What can men do to appear more attractive to women?

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Goldie757 · Accepted Answer

1. Put effort into your appearance; dress and groom yourself well. Humans are wired to make snap judgments about each other based on their appearance. If you're put together in a sloppy or unstylish way they're likelier to make negative assumptions about your personality, and be less likely to give you a chance. If you're well-groomed and well-dressed they'll tend to assume you have other positive traits, and tend to view your mistakes and foibles through charitable eyes. Of course sometimes the conclusions people jump to are dead wrong, but it doesn't stop their minds from doing it.

2. Let me ask you this... have you ever seen someone at a bar or on the street, and you just KNEW that he or she was feeling insecure, and lacking in a lot of confidence? Now, how did you know? My guess is that you figured it out through their body language.

Believe it or not, your body language says MORE about the type of person you are, and how much of a quality 'catch' you are, than any combination of words that you can put together and articulate.

If you are habitually looking down, or find it hard to look at a someone straight in the eyes, then you're probably also showing a lot of other "bad" body language. Confident is a turn on. Insecure people find it hard to even get a women's attention to start with.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

what I find attractive is:
1) Tall men who are thin ( i don't live muscles and prefer thin/skinny)
2) Strong jaw line and a nice beard
3) Fair skin
4) Nice hair ( but my boyfriend is balding, so now i prefer shaved)
5) Smell good
6) Wear more dark or solid colors that bring attractiveness and enhance your features ( i don
t like guys who wear very colorful t-shirts and many colors together)
7) Have a bit of a bad boy style but not too much ( low waist pants, and some tattoos but not too much)
8) Be kind and trustworthy
9) Be genuine and responsible
10) Offer to pay for things ( but she shouldn't use/abuse that)
11) Be down to earth and easy to get along with
12) Be successful at your work, and passionate about it..
13) dont give your girl reasons to be scared/jealous

My boyfriend has the majority of that and i really love him,, i just wish he can prove his style more, as he likes wearing many colors together, and kinda clothes that look cheap, i wish he can also shave his head more regularly as he is balding and sometimes leaves the sides of his head grow and it makes him look much older.

Elarra · Accepted Answer

I'm assuming you mean 'be' more attractive because 'appearing' more attractive insinuates deceptiveness.

I'd say be respectful from the start and stay that way. I personally don't like when guys call me 'sexy' or 'baby' or anything like that when I don't even know your name and you don't even know mine. And don't pressure us into sex. Also, always put effort in a relationship. Guys seem to have this tendency to try hard in the beginning but then like a month in they just stop trying all together and the woman is the one who has to keep the relationship going. So... effort would be a plus, too.

Warmapplecrumble · Accepted Answer

* Moderate confidence
* Empathetic
* Ability to humour a woman
* Protective (even against women who can harm mate)
* Wisdom
* Communicating clearly
* Ability not give a fuck what society says
* Open minded
* Dominant when necessary
* Moderately cheesy - its cute sometimes
* Able to solve problems quickly
* Discipline
* Able to walk the talk, and to commit to his promises

iwannalicku · Accepted Answer

try dressing nice being clean polite honest loyal faithful s*** you name it women want it all in the same package if you can deliver that you got what's going on and you'll find that just being honest clean cut not necessarily shaved and s*** but don't stink don't look like a slob wearing the same clothes you had on them the night before last keep your hygiene clean your teeth your hair you know take a shower and get next to the soap man all these things will help a lot I know a guy that looks like crap smells like crap and probably lives in crap far as I understand he never cleans his house doesn't make his bed or do dishes and whatever cleanest dirty did she can find as what he eats his dinner off of that night that's pretty nasty if you ask me personally I like my house clean I make my bed I wash my laundry I do my dishes and I shower everyday sometimes twice a day I'm a chef I have to keep my ass clean or I'm in big trouble and I could lose my job yep that's the way it goes just my opinion brother

burlen · Accepted Answer

→ If you want to increase your odd of hitting hot women, do offline dating. You simply need to be your best self—groom yourself. Wear good, trendy inexpensive clothing, shoes, and nicely scented cologne, and approach women.
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→ Once you start doing that, you would start seeing results gradually. Women would even approach you as did a gorgeous 26-year-old Turkish (by no means is this a hyperbole) woman to me at a nightclub three weeks ago in Germany.

thatguyfromtoronto · Answer

What can men or guys do? I guess have confidence within themselves, dress nice, take care of your body, mind, and soul, be a pleasant person to be around, don't be fake.

