Would you get romantically involved with a coworker? (Page 2)

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Even if in your office is allowed to do so but also because love is love? If you were in this couple shoes, would you still keep your relationship or break before things get complicated. When I was working in an company (I no longer work there since 2019 but I lasted there 15 years) there was a lady who now is 23 but when she began working in the company, she started when she was 20. The years passed and she started to get along real well with another coworker, who is 15 years older than her (she is now 23 and he is now 38). So they started to like each other when she was like 21 and he was much older of course (15 years difference). The guy before meeting this coworker he was involved with another coworker who was just 5 years younger than him. He started dating this other chick before the new one was hired in the office, they dated maybe 2 years they had an on and off kinda of relationship, to the point of she cheating on his coworker with a guy she alredy knew before, like a friend or something (the friend was not an employee of the company) . During this on and off relationship she got pregnant and people int he office thought the baby was the coworker`s baby, but it turn out it was not his, it was her friend baby, what a relief for the guy, so the lady broke off with the coworker obviously and she got married with the father of his baby, like one year later. Since they were an item and broke off in not good terms, the lady coworker did not even cross words or communication with her ex, she did not like to talk to her and if she had to for work reasons she used other coworkers to be her messenger, even if both were coworkers at the same company. Anyway they broke off and this new much younger lady got hired in the company, well it seems they hit it off well that they began to have some kind of a relationship like one year after the new lady was hired but not so serious still. In the office annual Christmas party of

Adam1978 · Answer

Not if I care about my work position. Which I usually do. Because if the relationship go sour, I need to not have to deal with her anymore.

ArchivalMars2 · Answer

Not if I can avoid it, besides a lot of the girls at my workplace are a little too young for my taste. Feels like I'm surrounded by children.

MrKinktastic · Answer

Never stick your dick where you eat. So no, I don’t date coworkers and haven’t since mg first real job when I was 17.

InYourHead · Answer

I dated one of my bosses before but not because I really wanted him, I just wanted the special treatment and raises

jshm2 · Answer

Don't be silly.  Office romances never workout, and are always awful to break. Plus you still have to work with that person.

CarolineW · Answer

Done this once or twice over the years. Doesn't usually end well.0

Cherry234 · Answer

I guess if I really like the person. It sounds like a huge mess though.

FreyaRed · Answer

Nope. I don't need gossiping or an ex on my workplace.

slatyb · Answer

Only if I could trust that person to behave maturely if be dated and then broke up.

Gingerguy33 · Answer

If I felt like I could marry the coworker I would do it but I wouldn’t never have a fling with a coworker

Twalli · Answer

I would not date a coworker because you may not always have an equal position and you still have to see each other daily even if you do break up.

jamesgoldman · Answer

Been there and done that, it was great and we only split amicably when she went to university so gave up the job as well

naraku · Answer

I think it would be fun but might end up badly if we broke up and it might be awkward etc. I've seen a few time's office relationships usually end up badly.

Mangospacho · Answer

I was in a relationship with a coworker. I ended up getting her pregnant while we were working together and everyone at the office knew I got her pregnant.

WhatMeow · Answer

I think if there is no power dynamic and you work in different departments it would be ok. Competing alongside your partner for promotions and such is not good for a relationship.

bowenw · Answer

Yes a few times. Married two of them. One is my current wife of many years.

RebeccaBI2000 · Answer

I stay away from my coworkers. I have mixed it only once and it did not go well

Dchrls78104 · Answer

Bad idea where I work; it's too toxic, the atmosphere, and people talk too much.

exitseven · Answer

I would probably say no but there are always exceptions.

hellacray · Answer

No... All my coworkers are either significantly older than me or married.

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