Is it okay for my boyfriend to comment “😍😍” on his female friends Instagram post?

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WhatTheHeckkkk | 428 opinions shared on Dating topic.

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From a girls perspective- That’s just wrong. I don’t think it’s right and I find it flirty. And for me and my boyfriends boundaries, being flirty is cheating.
You just need to talk to him about it. Tell him your feelings towards it.. Because if it makes you uncomfortable or jealous, then you need to tell him to stop.

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Answer 2

Anonymous

Why not? If that bothers you, then you guys need to talk about expectations. If a chick told me that I have to cut off all female friends, that would be a red flag for me. I have never told any of my gfs to cut off from their male friends. To do so is immature and crazy to me. If you do this, and the relationship goes bad, then you will be totally alone. NO ONE has the right to tell someone else to sacrifice any friendship (male or female) for the sake of a relationship. That just means that they are telling you that they don't trust you... and possibly have control issues... not a good sign...

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Opinion Owner

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Thanks!

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Opinion Owner

Thanks!

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derekano

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its a little strange. id ask him about it, but come at it with him politely, without a hint of accusatory tone. trust his answer if it makes sense

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Lara98

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I did, he said that she’s her friend and because she posts photos of her doing make up looks, he wants to support her page. Makes sense?
derekano

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depends. is he posting these kinds of comments on nonmakeup related selfies?
Lara98

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That’s all she posts
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Lara98

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And it’s not every picture
Lara98

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Like every 5th photo
derekano

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i think its fine then. i wouldn't worry about it, he's just trying to help a friend out. lol if you wanna test him make those same comments on a guy friends instagram that you find hot!
Lara98

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I thought about that too lol. But all my guy friends have private accounts!
derekano

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lol could just start talking about how hot they are in front of him, every once in a while lol

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Lara98

I did, he said that she’s her friend and because she posts photos of her doing make up looks, he wants to support her page. Makes sense?

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derekano

depends. is he posting these kinds of comments on nonmakeup related selfies?

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Lara98

That’s all she posts

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Lara98

And it’s not every picture

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Lara98

Like every 5th photo

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derekano

i think its fine then. i wouldn't worry about it, he's just trying to help a friend out. lol if you wanna test him make those same comments on a guy friends instagram that you find hot!

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Lara98

I thought about that too lol. But all my guy friends have private accounts!

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derekano

lol could just start talking about how hot they are in front of him, every once in a while lol

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mark000h | 357 opinions shared on Dating topic.

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I don't see why not unless he's doing something else.

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Vikkrram | 271 opinions shared on Dating topic.

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Why not... anyone can be praised if they are really looking gorgeous...

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VikingWarLord | 384 opinions shared on Dating topic.

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You should be asking why you even have a boyfriend who would use those type of EMOJIS.

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Waldoe | 886 opinions shared on Dating topic.

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YES... why not? don't be a silly jealous bitch, you will drive EVERY guy away...

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awkward_author | 278 opinions shared on Dating topic.

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It depends on the post. What was it?

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Lara98

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A makeup look video
awkward_author

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That's fine. Maybe he just likes her makeup?
Lara98

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Do guys like makeup?
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awkward_author

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I do. It looks pretty, and lipstick is fun to try sometimes.
Lara98

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And that’s in a platonic way?
awkward_author

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Unless there's something a bit more flirty than that, I believe so.