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Give her a lot of attention if she signals interest and never leave her on read
Well, depends on your age. Ok so you're 19. You have to be mature and nice to people (not only to the girl you like). Hardworking earns respect (which is necessary for a longterm relationship). Never lie (like where you were and who you're talking too) or cheat on her. If she's is a wise woman and you have earned her trust she'll not make a fuss of your truth.
Good personality and attitude, Knows how to dress well, Good hygiene and really smell nice.
Work hard at what you love be passionate about something and show that you can handle the real world
Be clean, have a future focused mind, be confident and don't be clingy. I've done it all right and all wrong.
Don't listen to any of these women. You gotta be rich, 6ft at minium, 8+ in dick, flashy car, muscular with abs, and walk around with an attitude. They love that shit bro.
Your mistaking women for gold diggers.
And a lot of them are, stay alert.
he's right
Same shit at the end of the day.
They can respect us. Just treat us well and truly love us. Men can be more appealing if they take of them selves first. Then take care of the woman.
^^^^
physically: nice hairstyle a tan athletic (defined muscles are a plus) wear nice clothes personality wise: be funny and show the girl that you care for her
Have a big black dick
Be an adult. No Playing Games. Lesen to cool. A guy who cooks is like our aphrodisiac
adults do play games
Nope, they don't. And I find it funny gowns got 2 downloads from guys who probably likes to yell to women "make me a sammich!". Useless sexist pigs...
I think you are the one being sexist and ignorant. Guys can play games if they they want to and most people dont date a guy because 'he plays games'. you were downvoted because your opinion is shit.
@aSingleBanana wow... coming from a new member... who doesn't know how GAG is... I can only laugh as I walk away from this shitty "conversation"... Nobody likes games. If you do, you're dumb.
I look at posture and this doesn't only apply to men. Ladies, I'm watching you too
mmm shave, actually try to look good, dress well, all that jazz
take care or yourself. Put forth your best foot. Be Confident, not cockey. and make eye contact!
Be yourself and be confident and bold to do what you want and show that you care for others
This is best answered by women or by men successful with women in my opinion lol
wear black clothes. black jacket, black skinny pants and black shirts and T shirts.
So basically blend in with the dark.
thats what I love. for me when I guy is wearing black he gets 50% hotter. I'm not a depressed or a dark person. I like bright cokors and wear bright colors myself. but for a guy I find it very attractive.
150% of 0 is still 0...
Lol u said he gets 50% hotter, and he literaly does cuz the color black and other dark colors absorb the heat that the sun gives off and makes u sweat easier, and I'm pretty sure sweat stains to girls is not attractive
Beard, folded sleeves, veins, mascular body, moreover be a gentleman, respect woman, and be a good person
Honestly no matter what some guys do, girls still dont give a shit
Females are shallow in general always have been always will be.
smell good, a little cologne can change the world! and I think that when a guy has nice hair (not covered in hair gel) its a nice thing too.
Having nine hair depends on genes and getting a good hair cut is all one can do
yeah thats what I meant
Woodsy smell
Gentle touch
Husky voice
Sensuous words
Teasing smile
Steady, mysterious eyes
Appealing my five senses
Seducing me, tenderly,
your sweet and spicy nothings.
Drive the most expensive car you can imagine.
It works. Search on YouTube "Gold Digger Prank".
I don't give a shit about your expectations.
I just want to play videogames.
Smelling good
Being funny
Being kind and thoughtful
Get into shape, buy nice looking clothes that fit, practice good personal hygiene.
Get a hole in your pants and stick your dick through it so it is on display.
Courageous
Funny
Adventurous
Strong
Charismatic
Honestly, the girl's opinions are what you need to just be given a chance and hold a conversation with her. What they've listed won't make you more attractive. Women are a lot more complicated than that even though they don't have to be.
Be funny, don't give a rats ass about what she thinks of you or anyone else, smile, and enjoy yourself.