I'm sorry but the girls on here posting such superficial comments make me wonder if I will ever have a girlfriend or get married. Understand ladies that majority of guys out there who watch porn probably wish in the back of their minds the girl or woman he's with will look like Jenna Jameson or Pamela Anderson in their prime days.

But realistically, even guys have common sense expectations, if a girl is cute, nice and ambitious... for most guys they will say that's good enough. I swear the height thing with girls is soo stupid... I have heard girls say, omgg im want a tall guy to be with, I have asked girls what if the guy is 6 ft 10? Many girls I have said this to have stated, eww that's tooo tall! :-|

I'm not going to sit here and say, I don't like big boobs on a girl, I do. But a prime example can be someone like Emma Stone. To me, Emma Stone is unique, pretty and she has a flat chest but I still like her as a person and especially as an actress. Ashley Graham is a Sports Illustrated model who is a bigger gal with stretch marks on her legs, she's beautiful as well.

Seems to me like as each generation passes, girls and or women tend to get more conceited.

Dinotracks · Answer

I'll explain. It's allllllllll looks.
Low body fat.
High muscle.
Full head of hair or shaved.
Tattoos (doesn't matter where)

In order to achieve this in this world of toxic food is you have to run 3 miles everyday religiously. Also join a gym. Use steroids as well, it helps burn fat faster additionally women can't tell the difference between natural and roided up (nor do they care.)

Money is optional in this world as the betas hire women in droves and give them easy access to money. (SUCKS big time but oh well)

Finally a caveat if you are of a minority race: you will have to work 2x as hard to get low quality white women who agree to breed with you. This means instead of running 3 miles a day you need to run 6. Instead of going to the gym 4 hours a week, you need to go 8. Additionally you will need to watch PUA vids to maintain your sanity. Most white women will look at you with total contempt as opposed to your white equivalent so develop a personality free of entitlement as you will experience a lot of demeaning comments from trivial, but hot, white girls. The only nice ones will be the fat rejects from the white race, but who knows maybe she'll join you for a run?

Tron5678 · Answer

A women can be attracted to you is not limited how you look. There are other factors.

1. Are you sophisticated?
Some women like sophisticated guys because its rare and not the same people you encounter everyday life. It can be how you dress ( not talking about suits), The kind of conversation you have cannot be your basic small talks or random bullshit.. The way you do things or behave in a social environment needs to be taken care too.

2. Fashion.
Giving it a little more attention to your wardrobe can make you stand out but again It will be pointless for me to wear yohji or rick Owen or similar styled clothing in a small town where everyone is wearing a flannel shirt but in cities it does matter.

3. personal hygiene and skin care
You got to take care of your skin it can't be having acne scars
If you have a bad body odour buy a old spice antiperspirant and buy a decent perfume ( not your Walmart or pharmacy crap)

Culture and society

Someone might be attractive in some country but at the same time he will be an average guy in some other country even if he is considered attractive his values and culture might contradict their beliefs.

Finance and Money

I wouldn't date someone who is financially at par with me or if I see a potential and lot of the women I have dated have shown a similar quality likewise.

lord_chilled · Answer

I know what your thinking, but im gonna have to say women say and do things very differently.
Maybe they do it knowingly, maybe unknowingly, but its never truer than when it comes to this kinda question. What they like or are attracted to in guys.

First off, wome do like the smile. But if your a generally happy, smiling guy it isn't gonna get you laid. I mean they see you smiling all the time. No big deal.
Now if you are a serious, stern guy, and you once smile and she sees it, especially if you are smiling at her, then thats very attractive to her.

Next, they will say they want you to be respectful. Truth: always respectful is boring. You can't be DISrespectful, but you need to push her boundaries occasonally, tease her, and be a bit crude/naughty sometimes.

