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  • slavigirl
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    Xper 4 Age: 29 , mho 40%
    +1 y

    hygiene
    presentation
    funny
    good personality
    caring/ helping
    fit/healthy

    this goes to both genders basically

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    • Artichokee
      Artichokee
      +1 y

      im actually feeling good about myself yet at the same time depressed because im all those things you describe yet im still single.

      Reply
    • slavigirl
      slavigirl
      +1 y

      me too dont worry... its better to wait for a long time for the right person then waste your time with the wrong person.. so dont rush

      Reply
  • CSimms
    CSimms Follow
    Xper 2 Age: 65 , mho 39%
    +1 y

    Just be yourself from the start, u can only hold a pretense for so long anyway. If your NOT attractive for being yourself then they should just keep it moving! ALWAYS be true to self! ☺

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    • GoldFan1001
      GoldFan1001
      +1 y

      LMFAO

      Reply
  • TheFlak38
    TheFlak38 Follow
    Master Age: 35
    +1 y
    1.5K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

    You can be good looking, you can be rich, you can have nice clothes and a cool car, but what makes you truly attractive to women is body language.
    90% of attraction is relying on body language. If you're not confident enough this will be reflected to your body language which turns women off.

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  • Anonymous
    Anonymous
    (25-29)
    +1 y

    when guys are good with kids they're automatically more attractive, or if they're polite/respectful in general like holding the door for you, good hygiene, having a good/unique sense of style

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    • Greek_God
      Greek_God
      +1 y

      I just hope nobody takes this seriously 😂

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    • dewaldt
      dewaldt
      +1 y

      I actually Googled it. Women who are interested in having children do look for that in a potential husband.

      Reply
    • UgaBooga
      UgaBooga
      +1 y

      I'm surprised you had to Google that...

      Reply
    • dewaldt
      dewaldt
      +1 y

      What? I had to do a project for school two years ago and it was the topic I chose. What other search engine was I supposed to use

      Reply
    • UgaBooga
      UgaBooga
      +1 y

      This is new information...
      I retract my earlier statements.

      Reply
    • Ruben21
      Ruben21
      +1 y

      Quick question, how does that differ from the "friendzone guy"?

      Reply
    • Anonymous
      Opinion Owner
      +1 y

      @Ruben21 you can be a good guy and not be in the friend zone. I guess it depends on the girl, but personally I think its far more attractive when a guy shows he's a decent human being

      Reply
  • Lazy_Murphy
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    Xper 4 Age: 28 , mho 35%
    +1 y

    a ton of things but a good place to start would be working on your body language, it barely takes any effort & the rewards are enormous, look up some PUAs on youtube or look up some books on attraction

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  • Dave_sup
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    Xper 4 Age: 29 , mho 42%
    +1 y

    I think men can increase their social intelligence, so that they can better understand all the indirect signals given to them by women, and they can do the things that actually make them attractive rather than following the general dogma.

    Dave

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  • tbm1986
    tbm1986 Follow
    Xper 6 Age: 40 , mho 32%
    +1 y

    That's player talk. Women might go for that but the guys that do it well and can sleep at night are players. Players treat women like they are worthless and have no qualms about two-timing. There are no girls who truly want that.

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    • tbm1986
      tbm1986
      +1 y

      sorry, that was supposed to be in relation to rtlm's reply.

      Reply
  • capncool
    capncool Follow
    Explorer Age: 34
    +1 y

    1) Get in shape
    2) Get a nice haircut/facial hair (if you can)
    3) Practice good hygiene
    4) Dress well
    5) Be confident
    6) Be honest
    7) Be genuine

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  • m0t0rcyclist
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    Xper 5 Age: 22 , mho 46%
    +1 y

    Wear your credit report, leave a trail of money leading to your bed, say "will you marry me?" and go to work everyday till you die so she can eat ice cream on the couch whenever she wishes.

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  • Ellie2432
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    Xper 5 Age: 29 , mho 73%
    +1 y

    for me, a guy who smiles, is happy, knows how to make a girl smile and laugh, smells good haha, and isn't afraid to try new things in all aspects of life haha

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    • Artichokee
      Artichokee
      +1 y

      that's me, im happy and love to smile because i have a great smile haha but im still single no bueno.

