What's something men can do to appear alluring to women (see the example to see what I mean)?

[Unit1]

I stumbled upon these 2 YouTube shorts and as a non-dancer myself I find it alluring. My question is: Is there something of that nature (or similar or an equivalent), that men can do to appear alluring to women too?

[midnightmoon05]

first is appearance. Clean cut, well dresssed. Confidence when connecting with eye contacts, approachable/friendly. Be able to understand what she wants/needs. Be able to communicate well with confidence. Confidence means…not a yes man.

[Anonymous]

Self-care, confidence, intelligence, be a gentleman- (Not to me only, if we’re walking by and there’s a woman that needs help, just ask hun should I help.)
Yes hun, please help, just remember I’m helping, and watching too)

[lightbulb27]

Yes you can stand out. Books written in that by players. Be confident… at minimum.

[Anemone978]

Learn to do like beatboy dancing or just dancing in general.. like look at Chris brown he is a bad guy yet he is still very alluring.. LOL

[Jennz6]

They just need to earn lots of money and that’s alluring

[Unit1]

i don't want gold diggers