Most importantly tough, dont always listen to them. They will tell you a lot of things, things to do, things to change etc.
A lot of guys eat it up and go along with whatever their partners want.
Dont be that guy. Keep doing the things you like and wanna do. When you do everything they want , you become boring. If its a struggle with you, you hold their interest.
Its like that girl who gives it up at the first date vs the girl that makes you wait a month. Not only do most guys try much harder for the second girl, but they will also consider them for a serious relationship , much more likely than the other girl.
May not sound fair but its true.

And also, obviously working out to be fit, taking care of your looks and dressing well always helps.
Also, good posture and confidence is widely regarded good.
Thats as much as i can help here 😅

DoesItMatter17 · Answer

Based on my opinion...
he shouldn't smoke or do drugs.
He can love himself but not to a conceited point.
I love more different guys, if you use a cheesy pickup line, I'll probably like you instantly depending.
If you share some of my interests. It would be nice.
You can't have a bad attitude or treat others horribly.
Smiling is always nice then a frown or straight line.
If he is more original, perhaps he isn't the same as most guys.
If he listens to rock music, any kind. I don't care too much about his music but it's always something to talk about.
If he is artistic any way. Has a musical talent, instrument or vocals.
He has a good personality.
Respectful and honest.
Genuine.

Really, as long as you don't do drugs and have a nice personality or a good sense of humor, mysterious (in a good way,) or shares some of my favorite interests, then he's attractive.

iwdlxs · Answer

Be yourself, I think that's really important. And be kind, be clear, be honest. Let her show what kind of person you are and be real.
Further, it's really attractive when a guy smells good and smiles a lot. Also, if you are a little shy of nervous sometimes, don't be afraid to show that. I personally love seeing that from men and I know other women do too.

ScarletSky · Answer

Smart, respectful, good sense of humor, open minded, has a goal/purpose in life, not clingy/possessive, good with family and children, good hygeine, healthy/fit.

Your physical attraction is the first this someone will notice about you, then personality. If you keep clean and healthy, that's great, and if you a great personality, that gives a greater chance to boost your attractiveness.

But if you don't have the best aesthetic appeal, try being friends first and let them see you personality. Studies show that the more attractive your personality is the more attractive you will look to the other person.

rtlm368 · Answer

ooze confidence. don't look for approval. do not show desperation. guys need the take it or leave it attude. like as soon as I walk from you ill have another date waiting for me. your the prize and have choices. just because she knows she has a gold mine between her legs. does not mean it's worth mining. guys must t turn the table make her chase you. . keep her guessing. doe as he like me. he must But why don't he? then she o s hooked. but you must maintain that intense excitement throughout the relationship.

enirikiu · Answer

Though I'm just a nerdy 16-year-old, I suggest this:

- good sense of humor
- good hygiene overall
- well-groomed at least 80% of the time
- (very preferably, and most likely preferable by most girls) good physique
- smart / well-rounded
- if arrogant, make sure it is more charming than annoying. Make it seem more like confidence.
- have a cool or admirable talent (ex: playing instrument really well, great at some sport, awesome at singing, etc.)
- kindness and consideration (that means "don't be careless")
- responsibility and sacrifice
- smile! If you like us. (Not creepily, mind you)
- be genuine and don't hide your personality.

I won't go too much into it, but that's roughly what I can think of right now. Not saying that you aren't attractive if you don't have these qualities, but I think having them WILL greatly "up" your chances. Good luck!

DodgersGM · Answer

There's no 'one thing' you can do.

Have passions. Create and achieve goals that help you as you pursue your passions. Know your worth. Be assertive. Prioritize your health and happiness. Go after women that you might actually be compatible with. Treat a woman like a lady, but never put anyone on a pedestal. And last but not least: teach yourself to be unafraid of rejection. If some woman turns you down, then so what? There's another amazing woman out there who will be thrilled you're interested in her. Keep moving along til you find that woman.

It's not rocket science, but I understand that it doesn't always come easily for some people.