      Reply
  • desidoll
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    Master Age: 36 , mho 41%
    +1 y
    513 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

    My boyfriend is nerdy. I have a thing for humble, nerdy guys. Also, guys who wear perfume and smell good all the time. Different girls, different things she wants.

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  • MargaritaGold_
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    Xper 5 Age: 27
    +1 y

    Be Justin Timberlake

    Haha if you can yeah but work out, dress like the nice side of GQ, have a good haircut, tan, be funny, learn all lyrics to every R&B hit, and finally... always remember... that Saturdays are for the boys

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  • redlif3
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    Xper 5 Age: 34 , mho 37%
    +1 y

    men are naturally attractive to women. so don't worry too much about that. Although if you asked how you can improve your look? How you can improve your approach, continue with conversation and your closer. that's a different story.

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  • Anonymous
    Anonymous
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    +1 y

    Be 6'2 have good hair. Being lean with at least some amount of muscle. Have high paying job prospects and finally confidence. Most girls will fall for an arrogant man more than a shy man so if you aren't sure how much confidence to have go with risking too much because it's more attractive to women than risking too little.

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  • Suchismita
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    Xper 6 Age: 26
    +1 y

    Well... I m attracted to men. Who have...
    Nice dressing sense
    Sense of humour
    Funny
    Nice smile and eyes
    Have many possible talents...

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    • Prof_Don
      Prof_Don
      +1 y

      Most important ones are "sense of humor" and "funny"

      Girls are so #DrunkOnFun that they will admit they overlook MANY obvious flaws in a guy, if he keeps her laughing and having fun

      Reply
    • Suchismita
      Suchismita
      +1 y

      Hahah... Yeah..

      Reply
  • mhyunis
    mhyunis Follow
    Xper 4 Age: 24
    +1 y

    -down to earth and humble guys
    -kind
    -ambitious and confident but not snooty
    -being a gentleman
    -being generous
    -guys that are good listeners
    -shy guys or not shy guys are cute

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  • TayTay21
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    Yoda Age: 29 , mho 48%
    +1 y

    Work on your body, lift weights, practice good posture, find a good hair style, dress in a flattering way, get some interests, etc.

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    • 66Stars
      66Stars
      +1 y

      You mean get some interests from a bank?

      Reply
    • TayTay21
      TayTay21
      +1 y

      @66Stars No, banks take interest, they don't give it.

      Reply
    • sedrftvgyhujik
      sedrftvgyhujik
      +1 y

      They do both

      Reply
  • thisgirlknows
    thisgirlknows Follow
    Xper 4 Age: 28 , mho 39%
    +1 y

    Smile. Be kind and social and respectful, smell good, well groomed. Take care of the way you look, but don't exaggerate

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  • nordix1998
    nordix1998 Follow
    Xper 4 Age: 27
    +1 y

    Be confident and independent. Be the leader. And very important is taking care of yourself and grooming yourself. Keep yourself basically fit and dress to look good for yourself and for women, not for your friends.

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  • ssilver
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    Xper 5 Age: 38 , mho 65%
    +1 y

    Show (& actually have) real interest in her as a person, her likes, dislikes, her career, her beliefs, etc...
    Talk less, listen more
    Expect less, give more

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    • knight_55
      knight_55
      +1 y

      Wow, you want to date a slave?

      Reply
    • ssilver
      ssilver
      +1 y

      How is showing real intrest in a person being a slave?

      Reply
    • ssilver
      ssilver
      +1 y

      If each person does the same, how can you lose

      Reply
    • knight_55
      knight_55
      +1 y

      Last 2 statements show that. "Talk less, listen more. Expect less, give more." You want to keep blabbering with your man and want him to listen, but if he starts talking you say talk less? You want your man to give you everything but you expect him to have less.

      Reply
    • ssilver
      ssilver
      +1 y

      Not even! Obviously you've never been a date with a guy, but quite a few guys talk non stop about themselves, without even bothering to find out much about you. The minute you start to say something about yourself, inevitably the convo quickly turns back to him again. Not cool! Not all do this, but enough to be annoying. It seems there are still a whole bunch of guys that are under the impression that women are put on the earth to cater to them. It would be nice if this weren't the case.