Neatness, sweet talking, good manners especially when approaching, well built body, smelling nice and Dressing well. With this you can have all women in the world.
Good hygeine, And good with animals, great dress sense and know how to behave with girls.. Sexiest thing it is.
Okay could you please give me some tips on how too behave around girls. I usually mess things up in the first 30 minutes I meet them.
shower. aftershave deoderant nice car and clean house.
Even if u are ugly , self express and confidence open the many doors. but dont be narcist 😉
yes girl!! exactly lol
it's difficult to be confident when you get rejected because of your appearance.
@Artichokee hEy my friend dont worry about your appearance and by the way if a girl reject you just for that, forget her^^ and just be her friend, because your true beauty is your heart first, so she may lost her only one man only because she judge you by your look ( outside) :) just stay yourself and pray for that
@Aleappe yea u are totally right. everything is not appearance. no matter what happened if u believe urself , u take a step to close the victory. dont forget it.
i guessed you have to walk my shoes to know what i have experienced but i wil definitely keep trying and we'll see. hopefully both of you are right, if not I'm giving up.
What if a man is hairy as well?
Women don't want to be seen or around ugly men regardless of how confident they are.
@GoldFan1001 if u are not too ugly, women dont care about it.
yeah not little high school girls that all they care about is looks. Because can I just say when you get older and mature the looks don't really matter much. I know a lot of girls that as soon as they got out of hs they started looking for the real guys. the prettiest girls are like all with some guys that are not cute at all but they know how to have a good time and treat a girl right. So I don't agree that the "uglyness" matters.
So if the guy is super ugly then you ignore him I see. Here's my pic I know its bad but that's all I have. s587.photobucket.com/.../014-1_1.jpg.html?o=36
Now being ugly myself I know never to approach, or talk to a women.
@sammy_gurl_ i think ur thought is not valid all the pretty girl. as i told before everything is not appearance. u can complete ur defiency with another trait.
İ saw ur pic but u underestimate urself. Not bad. if u have a style , u will contact with girl.
What do you mean I underestimate myself? And what did you mean by not bad? I don't have a style I just buy what I like and what fits. I'm 31 not 16 so I doubt I'll be contacting any girls or women,
@GoldFan1001 u can change ur style for instance. u are not ugly. therefore no necessary to worry about it. beauty perception is not the same all people.
IT OK to think I'm ugly I won't be upset. OK let me ask you to give me a rating 1-10? 1 being ugly to 10 being really good looking what would you give? Honestly.
I guess I'm uglier then I thought.
@GoldFan1001 i think u are 5 . not bad. fifty fifty
dont worry, I'm ugly too.
Says I'm not ugly but gives me a 5 WTF so what your saying is I am ugly but you didn't want to feel bad. We all know anything below a 6 in ugly.
actually a 5 is average.
@Artichokee Not to me its not 5 and below is ugly.
Be tall
Be fit
Dress sharp, not sloppy
Having hair is preferred
" be tall"... As if being tall is in one's hands? Wow!
Having hair, you mean hair on head?
You are entitled to your opinion don't get me wrong, but understand looks don't mean much. Eventually, we all age so if you plan to marry or be with someone you are already with into your 70s, 80s, and 90s none of us will have the same youthful looks we once did. Eh, gotta keep it real.
You are like the 3+ girl on here that brought up "be tall". I'm 6ft, but sometimes I feel for my shorter brothers on this one. Why is height so ENGRAINED in women's romantic preferences?
Be tall lol.. I'm 5 5 .. thanks.. that makes me feel better 😂
Be tall.. Ouch! My head hits the door (to tall!) /jk ;P
@Chicobun Okay it's a dumb answer but there's an important point to this. If you're short and bald you're never going to be attractive to women. There are some things you can't fix.
Be tall is not in ones own control and having hair has to matter enough that it would be worth having expensive and potentially complicated hair surgery?