BlackViking357 · Answer

This is one of those questions that can not really be given a very concrete answer. Of course, the majority are going to say to be "a gentleman, good personality, have good hygiene, and etc". That's the standard of what people want nowadays. Everyone has flaws and those should be focused on more than the benefits of that individual. Having a shallow choice of man or woman can be either really good or really bad. For example, a person wanting eye-candy, or want a person they feel comfortable strutting with on the street and want to make other people jealous. Your judgement of that person is key. Remember, you can't please everyone. Be yourself and do not change yourself for everyone. You are who you are and stick with it.

Anonymous · Answer

It just depends on the girl your trying to get. Most girls like tall guys that are strong and funny. A lot of other girls like bad boys that don't have a lot of muscle but are still toned. Girls can be just as visual as guys when it comes to picking someone they like but most of the time we are ruled by our emotions and how we feel in the presence of our s/o. Scientifically the more confident you are with yourself, you will be perceived as attractive. So you really don't have to change you look all that much, just think your the bees knees and people will see you that way too (just don't be self centered)

JonathanNorth · Answer

Now before I let you know which traits i believe are considered attractive by women, people's preferences vary.
Now it's good to be fit. Not only do most women like that it's also good for your health. Also having a good sense of humor and being confident is nice and incredibly useful in many situations in real life. It's also important to be mature and be able to act like a gentleman. Being educated is also as well as having goals is good, having no idea what you want to do isn't really that cool.

curiousnorway · Answer

- Have a good sense of humor
- Open minded
- Understanding
- Kind (That doesn't mean door mat)
- Good hygiene and smell
- Well groomed and nice clothing
- Artistic
- Having a hobby
- Work out, being fit and slim
- Mature
- Ambition
- In depended
- Some masculinity

Appearance is a bonus. Many women likes a tall guy and a guy they finds good looking. If the guy isn't handsome, it's harder to attract women. But it depends from person to person how important looks are and it's possible to attract someone through personality and being well groomed.

ValkRend · Answer

-Honestly stay how you are be true to yourself and to others, cheesy but better to be yourself than an image of what other people want of you.
-Have a successful life, be able to support yourself and your lover
-Don't be socially awkward like a creep I mean being shy is fine but don't just lurk over gals and stare
-dress for success, you don't have to dress like everyone else and follow the new fads but don't look sloppy
-Hygiene, clean yourself up no one wants to be smelling bad breath or look like a wreck

Browneye57 · Answer

1. Work out. Girls like strong guys.
2. Make LOTS of money. Girls REALLY like money and the shit you'll buy for them. If they want a husband and 84 children this is critical.
3. Confidence. You can have looks, money, and confidence - 2 of the three is best, all three is even better, but lacking looks or money confidence will get the girl. They really do like a guy that will lead.
4. Be on your life mission - going after what you want, your success. Chicks really dig a guy that is going somewhere and being someone. They are like a moth to light for power.

The rest of it doesn't mean jack.

Rachel_is_gay · Answer

I'm not attracted to men. But here are a few things that'd make them attractive in general
- good hygiene
- smells good
- confidence (This might seem odd but I'm serious rn)
- good style
- nice hair (or "normal" hair is fine too... but if your hair is too ugly then nobody would smash that)
- broad, strong shoulders and arms (girls love that shit)
- good sense of humor
- open minded (super important)

PaulPanda8 · Answer

by observing many female responses, they seem to conclude on grooming and how you carry yourself. Some sprinkled in their own preferences like Tall and thin men. Well, that's genetics. A guy can not ever alter or change his height unless they undergo surgery.

Bottom line: Do your best, groom yourself and focus on your passions and what makes you happy. Self-improvement is always a good thing to be passionate about, too.

If you're fat and fear women don't like fat guys. They're not rejecting you because your fat. Your life span is shortened. Working out would say that you want to get healthier. Suzie doesn't want a guy who'll die within a month from a heart attack. Suzie wants to grow old with the man she loves.

ThatLeaf · Answer

Relax really. Just be yourself. Let me come to you. I don't really like pushy people who attempt to force their attraction to me down my throat. I'm more of an observer and if I like what I see and how you hold yourself I'll come to you and make things happen.

dawsak · Answer

Be sweet and compassionate, look attractive but don't act like you're proud of it, stay down to earth. And most importantly, respect the girl's opinions and way of living and also respect the differences you both have in your opinions. She'll go head over heels on you.