      Reply
    • knight_55
      knight_55
      +1 y

      Ok. I understand you. But the type of boys you are talking about are not pretty common.

      Reply
  • pervertedjester
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    Guru Age: 46
    +1 y
    441 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

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  • If_only_i_knew_
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    Xper 3 Age: 24 , mho 59%
    +1 y

    Express themselves along with their love by displaying all their good characteristics and prove that they'll make the quality of her life better not worse by showing that they want to remain in it.

    1
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  • Bandit74
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    Master Age: 33
    +1 y
    1.5K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

    -Become wealthy
    -Work on your physique
    -Wear stylish clothes
    -Be well groomed
    -Utilize a hairstyle that is best suited for your face shape

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  • xznatzx
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    Xper 4 Age: 23 , mho 50%
    +1 y

    Just be yourself, personally, personality should be much important, looks can be important at some point but not all the time

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  • Anonymous
    Anonymous
    (25-29)
    +1 y

    definitely smell good. actually scratch that, it doesn't have to be good, just make sure you smell decent. Dress properly, not too shabby and make sure you don't have bed hair. Stay clean!!

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    • Crumbles
      Crumbles
      +1 y

      Instantly thought of this 😂: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5ccp-lEmoAE

      Reply
  • xolovenina
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    Xper 5 Age: 31 , mho 49%
    +1 y

    It's attractive when they're good at what they do (hobbies, job, etc.)

    2
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    • desireelove
      desireelove
      +1 y

      PREACH 🙌🏽 lol

      Reply
  • Anonymous
    Anonymous
    (25-29)
    +1 y

    if he works out, good sense of style and smells good.
    but huge ass muscles is a turn off. like the picture attached.
    God no...

    What can men do to appear more attractive to women?
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    • Anonymous
      Opinion Owner
      +1 y

      a guy who is sweet is also something i find attractive and heart fluttering.
      lol i know that sounds cheesy

      Reply
    • Arya_Christ
      Arya_Christ
      +1 y

      I don't think it is cheesy..

      Reply
  • Ephemera1
    Ephemera1 Follow
    Guru Age: 27 , mho 31%
    +1 y

    Get a cut, grow a beard, hit the gym, wear a suit, have good hygiene, cologne and deodorant, be a cocky bastard, and show some respect.

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  • EzzieD
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    Xper 5 Age: 41 , mho 81%
    +1 y

    Loving and being compassionate towards animals will make any guy attractive to me. Major turn on. My heart melts everytime my boyfriend is cuddling my dogs.

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  • realperson02
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    Yoda Age: 33
    +1 y
    482 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

    *yawns* at the opinions of girls here (although I have not read 36 opinions) . bro do you really think they will tell the truth and let you gain control over them in the dating scene? come on bro no one is that stupid

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  • PuellaPulchra
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    Xper 2 Age: 30
    +1 y

    - Being tall (not necessary)
    - Not being mean
    - Newly washed hair
    - (Mostly) clear skin
    - clothes that don't stink (both cologne, perfume and sweat are bad. Yes cologne is the enemy)
    - Taking walks in the forest
    That's the list of things that make me attracted to a guy at least..

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    • CoolSky01
      CoolSky01
      +1 y

      thats what makes all girls attracted to guys and they work

      Reply
  • clove14
    clove14 Follow
    Xper 4 Age: 34 , mho 53%
    +1 y

    be open.. about yourself, your thoughts, wants and desires. honesty. active listener!! HUGE... plus. knows how to conduct a conversation. stay funny... laugh a little. just to name a few

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  • rascalRAH
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    Xper 6 Age: 24 , mho 33%
    +1 y

    i love the 1940's look. tucked in well fitting shirt, vest, nice fitting pants with some classy shoes, sunglasses and hair slicked up with a good jawline 👌🏽

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    • hahahmm
      hahahmm
      +1 y

      @rizi53, please have a seat and keep your hands where I can see them. So you drove 800 miles with rolls of duct tape and beer to see a child?

      https://i.ytimg.com/vi/iGmRJjZr9GU/hqdefault.jpg

      Reply
  • sarah237
    sarah237 Follow
    Xper 4 Age: 27
    +1 y

    - don''t be shy, personally i really don't like shy guys, cause i got the feeling that i am the one who need to ask things all the time so the conversation won't be dead.
    - your smile, i love when guys smiling
    - style
    - spontaneous
    - flirt
    - funny

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  • Khitaka
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    Xper 5 Age: 28 , mho 65%
    +1 y

    I just walk into a bar, drop my cock down onto a table, and they line up.

