1. Put effort into your appearance; dress and groom yourself well. Humans are wired to make snap judgments about each other based on their appearance. If you're put together in a sloppy or unstylish way they're likelier to make negative assumptions about your personality, and be less likely to give you a chance. If you're well-groomed and well-dressed they'll tend to assume you have other positive traits, and tend to view your mistakes and foibles through charitable eyes. Of course sometimes the conclusions people jump to are dead wrong, but it doesn't stop their minds from doing it.
2. Let me ask you this... have you ever seen someone at a bar or on the street, and you just KNEW that he or she was feeling insecure, and lacking in a lot of confidence? Now, how did you know? My guess is that you figured it out through their body language.
Believe it or not, your body language says MORE about the type of person you are, and how much of a quality 'catch' you are, than any combination of words that you can put together and articulate.
If you are habitually looking down, or find it hard to look at a someone straight in the eyes, then you're probably also showing a lot of other "bad" body language. Confident is a turn on. Insecure people find it hard to even get a women's attention to start with.
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what I find attractive is:
1) Tall men who are thin ( i don't live muscles and prefer thin/skinny)
2) Strong jaw line and a nice beard
3) Fair skin
4) Nice hair ( but my boyfriend is balding, so now i prefer shaved)
5) Smell good
6) Wear more dark or solid colors that bring attractiveness and enhance your features ( i don
t like guys who wear very colorful t-shirts and many colors together)
7) Have a bit of a bad boy style but not too much ( low waist pants, and some tattoos but not too much)
8) Be kind and trustworthy
9) Be genuine and responsible
10) Offer to pay for things ( but she shouldn't use/abuse that)
11) Be down to earth and easy to get along with
12) Be successful at your work, and passionate about it..
13) dont give your girl reasons to be scared/jealous
My boyfriend has the majority of that and i really love him,, i just wish he can prove his style more, as he likes wearing many colors together, and kinda clothes that look cheap, i wish he can also shave his head more regularly as he is balding and sometimes leaves the sides of his head grow and it makes him look much older.
I'm assuming you mean 'be' more attractive because 'appearing' more attractive insinuates deceptiveness.
I'd say be respectful from the start and stay that way. I personally don't like when guys call me 'sexy' or 'baby' or anything like that when I don't even know your name and you don't even know mine. And don't pressure us into sex. Also, always put effort in a relationship. Guys seem to have this tendency to try hard in the beginning but then like a month in they just stop trying all together and the woman is the one who has to keep the relationship going. So... effort would be a plus, too.
* Moderate confidence
* Empathetic
* Ability to humour a woman
* Protective (even against women who can harm mate)
* Wisdom
* Communicating clearly
* Ability not give a fuck what society says
* Open minded
* Dominant when necessary
* Moderately cheesy - its cute sometimes
* Able to solve problems quickly
* Discipline
* Able to walk the talk, and to commit to his promises
try dressing nice being clean polite honest loyal faithful s*** you name it women want it all in the same package if you can deliver that you got what's going on and you'll find that just being honest clean cut not necessarily shaved and s*** but don't stink don't look like a slob wearing the same clothes you had on them the night before last keep your hygiene clean your teeth your hair you know take a shower and get next to the soap man all these things will help a lot I know a guy that looks like crap smells like crap and probably lives in crap far as I understand he never cleans his house doesn't make his bed or do dishes and whatever cleanest dirty did she can find as what he eats his dinner off of that night that's pretty nasty if you ask me personally I like my house clean I make my bed I wash my laundry I do my dishes and I shower everyday sometimes twice a day I'm a chef I have to keep my ass clean or I'm in big trouble and I could lose my job yep that's the way it goes just my opinion brother
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What can men or guys do? I guess have confidence within themselves, dress nice, take care of your body, mind, and soul, be a pleasant person to be around, don't be fake.
I'm sorry but the girls on here posting such superficial comments make me wonder if I will ever have a girlfriend or get married. Understand ladies that majority of guys out there who watch porn probably wish in the back of their minds the girl or woman he's with will look like Jenna Jameson or Pamela Anderson in their prime days.
But realistically, even guys have common sense expectations, if a girl is cute, nice and ambitious... for most guys they will say that's good enough. I swear the height thing with girls is soo stupid... I have heard girls say, omgg im want a tall guy to be with, I have asked girls what if the guy is 6 ft 10? Many girls I have said this to have stated, eww that's tooo tall! :-|
I'm not going to sit here and say, I don't like big boobs on a girl, I do. But a prime example can be someone like Emma Stone. To me, Emma Stone is unique, pretty and she has a flat chest but I still like her as a person and especially as an actress. Ashley Graham is a Sports Illustrated model who is a bigger gal with stretch marks on her legs, she's beautiful as well.
Seems to me like as each generation passes, girls and or women tend to get more conceited.I'll explain. It's allllllllll looks.
Low body fat.
High muscle.
Full head of hair or shaved.
Tattoos (doesn't matter where)
In order to achieve this in this world of toxic food is you have to run 3 miles everyday religiously. Also join a gym. Use steroids as well, it helps burn fat faster additionally women can't tell the difference between natural and roided up (nor do they care.)
