How can a really attractive guy get more women?

[Intothevoid666]

Its like every girl I talk to assumes I don’t actually have any interest in dating them and would rather fuck one of my 17 hoes on stand by but I don’t have any hoes on stand by so I’d really like a date but that doesn’t seem to be happening. And it literally takes months of talking to most women to get them to agree to date if it ever happens. Help please. I was told this would be easy but it’s nottt.

[Leonharted]

Maybe stop trying to be a fuck boy and commit to someone.

[Intothevoid666]

I have to go on dates to find someone to comity to right? The girls I’d possibly want to commit to actually have to go on a date with me first right? How do I get them on the date in the first place.

[Leonharted]

You ask them. There's no secret formula to getting a date. Talk to someone, and at the end of the conversation, if you enjoyed it and you think she did, too, ask her out on a date.

[Intothevoid666]

Ok so I meet a girl at school or at a bar or wherever. I have a fairly quick interaction with them and get their Instagram. I then message them and try to talk a bit and set up a time but they are unreceptive in text. What do I do? Cuz this happens like every time

[Leonharted]

Don't ask a girl out over social media. Screw facebook or instagram. Ask her out in the moment.

[Intothevoid666]

Ask them on a date like and specificy it’s a date or just ask them to hang out again?

[Leonharted]

Just get her laughing and talking with you. Can be anywhere, but I always found waiting rooms to be the best place for it. She's sitting around, bored with nothing to do, so a distraction is usually welcome. Once you've got her laughing with you, and in a good mood, and someone is getting up to leave, say something like, "You made sitting in a waiting room fun. You must be a blast when you're not in a boring place, and I'd like to find out. Can I have your number?" If she says yes, CALL HER. Don't text. Don't search for it on social media. Call her. Set up the date then. If she says no, then say something like, "Ah, well. Can't blame a guy for trying. Thanks for the fun conversation, though."

[Intothevoid666]

Sometimes I call sometimes I text neither seems to work. Does text versus call really make that much of a difference? I’ve tried both tho.

[Leonharted]

Yes, calling makes a difference. Firstly, they don't really get to sit back and think about the question, and all the reasons to do it or not to do it. They just have to go with their gut.

Secondly, calling shows confidence on your end. You're not afraid of being rejected.

[Intothevoid666]

Last girl I talked to I called she didn’t answer and started texting with me. I think the problem is getting them convinced I actually want to date them and not just hookup with them. Cuz Most girls don’t answer my calls anyways they’re much more likely to answer a text ime. But that’s just me.

[Leonharted]

If they texted me, I'd just call again. If they said they were busy, I'd ask when they were free to talk and call then.

[Intothevoid666]

Why does text versus call matter so much?

[Leonharted]

I already told you why.

[FGTRTD]

Someone's looks is not why I come to that impression. It's a vibe for sure.

[Intothevoid666]

What are we talking about?

[Intothevoid666]

Ok well that’s the vibe I give off ig. It’s not true tho so how can I make this stop happening?