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    • simonthecat
      simonthecat
      +1 y

      And they chop it into tiny slices

      Reply
    • Khitaka
      Khitaka
      +1 y

      Well yeah. What else do girls do with dicks?

      Reply
  • Ninja667
    Ninja667 Follow
    Xper 3 Age: 29
    +1 y

    NEVER
    EVER
    EVER
    IGNORE
    HER. Or when you do then don't open her messenger messages because she can tell that you saw it. Thats just a dick move tbh

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    • somewheresomeway
      somewheresomeway
      +1 y

      Yeah but be honest. If a guy is too available that's a huge turnoff too.

      Reply
  • BreeJM
    BreeJM Follow
    Xper 5 Age: 31 , mho 31%
    +1 y

    don't try so hard to be what you think a girl wants, just be yourself.

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    • Ervinj5
      Ervinj5
      +1 y

      that's the worst advice ever. You can't be your self if you know women won't like you for who you are. You have to put on a mask and then learn how to love that woman from her love language

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    • Kkaos
      Kkaos
      +1 y

      @Ervinj5 Well if 'being yourself' is someone that is repulsive to women, then what do you expect? If you're naturally a lazy and boring person, don't blame women for not liking you, you shouldn't like yourself either. I can be myself around women because I hold myself to high standards, and surprise surprise... Women find that attractive.

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    • Ervinj5
      Ervinj5
      +1 y

      sounds egotistical and self-improved sounds like that's why you not married yet because they run eventually.

      Reply
    • BreeJM
      BreeJM
      +1 y

      @Ervinj5 so your telling me that lying about yourself is necessary to get a girl? what happens when she finds out who you really are?

      Reply
  • Midnight_Rose97
    Midnight_Rose97 Follow
    Xper 6 Age: 28 , mho 47%
    +1 y

    Be respectful, show her you care, be a gentleman, show her you aren't like other guys, be honest.

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  • hypnoticrosesxii
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    Xper 4 Age: 31 , mho 40%
    +1 y

    I'm attracted to guys that take care of themselves basically good hygiene. I also admire when a guy is passionate about something and has a big heart.

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    • kingkapoor
      kingkapoor
      +1 y

      hi ;) I brush my teeth 3 times a day

      Reply
    • hypnoticrosesxii
      hypnoticrosesxii
      +1 y

      Lmao good to know

      Reply
    • Chicobun
      Chicobun
      +1 y

      @kingkapoor did you brush it with a toothbrush or paint brush? ;P /jk

      Reply
    • m0t0rcyclist
      m0t0rcyclist
      +1 y

      @kingkapoor you dont even know the high percentage of women you will land with a smile, smh (on my way to the dentist)

      Reply
  • mryoungbuck
    mryoungbuck Follow
    Xper 5 Age: 28
    +1 y

    train like a navy seal and gain muscle, along with some mental fortitude. next is to not dress like a " skater boy" or a douchebag. then find some self confidence and look like strong man.

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  • lovelina14
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    Xper 6 Age: 28
    +1 y

    Have ambition and long term goals (not only for him but for his partner too), encourages you in your darkest times, also sees ambition in you and tells you, grooms himself, educated, etc

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  • Robsinsf53
    Robsinsf53 Follow
    Yoda Age: 61
    +1 y
    490 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

    Replace all the Washington's in your wallet with Franklin's and see how that works for you.

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  • Autumn_Lorraine
    Autumn_Lorraine Follow
    Xper 4 Age: 28
    +1 y

    Be himself. Be loyal. Be honest. Attractiveness has nothing to do with looks for me.

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    • GoldFan1001
      GoldFan1001
      +1 y

      Who are you trying to kid? Attractiveness has nothing to do with looks for you? I have a house on an island I'll sell it to you for a $1.00. Now does that sound believable?

