Why do some men date really young women?

[Anonymous]

Iv been seeing this on TV lately and magazines...

[GreenLanternI0I]

Because younger women are a lot more attractive, they are still in their primal Golden fertile years, something that is EXTREMELY desirable by most men. Think about it, if a girl gave birth in her late teens or very early 20's. In 20 years, she still be looking like a young mother (late 30's or very early 40's) something that most women crave to be and look like, while having a fully grown 20 year old kid. It is a Triple win. She is happy, her husband is happy and her kids are happy, because they still have a younger mother who has enough energy left to hang out with a younger crowd if need be.

[Asker]

Well I'm not out to have any kids. And I'm 30 years old.

[Novacane]

Because dating older women is typically a headache for most men. 2 reasons come to mind quickly, the first would be the main one but having children, as we may know sadly women are on a timer when it comes to having kids so the older the harder it is for them to bear children so they go for younger since it can be safer. Another reason would be the characteristic that comes with older women. Older women tend to be more combative and don't typically listen, they also come with much higher standards than most younger women. Hence men will go for younger girls because they are less of a headache to them and are more likely to listen to them.

[laurieluvsit]

Some of it is for what most people would consider perverted reasons.

I could name a few but I won't, but as a rule, I don't see anything wrong with it since I am all about freedom.

[InYourHead]

Older guys tend to be more secure financially and emotionally and younger girls tend to be more beautiful so naturally this is something that happens. I don't see anything wrong with it

[bamesjond0069]

Because they make far better girlfriends than older women. Im 35 and my girlfriend is 19. here's some of my reasons:

Sexually inexperienced
Youthful appearance
Fertility years
Sweeter personality
Not stuck in her ways
hasn't committed to a certain lifestyle yet

Older women dont really have any advantages to make up for the negatives. Older women often say their career or income or education except men dont care about that stuff, so from a mans view older women have no advantages.

It also works out well because young women often really like older men, my girlfriend was only interested in dating men 5 to 20 years older than her. So she knew this is what she wanted before i ever met her, didn't take any convincing.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Why do some young women date really old men and ignore young men?
For the inverse you can at least argue it's about sex, and 9 times out of 10, sex will at least include love, but when a young woman only wants old guys, it screams gold digger.
Why do women not find gold diggers creepy af?
I see this a lot, women my age or in their 20s who just want a 50+ rich sugar daddy, it's gross.

[Djmbbasgerd]

cos young woman like old men for some reason, maybe u should be questioning them, not the men, its expected that the old man would say yes to the young woman, what did u think would happen? if young woman are into him ofcourse he would say yes, young woman are better looking than old woman, thats jus obvious, so a better question is why do u young woman find old men hot> if u have a problem with it go after ur own gender, not us

[Asker]

I'm straight and was just wondering. I'm 30 and I'm not sure if being a 30 is a turn off towards men?

[ArchivalMars2]

Short answer: men, in general, are drawn to attractive women and a lot of the time this is women in their early to late twenties. In the end, what man doesn't want an attractive woman? I'm pretty sure the answer is nobody.

[josephinelcajon]

I think they think mentally they are still young and chasing the girls of their dreams and at least some of those women are just there for a sugar daddy! It's really sad for both in my opinion.

[Chthou95]

Women want to have fun with the chads when they're young and then settle down with an average man. But men don't want to play by those rules. Why would i want a woman who waited to date me now that she's older when i can get some one younger and way more attractive?

[normalice]

My guess is guys assume younger girls are harder to disappoint. Could just be the firm ass, though.

[IMuser]

Because they are attractive, they have energy and enthusiasm. The old you get, the less enthusiasm you have for life

[Asker]

What about a 30 year old woman who doesn't want kids and has passionate career.. Is that a turn off?

[IMuser]

Depends, if she gives more criteria to her career than her boyfriend/husband, it's naturally a turn off. If a guy has the ability to get younger girls, he will naturally prefer them over women above 30 (women after late 20's start falling from their peak attractiveness)

Maybe the guy wants to start a family, in that case, it would be wise to be with a young woman because she will have more energy and time for her kids.

Makes sense?