SweetHomicidalQueen · Answer

It really depends on the individuals involved! Intelligence is a big thing for me so if a man does his research and is educated on topics, it is very attractive. Also, being accepting is very attractive, I can't stand guys who are homophobes, racists etc.

Avneo · Answer

I think girls are the cutest creation of God.
What man can do is.
1 give attention to her even smaller things, for you they might be smaller things, but nothing is smaller everything has value and importance.
1 always take care of them more than yours, I never let girls walk on Roade side, I walk to Road side and let her walk on footpath side, I mean take care of girls for even smaller things as it seems a small thing but it can save life and you'll realise it's the biggest thing.
1 treat them with respect.
1 always involved their suggestions in deeds, if you don't like her opinion say it, but never ignore.
1 fuck man there are a lot of things and my typing is bad, but all these things I don't even remember but it become the part of my nature and I do it unknowingly, and I got these as a legacy from my family :-)

JustEva · Answer

Smile, be enthusiastic, keep eye contact, mirror the body language of the girl your talking to, until they start to subconsciously mirror you. Build rapport, listen more than you talk, be confident not cocky, keep up a little indifference but not too much. When you go for her number, assume your going to get it.

peachykeenjellybean · Answer

work out dress stylish good hygiene shave and look nice keep your hair cut  listen to her be chivalrous and a gentleman  smile make jokes relax

IEat70sBush · Answer

Win the lottery and use the proceeds from that to buy a castle complete will all amenities (worked for Beast in Beauty and the Beast) or something like the Playboy Mansion (still works for Hugh Hefner even though he's 91yo). No money = good luck with that, at best you will attract the ones that don't care about money, which tend to be ones that no one else wants if they are single when you find them.

Astoriana · Answer

Looks fade, muscles shrink but a kind heart lasts forever. There are far too many men who think the answer to being successful with women is just to hit the gym. And yeah, that works in the short term, if your only objective is to get laid.

If you want a lifetime connection, kindness will never be unattractive.

And genuine kindness, with no strings. Not the "if I do enough things for her, she'll fuck me" Nice Guy™ fake kindness.

Carley99 · Answer

A guy could look like a million bucks have a flashy car and I still wouldn't want him after I get to know him personality matters , I hate men that talks only about sex, I hate when they use pick up lines, I hate it when they brag about their size and I hate when men put down themselves and complain that they never had a girlfriend when they could have because they never approached a girl before so I love my men with even a little confidence.

Sakura99 · Answer

Be a nice person, take interest in her but don't obsess over her. Be honestly and caring and boom attractiveness. Personality is also a major factor, be yourself, if she's not into u it's cause you guys may not get along and/or have simile personalities.

sadgirl2002 · Answer

Be really good with kids, have a nice smile, call me as soon as they wake up so I can hear their tired raspy voice, carry yourself with pride, don't refer to girls as bitches/hoes/sluts, be really good with animals, be passionate about something, being a very loving person, not being so judgmental... the list can go on lol

Andre94 · Answer

lead her. be able to take decisions and responsibility. give her presents from time to time and show her good manners by taking her hand, opening up doors (not just sometimes do it always in any occasion otherwise it feels staged for her) and lend her your jacket when she is feeling cold. listen to her. by listening I mean don't focus on what to say next but let her finish and think about an answer afterwards, it will only take 5 seconds mostly. make her interested by being passionate about things you care about and tell her about them in an interesting way. you should not leave on your own life and text or call or demand to meet her all the time. if you don't do this and do the things you like in the meantime you always have something interesting to say.

good luck

razeoes · Answer

Just be you, playing a role will never last, and will attract someone that probably doesn't vibe too well with the real you. Just get involved in what you like to do and work on the things you believe you need to improve and the right person will be all over that when the time gives you a magic moment.