      Reply
    • Autumn_Lorraine
      Autumn_Lorraine
      +1 y

      Actually, to the right person, I would sell for a $1

      Reply
    • GoldFan1001
      GoldFan1001
      +1 y

      Then your more delusional than I thought.

      Reply
  • bellefontainjr
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    Xper 4 Age: 42
    +1 y

    go to the gym and get on some steroids. Buy a Ferrari.

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    • TclaytonIi
      TclaytonIi
      +1 y

      Lmaooooooooo

      Reply
    • bellefontainjr
      bellefontainjr
      +1 y

      truth. women are shallow as fuck.

      Reply
  • Jemini_Crocket
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    Guru Age: 26
    +1 y

    Smile. Seriously smile can be everything. Or just a smirk, quirk. Don't look sad or angry all the time.
    Good behavior also helps :D

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  • IdkSomethingRandom
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    Xper 7 Age: 31
    +1 y

    A typical manipulative douchenozzel gets em 7 times out of ten.

    Humans never want what they consciously believe they do. Xp

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  • Prof_Don
    Prof_Don Follow
    Master Age: 40
    +1 y
    2.2K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

    The secret weapon to getting women attracted to you... is to be fun!

    "He's boring but I still hooked up with him", said no girl ever

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    • FatherJack
      FatherJack
      +1 y

      True... too many people let life beat the fun side out of them... guilty myself at times !!

      Reply
  • Anonymous
    Anonymous
    (25-29)
    +1 y

    First you have to realize that not every woman likes the same physical characteristics in men. What some women find attractive, others might find offputting. So do become more attractive, I guess that means you should just do what you can that you know appeals to largest pool of women. For example, some women like skinny guys, but the majority prefer buff guys, so that means gaining some muscle mass will make you more attractive.

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  • WalterRadio
    WalterRadio Follow
    Guru Age: 53 , mho 31%
    +1 y

    That is easy: Become rich and successful. Believe me, it really works.

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  • Shaelin
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    Xper 4 Age: 29 , mho 36%
    +1 y

    It really depends on the woman but for me, showing strength (emotional and physical) and confidence is a huge turn on. Humor is great too!

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  • WhateverMayBeWillBe
    WhateverMayBeWillBe Follow
    Yoda Age: 37 , mho 65%
    +1 y

    Embrace masculinity and understand what it means to be man... it's not easy but it's not suppose to be.

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    • jacktheman93
      jacktheman93
      +1 y

      you speak the most sense

      Reply
    • WhateverMayBeWillBe
      WhateverMayBeWillBe
      +1 y

      @jacktheman93 I'm 28 and I feel like I'm just starting to figure this out, there's a lot of subtle nuances to everything and I don't have the time nor the understanding to fully explain everything... just know that the mainstream media is selling a misrepresentation of what manhood is and what causes attraction.

      Reply
    • jacktheman93
      jacktheman93
      +1 y

      Yes our generation is being deceived by the media

      Reply
  • Nyx_85
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    Xper 7 Age: 40 , mho 45%
    +1 y

    I'm assuming you mean men that aren't naturally attractive and can captivate a woman's attention with nothing more than their looks.

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    • MysteriousDarkness
      MysteriousDarkness
      +1 y

      What do you mean personally mean by people that are naturally attractive?

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    • Nyx_85
      Nyx_85
      +1 y

      @MysteriousDarkness Good looking.

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    • MysteriousDarkness
      MysteriousDarkness
      +1 y

      @Nyx_85 That is a broad statement because what you consider good looking not everyone else will.

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    • Nyx_85
      Nyx_85
      +1 y

      @MysteriousDarkness No but there is definitely some level of general attractiveness. Certain people that the majority of people will look at and say "Yeah they are good looking". Also you can recognize esthetic attractiveness without being attracted TO someone.

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    • MysteriousDarkness
      MysteriousDarkness
      +1 y

      @Nyx_85 Most people do no go around looking at people in a scientific way

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    • Nyx_85
      Nyx_85
      +1 y

      @MysteriousDarkness I have no clue what most people do. But when 9 out of 10 people say "This person is attractive" they probably are in a general sense.