[Asker]

So I don't get anyone simply because of my age? Even though I'm physically fit and financially free? People think I'm 21 years old etc etc... I would put my partner first in everything...

[IMuser]

It's not you, it's the guy's priorities. It's like saying why don't walk to nearby shops instead of driving? It's simple because they have the luxury to drive there (I know it's a weird example)

The fault is not yours, it's a matter of demand and supply. A guy hardly has a chance in 20's (I bet you would have guys flocking around you in your 20s, especially if you claim that you are fit in your 30s). It's not your fault and you really have no power over it.

Maybe a young guy is interested in you, after all you are attractive and have good financial Situation but the society considers a guy with an older woman effeminate (or undescribable).

I am a decade younger than you so I cannot tell you a lot, the only thing I can say is that don't be disappointed and take care of yourself. Rejection is something you are probably not used to (I am not sure how much a girl is rejected in dating market) but it's not the end of the world.

[Asker]

Iv been told I am attractive and beautiful and I have been rejected a lot so I don't contain any type of ego what so ever... I like older men or mature men at least of what I understand... Anyways... Thanks foe your response it was very helpful..

[Cowboy6666]

If you are open minded, looking for longer relationship, kind, not racist, don't want kids but want marriage, girly girl, single then you are my type and I would be interested in you for sure.

[Junior42]

Because they're attractive and sometimes they're a lot more fun
if you could please take a look & answer my question I would really appreciate it thank you so much

[Fireguy17]

probably for status.
I do not have any idea what they would have in common.

[VikingWarLord]

What is 'really young' to you?
Men have always dated younger women. How is this a new thing?

[Asker]

Like 20-22...

[Guanfei]

How is that hard to understand? If you have the choice between dating someone in her prime, or someone old, what would you choose?

[Asker]

So if the older woman had good qualities and is more physical fit and had a good sense of humor she would still get dumped for a younger girl?

[2021biguy]

Younger women aren't jaded by life with lots of hang ups. They seem more playful and happy. And everyone is attracted to beauty. But older women, I'm not saying you are, are harder to please.

[awkward_author]

Younger women are more physically attractive and interesting to be around than older women.

[Anonymous]

Because fucking a young, inexperienced pussy is exciting.

[Jintendo18]

Why not? I casually dated women in their 30’s when I was in my 20’s.

[In_Trance]

this is nothing new. Men are attracted to youth; women are attracted to maturity

[Nik1hil]

Young pussy is better.. And hotter sex

[JessieBellll]

Why do you have a fetish with female pedophiles then?

[Anonymous]

Because they're attractive, obviously.

[HeartFullOfGlue]

Cause they're easier to take advantage of

[rabbitzzz]

Because it's no one's business.

[Anonymous]

Because they're easier to manipulate

[Anonymous]

Because they're attractive and fun.

[Jamie05rhs]

Because the young women are available to date.

[moviedude714]

Such as half their age?

[convo_king89]

They are more attractive when their younger

[888theGreat]

rich, powerful, and famous men always have

[Anonymous]

They're more fertile.

[neeeeeeeko]

Because it's easier

[Asker]

So its harder dating older women?

[Asker]

I'm a 30 year old woman who doesn't wants kids or get married. The only thing il probly want is to be loved...

[neeeeeeeko]

Yes dating older women is generally more difficult. Younger people a less likely to be invested in their careers, less likely to have their own home, and less likely to have any children. All these make them easier to date because of the increased availability and the ability to move freely if needed.

[Anonymous]

Young women are fertile.

[Asker]

Is that what most men care about as they is having kids? I'm a 30 year old who is sure of not wanting kids..

[Opinion Owner]

I would imagine so.

[Asker]

What about the ones who don't want kids?

[Opinion Owner]

Inherent biological desire.

[Asker]

So like I can't get anyone who is older or my age?

[Opinion Owner]

You can, it is just harder. You might have to lower your standards.

[Asker]

My standards are that I don't want kids and I want a life partner who is my soulmate...

[Opinion Owner]

Well you should be able to find a guy like that.

[Zygum]

Young woman like old and experienced people

[fireforeffect]

Because they are insecure.

[slatyb]

Because they can.

[MrTaboo]

Cuter, less baggage.