sammy_gurl_ · Answer

I think simple things like smelling good and having confidence. I know that it gets a lot of girls including me kind of annoyed when a guy is always putting himself down. I'm not saying be cocky either just enough confidence is great. I see a lot of comments about "bad boys" but I honestly think times are changing a lot because I feel like now most girls go for the nerds. lol

taleets · Answer

always smell good. i love tom
ford and old spice! also if they are tall and dress well. i either like street style ( la type of look with the wallet chains and leather jackets) or i like the hamptons type look. if they are tan it's a bonus because i really dislike pale guys. diamond studs are good too and a few tattoos can be good as long as the whole body isn't inked up. athletes are more attractive and never skip leg day!

fermatote · Answer

1) Have a nice wavy hair with shiny texture.
2) good clothing which suits your body.
3) have a fit body.
4) clean skin and good hygiene.
5) look broody with open body language, but during talking be smiley.

All of these can be achieved without genetic lottery :)

Anonymous · Answer

Virtually every girl on here put "confidence". Like duh. Duh times a million.

However does every girl on here know what TRUE confidence is? For example there is some guy who is working some bullshit job and or unemployed but so happens to be a funny smartass. So you take that as "confidence" and overlook his other bullshit just because he is funny.

Or how about the guy who is more serious, not as good socially but commits himself to a career or cause that he CONFIDENTLY believes in. But he is not the guy who is cracking jokes at the bar. That guy is less confidence on the surface but most of you pass him up despite having a well that runs much deeper.

Some girls gets this but many others sadly don't.

TacosRAwesome · Answer

- be clean - dress well - have a life - do sports - work out - have goals - be informed about what's going on - have a passion - don't be a pushover or an asshole

kayciesimon · Answer

don't be cocky. ask question and listen. don't be a slob. let women know what you are thinking. dress to impress but no need to go over board. look like you put time and effort into yourself for example not every woman likes men with a full out beard so just simple things like shaving count on first impressions.

JohnDoe3000 · Answer

Aside from gene therapy or plastic surgery?

Become athletic (the swimmer's body is the ideal), accentuate your jawline (by losing weight and growing, or shaving your beard), get a hairstyle that suits your face, wear clothes that are actually in your size. Become good at making witty jokes, learn to not be too nervous when talking, have confident body language.

Idk786 · Answer

Honestly a lot of guys try to hard to impress girls and them trying too hard can result in them being fake which is a huge turn off. Just be yourself and be confident in who you are confidence is the biggest turn on but remember dont be over confident

athenaharmony · Answer

Be mature, have your life reasonably together, show that you're willing to devote time and attention to a relationship and aren't just looking for a one night stand. Be confident but also respectful of the woman you're approaching. There's nothing less attractive than a guy who struts around acting like it's a given that anybody would want to be with him.

rainD · Answer

Personality and attitude is necessary, besides women should be able to accept him as well. After all, it doesn't matter if the men is full of high class or low class, if the women won't accept him, then there's no point. Some men can't be attractive while some can, this is the problem of all men. But for women's, all women can be attractive doesn't matter how they looks (of course personality+attitude can't missed).

misstalia_95 · Answer

1) Be a gentleman (open the car door, get the door for us, pull out our seat, etc)
2) Be well groomed
3) Stay up on your hygiene
4) BE HONEST (we respect that)
5) Have something that you're passionate about
6) Be smart (know what's happening in your country and the world)

Yeah. That'll do it.

Ruben21 · Answer

Get a hold of Spanish dancing moves (or whatever surprises your type of girl), be the king of the dancefloor in the pub you frequent (MUST HAVE GIRLS IN IT!).
Start a fight once, even if with your buddies, (girls must see you, and with some yelling should be enough, if you win) just to get some reputation.
Have some money for some drinks.

That's the 101 everyone basically tells you between the lines, everywhere on the net.

Quizzes of girls on this matter are irrelevant, given that they usually don't know what they want. (proven by studies, sorry girls)

Streamhopper · Answer

Not be a jerk. That's probably the biggest thing. Just act like a normal human and not some raging hormone infested beast that feels the need to brag and swagger. It's not cool and most girls don't like it. Sure, there's the occasional one that does who will call me out on this, but I'd be willing to bet the vast majority don't like it.