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    • MysteriousDarkness
      MysteriousDarkness
      +1 y

      @Nyx_85 If you took 1,000 people and other people did the same each could get anywhere from 0% - 100% saying the same person is good looking.

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    • Nyx_85
      Nyx_85
      +1 y

      @MysteriousDarkness Most women would say that someone like Ryan Reynolds is attractive. Doesn't mean every woman thinks so. There are people who are just generally seen as more attractive and those who are seen as less attractive. Preference and tastes vary from person to person but often there is a 'majority ruling'. Some people are just commonly seen as good looking. Not sure why you care so much.

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  • Dudeman1234
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    Xper 7 Age: 36
    +1 y

    1) Go to the Gym
    2) Get a good haircut
    3) Get a better wardrobe ( Cater to the types of girls you are trying to pull)
    4) If your face is meh... Grow and beard keep it groomed
    5) Get a badass tatoo

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  • Nik1hil
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    Master Age: 29
    +1 y
    1.8K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

    as long you got money, you will be attractive to plenty of honeys

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    • DarkManX
      DarkManX
      +1 y

      The truth has spoken.

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    • Nik1hil
      Nik1hil
      +1 y

      @DarkManX i am just quoting what asker himself knows but is expecting some other hopeful bullshit here

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    • desireelove
      desireelove
      +1 y

      Well I dunno bout the rest of america because half these gals only want a guy with money. But when you're an independent and have your own job working hard for your OWN damn money you don't need or care about what another guy has in his bank. You will do for him as he does for you. That's my story and I'm sticking to it 😉 lol

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    • desireelove
      desireelove
      +1 y

      I quote, all girls aren't the same

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    • Nik1hil
      Nik1hil
      +1 y

      @desireelove i know confident, independent women, my mom is one of them, that is why i said plenty,
      i didn't said all or many, or any.
      each women is new equation or a new jigsaw, but they have something in comman a few variables, like cardboard in jigsaw.

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  • kaylaS91
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    Master Age: 33 , mho 83%
    +1 y
    928 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

    Not be desperate and go out of their way to impress women by putting on a super obvious facade.

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    • Dme500
      Dme500
      +1 y

      so be an honest person.

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  • UNCWgal63
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    Xper 5 Age: 27 , mho 51%
    +1 y

    Have a great personality and take good care of your health

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  • Woodsongs
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    Xper 4 Age: 36
    +1 y

    All you can do as a man, it is *optional* to care about your body, otherwise your self confidence and esteem is what makes u the sexiest to any girl.

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  • RationalFemale
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    Xper 4 Age: 40 , mho 82%
    +1 y

    Be confident.
    Have good posture.
    Compliment her.

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    • Moeed
      Moeed
      +1 y

      what compliment would be appropriate in college when you approach her first time?

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    • Dme500
      Dme500
      +1 y

      great boobs, you sure are young, i bet your pussys tight.

      come on man use common sense. compliment her hair or outfit. talk about her beautiful eyes or award winning smile. you like her walk or attitude ir she's just incredibly smart.

      any innocent compliment that can lead or carry on a conversation.

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    • Moeed
      Moeed
      +1 y

      is fear of rejection a right thing? or just cowardness?

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    • Dme500
      Dme500
      +1 y

      both. its a thing for sure. we all have it on some way but you're a coward if you never do something about it.

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    • m0t0rcyclist
      m0t0rcyclist
      +1 y

      @Moeed Wow thats a nice pair of brains, uh I mean the books you should carry up closer to your chest, it will take the stress off of your spine..." then you covered for why you staring at brains all the time too... social concern. Out of college or school? Do what I do carry cards to local chiropractors

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    • m0t0rcyclist
      m0t0rcyclist
      +1 y

      @Dme500 those are still useful at a porn convention though, not so much the you are so young line though

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    • Moeed
      Moeed
      +1 y

      in college

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    • m0t0rcyclist
      m0t0rcyclist
      +1 y

      what about grammar? i got laid once for knowing what a predicate was, i forgot the next morning.

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    • Dme500
      Dme500
      +1 y

      haha. she fucked the knowledge right outta you.

