How do you be attractive to women as a man?

[Anonymous]

How do you be attractive as a man

[_Maya_]

The first thing is to be yourself. I hate people that try to pretend to be someone they are not. The truth always comes out and then I find I am dating a fake. So be yourself. Confidence, humor, good nature and those things mean a lot. Having decent manners is always a huge plus. I basically look for someone that I know that I am going to have fun with and enjoys the same types of things that I do. Pretty much looking for a similar personality to mine.

[Alli39]

Genuine kindness & compassion; good humor; good hygiene, physical health, and grooming; wearing clothes that are fashionable & suit your body type; being friendly and open without coming on too strong, etc. Kind of depends on the person

[Asker]

What about the part where he has to be rich and so handsome?

[Asker]

Why do you women continue to lie?

[Chemistrynerd8]

If that were the case most men would be single, unloved, and lonely like you. Not bitching and moaning about your imaginary world in your head might be a good start for you.

[Chemistrynerd8]

Its almost like you WANT that to be true lolololoool

[Alli39]

We aren't?

I mean, you can't control certain aspects of how physically handsome (ex. height or jawline) so I was focusing on things that you actually could change that would make a difference, since I assumed that what you were asking. And frankly he doesn't necessarily have to be rich. That's not really something I think about in terms of what I look for in a partner so of course I didn't list it. Not writing out a comprehensive list of everything every woman one earth looks for in a partner doesn't make the answer untrue.

Moreover, if a guy is fit, well dressed, clean/well-kept, etc then there's a good chance he will be considered handsome to some extent anyway. And even if you're naturally gorgeous if you get a bad haircut, stink, and wear clothes that don't fit or look bad on you then you'll probably be considered way less physically attractive than you might otherwise be.

[Anonymous]

My youth and serious personality work for me, when they are ugly women I ignore them but apparently they like that.

[Anonymous]

money , personality , status , appearance

[Asker]

Sounds about right. Cold reality that is

[HelpfulWoman]

*Not be an incel. Like the comments confirm you probably are :)

[In_Trance]

you be yourself. The right woman will take notice

[Anonymous]

Basically not be you.