Anonymous · Answer

Everyone's "type" varies, but some generalities include

- don't be really out of shape
- be clean
- some grooming including a flattering haircut, skin care, clothes that fit
- work on social anxiety
- give and take conversationally
- treat her like she's real - neither a golden princess or a wet dream

NewKerbalEmpire · Answer

I don't know entirely, but you should definitely be able to show that you aren't getting into a relationship just for your own pleasure, and that caring is something you can do, and especially that you don't start relationships with people you dont care about.

dnbfilmmaker94 · Answer

Start a conversation with an unknown stranger ( a woman preferably) - she will know you are confident.

Shave. Personal hygiene should be obvious. Wear clothes that you like , not what your friends say you should wear.

Stand up straight.

Stay positive and optimistic.

Really , just be yourself because everybody else is taken.

If you be yourself, you'll get a girlfriend

Nice_Guy_Last · Answer

From what I know about women, looking well kept is a big part of it. Take pride in your appearance, both in your personal appearance and in the appearance of your possessions. Remember, a clean look is an inviting look, a clean bed is an inviting bed.

Cody01 · Answer

Shave trim do your hair don't look like a fucking slob have a social life be connected to family exercise stay lean be confident dress to impress smile be funny... Honestly everything I said and more falls under just being a fucking normal human being that has common sense.

Honeystick · Answer

Being tall is definitely not a prerequisite. Being fit is, however. For example I'm dating this guy right now and he's only as tall as I am, but he works out a lot, and is funny, calm, considerate, sweet, down to earth.. The inside goes a long way!

kelvinmed · Answer

-Don't be a creep,
girls are trained in the secret arts of spotting a creep
-Be cool,
everyone is so into their own world they keep to themselves
-Be confident,
don't be scared to talk to PEOPLE. We're so honed into talking to girls that our social skills over all suffer
-Read
Build a good mindset, get out of your head and girls like guys who read
-Don't be a meat head
You can build muscles and bodybuild but don't be a dumbo
That's all I can think of atm

SirenDep · Answer

Work out Be independent Be confident Be adventurous Be literate Be considerate Be smart  Be artistic Have good hygiene  Have a decent home/room

tiabell · Answer

dont send "wyd" messages at 3am. dont send nudes. dont ask what im wearing. dont ask me for selfies. be genuine be funny be kind be open-minded... etc

osantoniette · Answer

Wear something good. when she's around and you're talking to somebody, be enthusiastic haha, you never know what she might notice. oh, and also when you're gonna talk to her, don't make your words too long. make it simple and short, something that would make her smile.

desireelove · Answer

Guys who know how to clean up very nicely (have good style and taste)

COLOGNE!! Oh my gahd that should've been my very first answer haha

A gentleman who respects woman or People in general.

A unique way about him.

Can have Great conversations

Doesn't follow the crowd.

Intelligent and/or talented

Has a good heart!

AboveTheClouds · Answer

Smile more often Man, if she sees you're a really good vibes person, she'll want you even more. Hygiene of course is something Girls love, Clean Teeth, Good Breath, Nails Trimmed. Get a nice haircut, if you got a beard, get that cleaned up trimmed. Keep eye contact is one that helps a lot. Just be a happy positive person, that's all it matters.

RayneHellfire · Answer

I feel like this question has more to it but anyway.
Be yourself. If you pretend or try to be someone you're not, for a girl, you'll probably end up in an unsatisfying, dead-end relationship.
Being yourself means attracting others like you with similar interests and stuff meaning a more compatible relationship.
Also good smell, hygiene, style and personality will help to.

hahahmm · Answer

Never change your style for women or a woman unless she changes hers for you. You know that saying, 'power corrupts'? Don't go giving power over yourself to anybody who hasn't jumped through hoops to earn it & gives you the same!

Anonymous · Answer

Look like you can provide her with security, loyalty, be a good father. Have a hygienic healthy and interesting life. Don't be boring. Alleviate her fears and concerns. Be a rock she can rely on when she needs to. Respect her. Listen to her. Make her feel sexy and desirable. Look like you want her in your life, that she's not a burden or a chore. Care about her. Be a good generous lover. Basically, be a man.

mittens92999 · Answer

They love God and put him first in their life. That's most attractive to me.

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