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    • m0t0rcyclist
      m0t0rcyclist
      +1 y

      well, not exactly, she wasn't much more than a librarian mattress, but i learned if its not wild in the street its not wild in the bed, think about every English teacher you ever knew, now picture her in porn, scarlet letter doesn't change much unless vivid enntertainment or japan produces it

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  • Eevee2026
    Eevee2026 Follow
    Xper 5 Age: 36 , mho 54%
    +1 y

    Having good hygiene and dressing nicely automatically makes a guy look better, in my opinion.

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  • Adrixny
    Adrixny Follow
    Xper 4 Age: 39 , mho 36%
    +1 y

    Be confident, even if you feel you have no reason to be confident, just be it.

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    • GoldFan1001
      GoldFan1001
      +1 y

      Confidence is BS if the guy is good looking he doesn't need it. So women like u tell ugly guys like me to be "Confident'' so we can believe this crap so we think we have a chance. Do you know what happens we an ugly such as myself is ''Confident'' Nothing we get laughed at and rejected. So what's he point?

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    • Irishlady
      Irishlady
      +1 y

      Goldfran1001 - confident is not bullshit. Confidence is the most attractive thing about a man and an attractive unconfident man will always be less appealing that a lesser looking man that is self assured and confident. Do not underestimate the power of confidence!!

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    • GoldFan1001
      GoldFan1001
      +1 y

      @Irishlady Yes it is Bullshit if you take an ugly guy like me and I have confidence I'll still be ugly to women regardless of how much confidence I have.

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    • Irishlady
      Irishlady
      +1 y

      Not at all, some of the most attractive guys in the media and Hollywood aren't that attractive physically but with their confidence and personality, it over rules.

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    • GoldFan1001
      GoldFan1001
      +1 y

      @Irishlady But those guys have money so women don't care rather or not his confident.

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    • Irishlady
      Irishlady
      +1 y

      If he didn't have the money but he had the confidence, they would care

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    • GoldFan1001
      GoldFan1001
      +1 y

      @Irishlady No because by that point he would stop caring.

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    • Irishlady
      Irishlady
      +1 y

      I don't mean he loses the money!!! I mean if he didn't have any in the first place

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    • GoldFan1001
      GoldFan1001
      +1 y

      @Irishlady But why would a guy want to be confident when he has no money, no job etc?

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    • Irishlady
      Irishlady
      +1 y

      Because he's not going to be likely to get a job or money if he can't muster the confidence

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    • GoldFan1001
      GoldFan1001
      +1 y

      @Irishlady What I'm saying is not every guy has confidence. Why is it that every woman/girl automatically assumes every guy has confidence? News flash we don't some of us don't have it. Its not like going to the store and buying a new pair of jeans once the old one we have rip.

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    • Irishlady
      Irishlady
      +1 y

      You create confidence. If you don't have it, you present that you do until you gain some. I'm not saying that all guys have it - but you have to portray confidence 🙃

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    • GoldFan1001
      GoldFan1001
      +1 y

      @Irishlady Please don't give me that BS because why is it that females don't need it? And don't tell me that they do cause we both know you guys don't. Take a shy girl vs a shy guy the shy girl is seen as cute and sweet and doesn't need confidence cause she knows just being a girl is already good enough to get a guy to notice her. Now take the shy guy he's seen as creepy, strange etc and if he doesn't stop being shy females are gonna assume he's a loser.

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    • Irishlady
      Irishlady
      +1 y

      I would say the exact same about women... 🤔

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    • GoldFan1001
      GoldFan1001
      +1 y

      @Irishlady No no you wouldn't cause women don't need confidence because they can get by with their looks and just the fact their women.

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    • Irishlady
      Irishlady
      +1 y

      I wouldn't try and tell me what I wouldn't do 😉

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    • GoldFan1001
      GoldFan1001
      +1 y

      @Irishlady So you agree with me then?

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    • Irishlady
      Irishlady
      +1 y

      No I don't agree at all. I've been pretty clear I think with my responses. A woman needs confidence just as a man does. Same story for both sexes

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    • GoldFan1001
      GoldFan1001
      +1 y

      @Irishlady But you did say you wouldn't try?

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    • GoldFan1001
      GoldFan1001
      +1 y

      But did you not?

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