtom9494]

Am I

[NamerOfStars]

Your sexual orientation is about what you desire, not what you attract.

[Jamie05rhs]

Lol. That doesn't mean shit. It just means that men are less shallow than women are.

[dudeinachair]

Unless you're sexually attracted to the guys you're matching with then no, you're not gay.

[Tomtom9494]

Lmao.

[SnakeBoop]

no, that is not what makes a person gay. wtf.

[Wowboi]

"You switched over to men" lol that says it all

[Tomtom9494]

Haha

[OddBeMe]

Or men, even gays, or easy.

[nickfontenot]

Are you attracted to men?

[fireforeffect]

Gay is a mental issue.

[boobliker]

try less hard?

[Tomtom9494]

I’m what way? I don’t seem to try at all