Money is optional in this world as the betas hire women in droves and give them easy access to money. (SUCKS big time but oh well)
Finally a caveat if you are of a minority race: you will have to work 2x as hard to get low quality white women who agree to breed with you. This means instead of running 3 miles a day you need to run 6. Instead of going to the gym 4 hours a week, you need to go 8. Additionally you will need to watch PUA vids to maintain your sanity. Most white women will look at you with total contempt as opposed to your white equivalent so develop a personality free of entitlement as you will experience a lot of demeaning comments from trivial, but hot, white girls. The only nice ones will be the fat rejects from the white race, but who knows maybe she'll join you for a run?A women can be attracted to you is not limited how you look. There are other factors.
1. Are you sophisticated?
Some women like sophisticated guys because its rare and not the same people you encounter everyday life. It can be how you dress ( not talking about suits), The kind of conversation you have cannot be your basic small talks or random bullshit.. The way you do things or behave in a social environment needs to be taken care too.
2. Fashion.
Giving it a little more attention to your wardrobe can make you stand out but again It will be pointless for me to wear yohji or rick Owen or similar styled clothing in a small town where everyone is wearing a flannel shirt but in cities it does matter.
3. personal hygiene and skin care
You got to take care of your skin it can't be having acne scars
If you have a bad body odour buy a old spice antiperspirant and buy a decent perfume ( not your Walmart or pharmacy crap)
Culture and society
Someone might be attractive in some country but at the same time he will be an average guy in some other country even if he is considered attractive his values and culture might contradict their beliefs.
Finance and Money
I wouldn't date someone who is financially at par with me or if I see a potential and lot of the women I have dated have shown a similar quality likewise.
I know what your thinking, but im gonna have to say women say and do things very differently.
Maybe they do it knowingly, maybe unknowingly, but its never truer than when it comes to this kinda question. What they like or are attracted to in guys.
First off, wome do like the smile. But if your a generally happy, smiling guy it isn't gonna get you laid. I mean they see you smiling all the time. No big deal.
Now if you are a serious, stern guy, and you once smile and she sees it, especially if you are smiling at her, then thats very attractive to her.
Next, they will say they want you to be respectful. Truth: always respectful is boring. You can't be DISrespectful, but you need to push her boundaries occasonally, tease her, and be a bit crude/naughty sometimes.
Most importantly tough, dont always listen to them. They will tell you a lot of things, things to do, things to change etc.
A lot of guys eat it up and go along with whatever their partners want.
Dont be that guy. Keep doing the things you like and wanna do. When you do everything they want , you become boring. If its a struggle with you, you hold their interest.
Its like that girl who gives it up at the first date vs the girl that makes you wait a month. Not only do most guys try much harder for the second girl, but they will also consider them for a serious relationship , much more likely than the other girl.
May not sound fair but its true.
And also, obviously working out to be fit, taking care of your looks and dressing well always helps.
Also, good posture and confidence is widely regarded good.
Thats as much as i can help here 😅Based on my opinion...
he shouldn't smoke or do drugs.
He can love himself but not to a conceited point.
I love more different guys, if you use a cheesy pickup line, I'll probably like you instantly depending.
If you share some of my interests. It would be nice.
You can't have a bad attitude or treat others horribly.
Smiling is always nice then a frown or straight line.
If he is more original, perhaps he isn't the same as most guys.
If he listens to rock music, any kind. I don't care too much about his music but it's always something to talk about.
If he is artistic any way. Has a musical talent, instrument or vocals.
He has a good personality.
Respectful and honest.
Genuine.
Really, as long as you don't do drugs and have a nice personality or a good sense of humor, mysterious (in a good way,) or shares some of my favorite interests, then he's attractive.Be yourself, I think that's really important. And be kind, be clear, be honest. Let her show what kind of person you are and be real.
Further, it's really attractive when a guy smells good and smiles a lot. Also, if you are a little shy of nervous sometimes, don't be afraid to show that. I personally love seeing that from men and I know other women do too.Smart, respectful, good sense of humor, open minded, has a goal/purpose in life, not clingy/possessive, good with family and children, good hygeine, healthy/fit.
Your physical attraction is the first this someone will notice about you, then personality. If you keep clean and healthy, that's great, and if you a great personality, that gives a greater chance to boost your attractiveness.
But if you don't have the best aesthetic appeal, try being friends first and let them see you personality. Studies show that the more attractive your personality is the more attractive you will look to the other person.ooze confidence. don't look for approval. do not show desperation. guys need the take it or leave it attude. like as soon as I walk from you ill have another date waiting for me. your the prize and have choices. just because she knows she has a gold mine between her legs. does not mean it's worth mining. guys must t turn the table make her chase you. . keep her guessing. doe as he like me. he must But why don't he? then she o s hooked. but you must maintain that intense excitement throughout the relationship.
Though I'm just a nerdy 16-year-old, I suggest this:
- good sense of humor
- good hygiene overall
- well-groomed at least 80% of the time
- (very preferably, and most likely preferable by most girls) good physique
- smart / well-rounded
- if arrogant, make sure it is more charming than annoying. Make it seem more like confidence.