BanterBlitz: I don't think I can agree with your opinion. Yes those two things are something that we can't change but there are a lot of other things that we can change. For example, short guy usually is perceived as cute and nice, so why don't we focus on those and made it better? Be a nicer person, etc. It is all on the mindset I think. Everyone deserves to get a girl/guy, so if someone doesn't like you because you're short and bald, then that's okay, that's just means that they aren't for you.
@Chicobun No offence, I guess you just don't have much experience of women.
Just an honest answer on who gets to the front of the line, looks-wise.
the problem is the question is only slightly about looks. its mostly about mannerisms and personality traits.
It is an honest answer raspberry0416 just the question is what we can do and we can't become tall.
Having hair I guess we can though still thousands its reducing in price in Turkey thats still expensive and there are limitations on who and when for the surgery.
Would you mind if you found out a guy had hair surgery?
@sedrftvgyhujik
I don't think you need to get hair surgery. But to answer your question, no I wouldn't mind.
You need to do a better job on judging a guy on what he can and cannot control.
@somewheresomeway
I know what a guy can and cannot control. This is still what I find attractive regardless. Just putting it out there.
Well you could have definitely worded it better. You could of said "I prefer taller men" instead of "be tall".
@somewheresomeway It doesn't really matter that much we know more or less what she meant to say.
humor
(plus don't ask for nudes) but that is just me
Took the words right out of my mouth 👄 lol. Men don't realize that's a big turn off.. at least for you.. and me.. and most women out there... at least I think haha
lol, for real 😄😄
Act fucking like a fucking human being. jesus christ im not so good with women BUT. When my friend engages with them its like he's talking to a bloody alien
Well my biased expierance would say girls are attracted to broken arsehoke who work out
I think maybe a sense of humor, a nice smile, and other stuff I just can't think of them.
Smile. I personally love it when a guy smiles at me. It makes him look 5x cuter
I agree with that. Smiling can break the nervousness and can be an ice breaker
Only when their good looking is does it make him 5x cuter.
haha
Confidence that shows. Girls love a confident guy, but don't be over confident/cocky, because then your just a douche
Being confident (not cocky) in who you are, have a sense of humour, have hobbies, value family relationships, kind, caring, honest and just fun to be around! Being yourself is the key, honestly.
You can only work on your personality,
Your physic ain't gonna do it.
Honesty , sweetness, loyalty, to me it's all about how sweet you are. Girls love to know you care and they love knowing that you're in the relationship for love.
Let's start with dressing real nice, followed by having a way with your words and top that up with some charm and you're almost there.
The next part is the tricky one.
Coffee or Beer?
Do not be ashamed if your likes and dislikes do not match with her. Show her that you can stand by your choices.
Appearance matters for first impressions but a shallow personality is a big turnoff
Try to look & dress like her father & give your credit card to her
Learn karate, girls love a guy that can cook and do karate
They can shut the fuck up/stop whining ^_^.
clearly you maybe need to consider cus off your male like behaviour if u should be considered as one off the guys?
I have to stop whining, I am going to whine about that. Whine whine whine.
i can say set their hair.. that's what gi would say set their hair
i would assume honesty helps a lot? any girls to yell or agree with me?
Personality is the main thing that determines whether I'm attractive to a guy or not
And good looks.
@GoldFan1001 What you consider good looks someone else may not
@MysteriousDarkness Trust me if you saw what looked like you would see I have a point.
always talk to her, keep her company and let she feel love
and important
Be confident, be bold, be intelligent and smell good.
just stay true and be yourself never fake and respect you will be attractive in much better ways than just looks
well they should not think of taking advantage over the girl and they should just be themselves rather then acting like someone else
Here's the thing good looking guys can be themselves ugly guys like me have to ''pretend'' to be someone we're not.
try to take care of themselves do interesting things girls like 😀
ask questions and don't only talk about yourself.
I have done that. I don't think it works always. I don't talk about myself Most of the time.
always be yourself even though u r nerd... be a nerd.
If you look it up of what attractive a woman is the money.
be a tough guy ride in a motorcycle club with other tough guys be The alpha and leader