- have a cool or admirable talent (ex: playing instrument really well, great at some sport, awesome at singing, etc.)
- kindness and consideration (that means "don't be careless")
- responsibility and sacrifice
- smile! If you like us. (Not creepily, mind you)
- be genuine and don't hide your personality.
I won't go too much into it, but that's roughly what I can think of right now. Not saying that you aren't attractive if you don't have these qualities, but I think having them WILL greatly "up" your chances. Good luck!There's no 'one thing' you can do.
Have passions. Create and achieve goals that help you as you pursue your passions. Know your worth. Be assertive. Prioritize your health and happiness. Go after women that you might actually be compatible with. Treat a woman like a lady, but never put anyone on a pedestal. And last but not least: teach yourself to be unafraid of rejection. If some woman turns you down, then so what? There's another amazing woman out there who will be thrilled you're interested in her. Keep moving along til you find that woman.
It's not rocket science, but I understand that it doesn't always come easily for some people.This is one of those questions that can not really be given a very concrete answer. Of course, the majority are going to say to be "a gentleman, good personality, have good hygiene, and etc". That's the standard of what people want nowadays. Everyone has flaws and those should be focused on more than the benefits of that individual. Having a shallow choice of man or woman can be either really good or really bad. For example, a person wanting eye-candy, or want a person they feel comfortable strutting with on the street and want to make other people jealous. Your judgement of that person is key. Remember, you can't please everyone. Be yourself and do not change yourself for everyone. You are who you are and stick with it.
It just depends on the girl your trying to get. Most girls like tall guys that are strong and funny. A lot of other girls like bad boys that don't have a lot of muscle but are still toned. Girls can be just as visual as guys when it comes to picking someone they like but most of the time we are ruled by our emotions and how we feel in the presence of our s/o. Scientifically the more confident you are with yourself, you will be perceived as attractive. So you really don't have to change you look all that much, just think your the bees knees and people will see you that way too (just don't be self centered)
Now before I let you know which traits i believe are considered attractive by women, people's preferences vary.
Now it's good to be fit. Not only do most women like that it's also good for your health. Also having a good sense of humor and being confident is nice and incredibly useful in many situations in real life. It's also important to be mature and be able to act like a gentleman. Being educated is also as well as having goals is good, having no idea what you want to do isn't really that cool.- Have a good sense of humor
- Open minded
- Understanding
- Kind (That doesn't mean door mat)
- Good hygiene and smell
- Well groomed and nice clothing
- Artistic
- Having a hobby
- Work out, being fit and slim
- Mature
- Ambition
- In depended
- Some masculinity
Appearance is a bonus. Many women likes a tall guy and a guy they finds good looking. If the guy isn't handsome, it's harder to attract women. But it depends from person to person how important looks are and it's possible to attract someone through personality and being well groomed.-Honestly stay how you are be true to yourself and to others, cheesy but better to be yourself than an image of what other people want of you.
-Have a successful life, be able to support yourself and your lover
-Don't be socially awkward like a creep I mean being shy is fine but don't just lurk over gals and stare
-dress for success, you don't have to dress like everyone else and follow the new fads but don't look sloppy
-Hygiene, clean yourself up no one wants to be smelling bad breath or look like a wreck1. Work out. Girls like strong guys.
2. Make LOTS of money. Girls REALLY like money and the shit you'll buy for them. If they want a husband and 84 children this is critical.
3. Confidence. You can have looks, money, and confidence - 2 of the three is best, all three is even better, but lacking looks or money confidence will get the girl. They really do like a guy that will lead.
4. Be on your life mission - going after what you want, your success. Chicks really dig a guy that is going somewhere and being someone. They are like a moth to light for power.
The rest of it doesn't mean jack.I'm not attracted to men. But here are a few things that'd make them attractive in general
- good hygiene
- smells good
- confidence (This might seem odd but I'm serious rn)
- good style
- nice hair (or "normal" hair is fine too... but if your hair is too ugly then nobody would smash that)
- broad, strong shoulders and arms (girls love that shit)
- good sense of humor
- open minded (super important)by observing many female responses, they seem to conclude on grooming and how you carry yourself. Some sprinkled in their own preferences like Tall and thin men. Well, that's genetics. A guy can not ever alter or change his height unless they undergo surgery.
Bottom line: Do your best, groom yourself and focus on your passions and what makes you happy. Self-improvement is always a good thing to be passionate about, too.
If you're fat and fear women don't like fat guys. They're not rejecting you because your fat. Your life span is shortened. Working out would say that you want to get healthier. Suzie doesn't want a guy who'll die within a month from a heart attack. Suzie wants to grow old with the man she loves.
Relax really. Just be yourself. Let me come to you. I don't really like pushy people who attempt to force their attraction to me down my throat. I'm more of an observer and if I like what I see and how you hold yourself I'll come to you and make things happen.
Be sweet and compassionate, look attractive but don't act like you're proud of it, stay down to earth. And most importantly, respect the girl's opinions and way of living and also respect the differences you both have in your opinions. She'll go head over heels on you.
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